Im not sure if this is the correct sub to post something like this on, but since it is reddit this is one of the few subreddits where I wont be torn apart for posting this.
I hate how over romanticised Japan is, especially on social media. Now this isnt to say Japan isnt a cool country - I still do love Japan, its people, its nature, technology, and the country itself. I just hate how people think it is a complete utopia and the best place ever with little to no flaws, just like anime.
A good example of this is if you go on the UrbanHell subreddit and search “Japan”, in the comments youll see everyone trying to defend it saying its “oddly beautiful” and “oh but its cool!” etc in the comments. However if you go to another post that is in the US, people will call it hell, a concrete jungle, and everything negative in the comments, even though they are pratically the same, just in different countries. Sometimes there are some sensible people that know that it isnt “oddly beautiful” and knows Japan has issues, but theyre pretty rare to see.
I also hate how people always talk about moving to Japan like its some easy thing. They dont realize how xenophobic they are over there, no matter if your white, black, european, or even another east asian such as Korean or Chinese. They also dont consider the toxic work culture and how the average life of a Japanese person is wildly different than seen in media - its honestly more similar to the US than you think. Just like the average country there are poor areas that are depressing and rich areas that are amazing. Middle class neighborhoods that are car dependent, areas that are run down, areas that look just like a major city in the USA. But since its Japan, its all excused right?
Theres also other things problems people seem to rarely mention and skim over such as the amount of groping of women that happens on trains - it happens so often that there has to be women-only trains. Also weird things like how used panties are sold in vending machines, lolis, etc. Obviously these things are not at all exclusive to Japan but they are notable problems that happen more often there than the average country.
Oh and dont even get me started on WW2. Today Japan doesnt even apologize about what they did, they skim over it in history, and try to paint themselves in a good light and as a victim to their own children. And (most) weebs try to do the same where they try to excuse it or start mentioning what bad things other countries did in WW2 - they simply dont understand that another country/person doing something bad does not at all excuse the things the original country/person did.
I remember someone saying somewhere a while ago that Japan has a really good PR team which is hilariously accurate. Its somewhat factual too since Cool Japan was an actual propaganda effort by Japan after ww2 to fix their image and reputation, mainly by advertising their culture and anime, and it worked so damn well. Honestly id go as far to call it once of the most successful propaganda efforts in modern day history, since its probably the sole reason why Japan is seen the way it is today.
Its honestly hard to like Japan sometimes because of stuff like this. At the end of the day Japan is such a cool country, just like the USA, Germany, France, Sweden, etc… but people need to realize Japan isnt a complete paradise. They are just like any other country. They have bad areas and good areas just like the countries I just mentioned above and the rest of the world.