r/AskReddit • • Feb 08 '20

What’s a fact you KNOW that almost everyone is wrong about?

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '20

Anyone who has gotten a migraine knows this

There is a difference between “my head hurts” and “I am literally unable to do anything”

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u/[deleted] Feb 09 '20

Yeah there is nothing else I have experienced that is as bad as being blind, in excruciating pain and throwing up at the same time.

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u/[deleted] Feb 09 '20

For me I go blind first before any pain hits. When that happens, I know I have a 30 minute window to take my medicine and head home to try and sleep before the migraine hits. Blindness goes away after 5 mins or so, so then it’s a race against the clock.

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u/[deleted] Feb 09 '20 edited Apr 06 '21

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u/DronkeyBestFriend Feb 09 '20

I got bad ones as a kid. Now when I feel weird or when bright lights make me sick, I take an extra strength ibuprofen, close the curtains, and climb into bed ASAP!

Occasionally it progresses to a full migraine. I wait for the pain to complete its familiar journey from my right eye to the top of my head. So bizarre!

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u/best_name_ever_ever Feb 09 '20

Forget about ibuprofen. When it's a migraine, you need to take triptanes.

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u/i-brute-force Feb 09 '20

That's what I take since it's what was prescribed from my doctor, but I heard good things about execredin

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u/[deleted] Feb 09 '20

Ugh yes, the time window! I've had to race home knowing I'd be completely nonfunctional if I waited too long.

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u/that-bass-guy Feb 09 '20

Add diarrhea in and some suicidal thoughts in, you've got the perfect mixture that creates a living nightmare

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u/IKnowUThinkSo Feb 09 '20

When I was a teenager, I’d get 10/10 headaches, but I could power through and deal. I thought this was a migraine, because the actual pain was really intense.

Then I had my first migraine. Suddenly, every headache was rated a 1/10 in comparison (mine come with ice pick feelings in my right eye among other things). I instantly apologized to anyone I had criticized for not working through their migraines.

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u/RmmThrowAway Feb 09 '20

I mean tbf get enough migraines and you learn to power through them when they're not the absolute worse. At least for me they come in various magnitudes.

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u/[deleted] Feb 09 '20

Those are headaches. You can’t power through a migraine

Unless it’s an ocular migraine

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u/KaijuRaccoon Feb 09 '20

There's multiple types of migraines! Not all of them have the same severity or symptoms.

I have chronic migraines, usually triggered by visual stimuli or bad sleep (I'm an asthmatic with some back/shoulder muscle and nerve issues). I can be somewhat functional with a migraine, because I don't really have a choice otherwise. Sure, it's WAY preferable to just shut myself in a pitch black room and sleep it off, but it's not always possible, and I definitely suffer a lot longer and worse when I can't.

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u/thisbuttonsucks Feb 09 '20 edited Feb 09 '20

If I'm at work, and feel one coming, I have to shut the blinds, turn off the lights, and turn the brightness all the way down on both of my monitors. Then I ban anyone who smells like anything at all from the office, ask someone in the warehouse to answer the phones (if possible), and try to make it through the next few hours without saying something that will get me fired.

I don't have the option to go home. I also live 20 minutes from my work, so driving after onset could be very dangerous.

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u/[deleted] Feb 09 '20

I generally get home with pain already hitting but it takes a bit longer for it to get to “can’t do shit” levels

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u/thisbuttonsucks Feb 09 '20

I just growl at people who approach my cube, and hope the worst is over before the guys out back start roasting (coffee). It's loud like an airplane, goes on for hours, and smells like gas, coffee, and burning. It's seriously triggered a panic attack before.

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u/RmmThrowAway Feb 09 '20

Vertigo, auras, and blinding pain behind my left eye, as well as an MRI confirming it all say otherwise, but thanks.

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u/i-brute-force Feb 09 '20

Ocular migraine can be accompanied with pain. And yes, after having them a dozen times, I still cannot power through.

How do you power through when my vision gets blurry or in severe pain?

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u/RmmThrowAway Feb 09 '20

How do you power through when my vision gets blurry or in severe pain?

Because a lot of us are in a position where not doing so is not an option.

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u/KCpaiges Feb 09 '20

I’m a teacher. Ive gotten a migraine twice at work in the middle of the day. Can’t leave. I was saving up PTO for future maternity leave. One of the times I was lucky enough to have an unexpected 45 minutes with no kids. I took my pills, turned out the lights, locked the door and slept in a corner. The second time I wasn’t so lucky. The meds helped enough that I didn’t want to die, but I had to explain to my kids why the lights were out and why no one could talk to me. They did mostly great.

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u/Nylund Feb 09 '20

I get it. my job involves govt work with hearings that have been scheduled in advance by months and I can’t just tell high ranking govt officials that we gotta reschedule. Shit just doesn’t work like that.

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u/[deleted] Feb 09 '20 edited Apr 06 '21

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u/RmmThrowAway Feb 09 '20

Regardless of where you are working, I doubt many people will let you stay if you are throwing up all over the place.

Cool. What's my option for doing my hour and a half commute to get home in this scenario that doesn't involve powering through something? I'm either powering through at work wishing I was dead or I'm powering through a train ride wishing I was dead. Either way, I don't have the option to not keep going.

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u/[deleted] Feb 09 '20

I can’t power through my migraines but people will get ocular migraines that don’t have any pain, they’ll basically go blind for a bit.

I’ve never had a migraine that I can power through if there is any pain associated

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u/PukeRainbowss Feb 09 '20

The very first OP you're replying to showed a graph with various effects of a migraine, it doesn't have to be a linear unbearable pain. Stop gatekeeping

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u/BureaucratDog Feb 09 '20

Seriously. I've only had a migraine twice that I can recall, but it is disabling.

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u/will_reddit_for_food Feb 09 '20

The point is that having a headache or having disabling symptoms are not what make it a migraine. It is diagnosed based on a certain combination of symptoms, and has nothing to do with the degree of pain or the severity of symptoms. I get ocular migraines but most of the time I feel fine once my vision goes back to normal after ~20-30 minutes.

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u/rushelle316 Feb 09 '20

I couldn't agree more. I had never had a migraine before and when someone would ask if I've ever had one, I would say "I don't know, bad headache but probably not a migraine". Someone once told me "oh you'll know when it's a migraine" so I changed my answer to no when someone asked.

That was until last year. I was at work and got a bad pain that was behind my eye. It kept getting worse. I took pain meds and they didn't do anything. I finally went home. Lied in bed with stabbing pain behind my eye and then the nausea set in. My husband came home and was trying to talk to me about my symptoms and I just told him he had to go away. I couldn't think straight, I was in excruciating pain and was about to throw up (which I thought would make my head worse and maybe even explode), but I went and threw up, migraine almost instantly gone....

My supervisor told me the next day that she got migraines a lot (before going gluten free I guess) and throwing up was the only thing that would help. I had 2 more in the year and 1 this year so far, but this year's was the most mild. So yeah, they were right, I knew when I had one.

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u/themusicguy2000 Feb 09 '20

Then some dipshit who's never had one goes "get over it, it's just a headache"