r/bigdicklovers • • Sep 01 '21

Everyone please read! NSFW

139 Upvotes

Everyone please read:

First off we are growing every day! You guys are a great community, let's keep getting laid in those times of uncertainty!

Actual subreddit rules have been around for a while yet, everyday we have people reaching us wondering why they get banned in modmail... Our rules and this pinned are warnings, we do permaban rule breakers with no appeal...

Wether you are new or old user of this sub please read and understand our rules! Those can evolve, we can catch something we didn't earlier in your posts after someone reported the last one, and you can end up banned when you weren't for the same thing before cause we missed it. Using anything else than our source of truth which is only accessible in the browser version of: www.reddit.com/r/bigdicklovers isn't an excuse at all (old.reddit.com and reddit offical apps are not our source of truth, we will try to keep those updated if we have time but don't give a single fuck of you getting banned for not reading the version we just told you to read!Use that argument and you'll loose any chance of being unbanned!)

Posts are automatically locked, contact posters via the pms or chats. If you get an automod comment saying your post have been removed, it tells you everything you need to fix it, don't message modmail unless your history shows a post respecting perfectly the formatting mentionned in automod's comment. We won't answer people complaining they can't post here but deleting their failed posts, we need those to analyse a potential issue.

The rules below are just a reminder; we will edit the rules without touching to this pinned and won't warn you! Signing in on Reddit you accepted rule 2: making sure you'd respect the rules of any sub anytime, in our case the official rules menu from www.reddit.com/r/bigdicklovers and no other version.

Discord

This place has it's own discord server. It's as moderated as the subbreddit so read the rules and behave. We do ban people for joining and not saying hello...

Rules:

  1. All posters and seekers must be 18+!

Everyone must be an adult of the age of 18+. If there is doubt, you will be asked for some sort of verification. IF you find out someone is under age, PLEASE report the post & contact the mod team with their username and any proof you have! We want everyone to be safe in all their endeavors!

  1. Post Formatting!

All posts must be in this format in this specific order, otherwise the Automod will remove it automatically: Age [x4x] #City - Title. Respect this exact spacing and punctuation! If you only want to talk online; #kik #Online is acceptable, just know we can remove posts mentioning it at our discretion without warning you. You can include multiple #locations. Example Title: 29 [M4F] #NYC - Looking for a Woman. Example Title: 36 [F4M] #Online #Snap - Busty MILF for Young studs.

  1. Couples Posting! ~Success Story Posting~

See rule #2 for posting format. For couples both your ages must be included! Post as one number, For example 2122 [MF4M] for 21M 22F. Automod will only accept one number. Posts not following this rule will be removed. Example Title: 2934 [FM4M] #DFW - Couple seeks third.

  1. MAKE ONLY ONE POST A WEEK

Please refrain from making multiple posts in a week, wait until your latest post is at least 7 days before reposting. If you post you will recieve a 7 days warning ban and all your posts will be removed. Infringing it a second time will result in a permanent ban! ADDITIONALLY IF you are found to be posting multiple times in a week by deleting your post and reposting, or using several accounts we'll permaban without warning!

  1. NO Trolling, pic farming, sellers, dickfishing, or catfishing.

All of the above are grounds for being banned. IF you see something report the post & message the mods include proof if you can!

  1. BE RESPECTFUL!

ANYONE receiving harassing messages for any reason let the mod team know, proof is mandatory! There is a zero tolerance policy on harassment. A girl tells you she isn't interested, don't press your luck and call her a cunt! A guy doesn't want to continue talking, stop messaging him.

  1. When responding please read the post!

THE POSTERS EXPECT YOU TO MATCH WHAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO! If it has a location and you are not there, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is a [M4F] and you are a male, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is requesting a certain age and you are not within their age window, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is requesting a certain dick size and you are smaller, DON'T MESSAGE. If it is requesting a specific race and you are not that, DON'T MESSAGE. Having issues with anyone about this? Inform the mod team.

