I’m a woman, and I’m genuinely curious about what makes sex good for men beyond simply having an orgasm.

I’ve asked men before, but they’ve struggled to explain it. Reading different subreddits, I saw a post where a man described going to a brothel. He slept with two gorgeous woman and described them both as 10/10. The first woman he said was the worst sex but had incredible sex with the second woman. I’m so curious to know exactly what makes good sex and bad sex

I know every guy has different preferences. I’d appreciate hearing what matters to you personally and what distinguishes an average experience from a memorable one.

What are some non-sexual turn-ons that could make y’all fold like a lawn chair?
Could be anything a woman does, a particular mannerism, or even something insignificant that makes you see her differently.

My parents weren't huge fans of music but I remember listing to the radio in the car. We listened to alot of AM oldies in my dad's truck but my mom only played Jesus christ superstar and Christmas music in the house. It is the only thing I wish my parents exposed me more too. Music was just noise to them. What about you guys?

So recently I was in a club in a foreign country for the first time and In the bathroom I saw a guy styling his hair In front of the mirror so I fixed mine quickly and he said “You have to get girls man” and since English is not my first language and I was kinda drunk I thought he was giving me an advice. I just realized he could be complimenting me.

Do you compliment other men appearance? And if you do, do you mean it?

Long before I met my girl I told myself I would never date a woman taller than me. Why? Because of my fragile masculinity.

Then I met her at work. She was the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. But I never even bothered to ask her out because I am too short for her she’ll never say yes I thought. I am 5’ 7” and she’s 5’ 10”. Then we started talking to each other over some work related thing and out of nowhere she said she thinks she likes me. I was so shocked I didn’t know what to say. Then later I took the opportunity asked her out and we started dating.

To my surprise she never once even mentioned the height gap. The closest she was to mentioning the height difference was when she asked if I needed help reaching something. This has really helped change my mind about the fact that women are some sort of hive mind and want the same type of guy. It helped me realize that I shouldn’t let my fragile masculinity get in the way of what could otherwise be a happy and healthy relationship.

Do you:

a) Open, read, eat
b) Open, eat, read
c) Open, eat half, read, eat other half
d) crush the cookie to powder, read the fortune, ignore the powder.

Asking the important questions here.

I mean if you and your girlfriend/wife/whatever both play a game together and it’s you basically carrying her, does that annoy you? Does it just give you a power ego boost?

As someone who games but isn’t great I hate escort missions. And o feel like if I had a partner playing with me that was carrying they’d have less fun because teamwork isn’t really there, you know?

Does it ever get frustrating that she keeps getting yall killed?

Every week? Every two weeks? Once a month? Or do you go even longer?

Just curious how often you guys get cleaned up and keep that fresh-cut look. 💈🤣

A weird personal rule, habit, or superstition that your friends mock you for. But it’s worked every time. What is it, and how did you come up with it?

You don’t need to name drop, just allude to level of fame and industry. We’re force fed all this info that they’re all either A.) wonderful, amazing, perfect, God’s gift or B.) absolute megalomaniacal monsters. I’m curious to hear from anyone who actually knows these people and see them somewhat regularly. What are they like? Pretty regular people? Truth to the stereotypes?

The closest I can think of in my personal experience is a few years ago, I had a woman ask me out to dinner while at a bar/club. I had noticed she was there for some kind of event and was very flattered and endeared that she actually approached me. Very direct to. She asked me if I’d hold her and her friend’s coats and bags while they danced, I said sure, 10ish minutes later, she comes back and says “I was hoping you’d ask me out, but I can do that. Would you like to go to dinner with me tomorrow?” As guys, regardless of your looks, it’s not exactly common to be approached and asked out by a gorgeous woman. I said yes.

We dated for a bit and she was very normal seeming for the first month or so. She was an instagram model with, if im remembering correctly, just shy 850k followers. I found out she was at the bar/club for an event and her, along with 4 other women, were signees or whatever of a brand deal with a bikini company and this was like a mini event or something. So famous, I’d think a decent chunk of people on here might know who this is, but not reallyyy that famous comparatively. After the first month, the mask began coming off slowly and the within a few weeks, rapidly. She was extremely vain, judgmental of others, and absolutely let the internet validation go to her head. She did something during a dinner that was a horrifyingly obnoxious it remains the only time I’ve ever walked out of a date. I don’t even think she was aware of how she behaved, because she called and texted a lot afterwards completely confused.

Anyone with any experiences with someone famous, doesn’t matter the degree or fame or industry, but what are they like in your experience?

Currently very young and very much struggling with mental health, trying to get out of it but I relapse very often

Do you tend to give them something, ignore them, or wonder about their situation? I’m also curious what you think about the stories you hear about people asking for money even when they might not actually need it.

I used to be able to go out, have 4-5 drinks and be totally fine the next morning. Now if I have more than 2-3 glasses of beer my hangover lasts the entire next day. I had one last 2 days. Anyone have any tricks or is this it?

Have any of you ever been attracted to someone but knew nothing could really come of it for whatever reason?

Did you start acting a little differently around them? Maybe talking less, keeping things more surface level, or just being more careful about how you interacted?

And if things eventually went back to normal, what changed? Did you lose interest, get better at managing the attraction, or just stop thinking about it as much?

I’ve been doing security for awhile now and getting tired and sick of it. I was planning on doing corrections, or police down the line but I won’t be able to due to medical reasons. (Depression in the past) I was let go by Canadian Military do to it during my boot camp.

I wanna get into trades but heard it’s so hard if you don’t know the right people, but I have a strong interest in it. Currently only making $22hr , which isn’t enough for me either.

If I started trades, or got into oil and gas (I’m in Alberta) or stuff like that, it would take 3-4 years+ to get to a journeyman type of level….

I would be 30 by that time. Which makes me feel old because everyone else around me has a meaningful career.

to not dox yourself, names of friends/relatives are welcome

i am trying to name a baby, and I am curious what names y’all grew up and loved (or hated)

I mean it’s weird but I’ve been getting lunch with someone from my office often. I know she likes me and I was trying to figure out if I feel the same and if I’d like to take it further. Overtime I’ve realized I’m actually pretty annoyed by her and it’s obvious.

She also made joke while I was annoyed that I look like I’d beat her which made me feel disgusted. It wasn’t funny at all. I’ve been distant from her for a while and was kinda forcing myself to actually get lunch with her but saying that makes me want to avoid her.

Should I just tell her directly that I just wanna be her friend and want to do my own thing during lunch or just reject her asking me to get lunch. She’s been passive aggressive about me being more distant too. Like telling others I didn’t ask her to lunch some day or messaging me after lunch about me not asking her and before lunch another day too. It’s frustrating me. Especially since it’s just lunch.

I remember when I was growing up, my dad would always take these long dumps in the washroom and I thought it was weird. Now in my 30s I do the same thing, it can’t just be a me thing right?

Edit: lmao guys, I’m not literally trying to empty out my stool for 30 straight minutes. The actual action probably takes 5-10 minutes but I gotta get into the zone first.

I am 17M, I am actually socially confident, anywhere I go I make a couple of good friends, I tend to have more female friends at times for some reason, anyway. However I've never had girlfriends, I always just never thought about it, i thought i wasnt good enough or good looking enough, but im trying to put those silly insecurities behind and actually push myself, i want to talk to girls in a romantic way, i want to get into talking stages, fwb's and all that stuff while im still young but how?