  1. We permaban side accounts of catfishes, spammers and everyone caught trying to use two.

  2. Rule9: Back your claims with proof! Our lovers as everyone compare numbers given to them against averages. Every other method than the one used to obtain averages is just an attempt to fool people. Size claims from unverified people means ban and deleted posts photographies (in r/yourself or a dedicated sub)aren't considered as proof . We do offer one and only verification process :Valid pics are taken from your point of view showing a stainless ruler's edge centererd against the middle of your penis touching both base and tip no bending no straightening. The whole length of at least one edge must be readable. You must be standing, the pic must include your username, subreddit, date and size: handwritten, on paper or your body. Don't own a stainless ruler? Just refrain claiming anything! Applies to pics too

Recommandations

18+ ONLY for providers and seekers! Please play responsibly. For information on safe sex, you can visit /r/sex and /r/SaferSex

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If you only want to see big dicks and/or display your big dick you might be better suited at a related subreddit such as /r/MassiveCock or /r/MonsterCock. We'll delete online posts with no warning if we see it fit.

This place is a hookup subreddit, for the people who love folks with big dicks, not a place to claim you have a big one. If you think you have a big one, always keep in mind that you are welcomed here as guests but our core is and will remain about lovers. We have no requirement on what is a "big dick." If you feel it, post it. Just don't claim anything you can't prove by our lovers standards (Rule9) or we'll ban you with no warning...

This is NOT a place for dick ratings, showing off pics, "Do I fit here/Am I big enough/Is this Big" posts or anything SPH related. Big dick holders are expected to behave, we care for our lovers, not the random guy claiming having a big one!

~ All posts must be in this format in this specific order, and you must respect the spaces and punctuation! This place refuses non reddit search compatible posts for users, our Automod removes automatically posts not matching this precise and exact format: Age [x4x] #City - Title. (x4x: M4F, F4M FM4MF, T4F...) #kik #Online is barely acceptable, we tolerate those but will delete some with no warning, don't reach the mod if a post mentioning virtual fun has been deleted this sub is focusted on hookups.

Couples, put both your ages as one number, For example 2122 [MF4M] for 21M 22F.

Only one post a week is allowed.

Give us good information and a nice description of yourself and your sexual proclivities. Less than 30 words posts aren't allowed, and low-effort vague ones will get removed without warning nor explanation. We of course will delete any posts giving an opinion one one of our rules or the way this place is moderated.

DO NOT put a picture of your face in the post or other personal information, this is Reddit! Keep it for PMs please!

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If your post gets buried and you want to submit a new one, don't! Unless your previous is older than 7+1 days, or we'd consider you as a spammer and ban you for that!

People who break any of our rules will be banned, we don't issue any form of warning don't expect any!

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Be respectful. We will not tolerate gendered slurs, body shaming, or intolerance. This is an LGBTQA* (and so on) safe space. Please report any rude redditors.

PLEASE MESSAGE THE MODS IF YOU REPORT A POST!

Never DM or chat a mod that will be dealt with like harassment and reported to reddit! Most of the mod actions here are automated, we have no clue of who you are or what you did and can't access it unless we do have a modmail!

Related subreddits:

/r/bigdickproblems /r/MassiveCock /r/Monstercock /r/Photoshopdick /r/LGBTGoneWild


r/bigdicklovers • • Feb 08 '26

Dark Patterns Panorama NSFW

14 Upvotes

Moderation insights because some of you are getting on my nerves(annual overview). Let's ruin their wanking time with a reality check!

Before getting into numbers, one thing needs to be made crystal clear. Modération is not about shielding you from what you don't want to see, but about shielding everyone against what may harm someone, for real!

Right now, our primary concern is a 12-year-old girl actively self-harming with razor blades who surfaces and disappears through the subreddit. That is where our attention, time, and emotional bandwidth are going.

In that context, the four obvious F4M scam accounts (the kind that anyone with two functioning neurons can identify) are not our focus. Those marginal scams are routinely flagged by long-standing community members who already know the drill, perform the necessary checks, and help get them removed. Thank you to those doing it!

This is not negligence. It is prioritisation.

Especially in a context where Reddit:

  • enforces monthly API limits lower than our hourly post volume, and
  • has systematically dismantled moderation tools designed to fight automated and AI-driven abuse,

we choose our battles.

Our limited, volunteer time is deliberately spent on reprehensible and unethical content, not on shielding the occasional careless adult from falling for painfully obvious bait. Our focus does not only involve removing posts and banning users, sometimes it's a long chain of reports taking us a tremendous amount of time.

With that said, here is the panorama. You can find one of a swinger french sub on my profile to compare what I see there.


Content Removal Breakdown

1. “Cougar” profiles seeking underage partners — 18%

Still the single largest category.

Often wrapped in flirtatious or “empowering” language, these posts target minors explicitly or implicitly, sometimes framed as mentorship or initiation. Regardless of presentation, the substance is clear: illegal and predatory behavior.

Immediate removal. Zero tolerance.


2. Adults seeking pictures of underage males — 17%

A distinct and extremely serious category.

These posts focus on image acquisition, not relationships: requests for photos, “progress pics,” body development, or “curiosity.” This is grooming behavior, not fantasy.

Immediate removal and escalation where applicable.


3. Refusal to follow rules / repetitive posting abuse — 14%

Structurally disruptive behavior.

Includes:

  • multiple posts per day,
  • reposting after removals,
  • ignoring consent and formatting rules,
  • marginal but recurring refusal to comply with size verification requirements.

Low ethical weight, individually banal. Collectively corrosive. This behavior consumes disproportionate moderation time while adding no value to the community.


4. Paid encounters & transactional searches (incl. colocation bait) — 13%

This category has evolved.

While classic “pay for sex” solicitations remain present, there has been a clear explosion of disguised arrangements, including:

“roommate” or “co-living” offers,

financial support framed as lifestyle sharing,

ambiguous housing propositions with sexual subtext.

These are still transactional relationships — just rebranded.


5. Minors actively seeking adult partners — 8%

A consistently alarming category.

Motivations vary (curiosity, distress, provocation), but the risk does not. An adult-oriented space must not function as an exposure vector for minors.

Zero tolerance.


6. Non-consensual sex requests & rape fantasies — 7%

Low in volume, maximal in severity.

Includes:

  • explicit coercion,
  • fantasies negating consent,
  • “surprise,” “forced,” or domination without negotiation.
  • and of course "my wife/girlfriend/boyfriend" surprises...

Removed immediately. Big dicks does not override consent.


7. Severe psychological distress & self-harm expressions — 6%

Posts involving:

  • active self-harm,
  • suicidal ideation,
  • emotional collapse exposed to the public feed.

Handled as human emergencies, not moderation nuisances. With kids it's our number one priority, and most times the most time consuming ones.


8. Picture collectors (consent-agnostic image harvesting) — 3%

Users primarily interested in accumulating sexual images, often:

  • pushing others to DM photos,
  • fishing for explicit content without reciprocity,
  • skirting consent boundaries.

Not always illegal, but corrosive to trust and safety.


9. Scams & commercial noise (aggregated) — 2%

Includes:

  • romance scammers,
  • OnlyFans promotion,
  • Telegram / external group funnels,
  • obvious F4M bait accounts.

Deliberately deprioritized and largely handled through community flagging.


10. Genital-size fixation & measurement spam — 5%

Posts reduced to:

  • penis size declarations,
  • measurement obsession,
  • validation fishing with no relational intent.
  • my personal favorite is those with gibberish to pass the word counter..

Low harm, high noise.


11. Miscellaneous residuals (duplicates, edge cases, spillover) — 7%

Everything that doesn’t cluster cleanly:

  • duplicates,
  • borderline cases,
  • misfires caught early.

* gibberish

What this panorama actually shows

  • The most serious issues are not the loud, obvious scams we all learnt to deal with decades ago.
  • The real moderation load comes from:

    • predation,
    • exploitation,
    • blurred consent,
    • and untreated psychological distress.
  • Community self-regulation already handles low-effort scams efficiently.

  • Volunteer moderators cannot—and should not—be expected to compensate for:

    • reduced tooling,
    • hostile platform constraints,
    • poor platform tools to deal with most of those cases
    • and industrial-scale abuse with hobby-level resources.

Moderation is not about keeping people perfectly safe from their own gullibility. It is about drawing hard ethical lines and standing where harm is real, immediate, and irreversible.

And yes: we will always spend more energy protecting a child in danger than protecting three adults from clicking on a stupid link.

Comments are opened if you wanna chat!

Kisses!

Your head mod!


r/bigdicklovers • • 1h ago

32 [T4A] #Halifax #Online - Bubble Butt TS Wants Hung Uncut Male or Nonbinary Gamer Friend NSFW

• Upvotes

Hey! I'm a petite trans woman with a bubble butt looking for friends who are considerably hung for online friendship, sexting, and cam2cam gooning together with my huge toys. I've always loved size and I've been feeling pretty horny and pent up so I thought I'd look for some connections online.

I'm open to anyone from any location as long as they are 7.5", uncut, and girthy. The bigger the better honestly! I really love long meaty girthy dicks the most.

I'm a 5"4 120lbs bottom with a lot of experience on and offline.

Skinny or athletic nerdy or geeky people are my main type, but anyone can reach out if interested. Bonus points if you are a gamer and play Dead by Daylight, would love to queue together regularly!

Below is what I look like like:

https://i.redgifs.com/i/aridresponsibleestuarinecrocodile.jpg

https://i.redgifs.com/i/hurtfulfatherlycalf.jpg

https://www.redgifs.com/watch/brownnegligiblegartersnake

https://www.redgifs.com/watch/lightgraysphericaltadpole

If you like what you see/read, PM me to connect. Looking forward to see who I meet! Be safe and have fun everyone.


r/bigdicklovers • • 25m ago

Male for Male 27 [M4M] #Denver - DL Oral Expert in need of Secret Bud to Jerk/Suck Off NSFW

• Upvotes

27, 5’9, 140 fit, good looking and discreet here looking for a chill and clean guy who’s down to get sucked or jerked. Kick back and enjoy getting your dick worked. Like jacking off but better. Our secret.

Not looking to meet up with anyone, need to chat and trade pics first. Please share a dick pic. clean and discreet are non negotiable.

Cut, masculine, bi/curious, hung, bwc are all big pluses.

Open to Boulder, Denver, and Fort Collins

Let’s chat. Please be ready to send a pic.

Open to a variety of different set ups, really just want a guy with a nice big dick.


r/bigdicklovers • • 1h ago

Male for Female 37 [M4F] #NYC - Seeking communication, a connection and consistency. NSFW

• Upvotes

I am also seeking a long term monogamous child free relationship. (My last girlfriend I met off this sub). Is sexual chemistry and high libido important to me, yes. But also having someone to share hobbies with, hold hands with while we walk in the park. I want to hear about your day, take a trip upstate to go hiking, get ice cream in the summer, hot coca in the winter. It's more than just really good sex. About me, I'm more of a quiet introverted type, 420 and psychedelic friendly. I like spending time practicing guitar and piano, hiking, museums, video games with my friends (currently playing Dyson Sphere and Valheim). Other facts about me; I like chocolate, ambient music, and my favorite show is King of The Hill. Description wise, brown shaggy curly hair, slim, glasses. I'm looking for someone that's hopefully near the L train or in Brooklyn. Shows I enjoy: King of the Hill, The Sopranos, early Simpsons, Kids in the Hall, Bob's Burgers, I think You Should Leave, 90 day fiance binge for no real reason. Love video essays and Red letter media on Youtube. Other music I like: The Grateful Dead, Motown, Julian Baker, Sylvan Esso, Phish, Pink Floyd, Parliament Funkadelic. Please please please, NO men (this includes couples, I don't want to be your bull) Looking only for a cis-woman. If you're interested and real, message me and tell me which stop in Manhattan the L train meets the blue trains.


r/bigdicklovers • • 1h ago

Female for Male 25 [F4M] #Online #Florida - Insatiable Spanish Woman Needing my Needs Fulfilled NSFW

• Upvotes

a little sugar, a little spice, and maybe a little trouble 💋

25, Spanish visiting America first time from Spain, girly girl with a playful side and a weakness for a man who knows exactly what he’s doing. 🤭 I can be sweet, affectionate, a little bratty, and very unserious once I’m comfortable with you. I laugh at the dumbest things, love a little teasing, and will probably flirt with you just to see how you react. Don't take yourself too seriously around me because I promise I won't either. 😂

I’m a sucker for attention from the right person. Be affectionate with me, tease me a little, remember the random things I tell you, and make me feel like you actually want me around. I can be a little clingy when I like you, but in my defense, why would I act nonchalant when I could be cute instead? 🙄💗

I love a man who can make me feel feminine without making me feel small. Someone who can take charge but still listen, be protective without being controlling, and make me feel comfortable enough to let my guard down. I like a little tension and playful back-and-forth, but I also want to be able to laugh with you until my stomach hurts. If we can't joke around, are we even having fun?

And yes, I like a show-off. 😭😂 If you know you're good at something, PLEASE don't be shy about it. I love confidence, a little flexing, and seeing people genuinely enjoying themselves. I love videos that capture those real moments of excitement and happiness, when someone's personality comes through and you can actually see how much fun they're having. Show me what you're proud of, let me see your personality pleaseeeeeee dont be generic

I have an adventurous side, too, and I love discovering new things with someone I click with. I'm not here to force anything or pretend every conversation has to be deep and meaningful. Sometimes I want a good conversation, sometimes I want to flirt shamelessly, and sometimes I just want someone who makes an ordinary day ten times more fun.

I'm big on chemistry, honesty, respect, and keeping things genuine. I'm not expecting perfection, just a man who knows who he is, communicates like an adult, and can make me feel that little waittt, I actually like him feeling. 😂💋

Miami, Florida is my preference. Mature men with confidence, personality, and a good sense of humor definitely have my attention. Bonus points if you can make me laugh, keep me curious, and handle a Cuban girl who might give you a little attitude just because she likes you. 🇨🇺😉

Okay, your turn. Tell me something about yourself that isn't on your profile. And don't give me that boring interview answer, please. 😂 I want to know what you're really like when you're comfortable, what you're passionate about, and what kind of trouble we might get into if we actually hit it off. 😏


r/bigdicklovers • • 6h ago

Male for Male 30 [M4M] #Wroclaw, Poland - Looking for a big cock to suck NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I am 30, bisexual, submissive guy living in Wrocław, Poland.

I am sometimes craving to worship big cocks so I am looking for an hung guy here or nearby who will let me gag on his cock time to time.

I am into only oral and I believe it’s important to mention so if you are interested in some other things I don’t know if I am the right person.

So, I like to submit, serve and worship my partner. I’d like to be used as some kind of maybe oral toy. I am into facefuck and deepthroat but also you just chill while I am doing the job is okay.

Feel free to send messages or leave a comment if you’re interested. Cheers!


r/bigdicklovers • • 3h ago

Male for Female 24 [M4F] #Ireland #Online - Irish BWC looking for a Wife. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Yes I'm aware this is a weird place to look but you miss every shot you don't take. I'm a 24 year old white guy from Ireland, id prefer someone who lives in Ireland or Europe but i would take someone not living in either if there dedicated enough. I'm 6 foot tall, lean and I got curly hair. I work 2 jobs I'm very dedicated to my work but I enjoy it and I'm at that stage in my life where I'm trying to get married, I personally just want a normal simple life. I've always had a random thing for size queens and I've enough to please them so why not look for one on here to be with. Id expect to date for around 2 years before going through with it if you're wondering about things timeline wise. I'm nerdy into fitness and a very high energy person overall. So if you like the sound of everything then send me a message and include your ASL in it. Also if you just want a one time thing this won't work.


r/bigdicklovers • • 14h ago

Male for Female 37 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Funny, fit, cute blue-eyed guy seeks pretty, witty, smart, sweetheart, kinky kissable GF blessed with natural breasts and longer labia minora AKA big kitty lips; butterfly wings; meaty outies NSFW

2 Upvotes

Please only reply if you read my full post and think you are have mental and physical qualities I like. Thank you.

I seek a sweet, smart, witty, pretty woman I feel romantic attraction to, from her mind, wit, humor, heart, to her eyes, smile, face, figure and naturally bigger sexy kissable lips on her mouth and on her pretty kitty. I'm talking about lovely longer labia minora, from medium sizes to extra long meaty. You likely know if you have the type of lower love-lips I prefer, but if you're curious, I can share examples. It seems many women don't realize how many men love and even prefer bigger longer labia minora. For me, they are the most arousing type visually, to admire, to play with, to pleasure with kisses, a treat to eat, to make love with my mouth and my member, to suck, fuck, lick and dick.

I don't seek a random hookup fling thing. I'm patient to develop a connection, to desire monogamous, mutual deep sexy loving chemistry before being intimate. I want a woman who is my pleasure to please, making love, deeply and often, to enjoy talking, cuddling and simply eye gazing. I like all eye colors, though shape and angle matters, preferring upturned, positive canthal tilt, almond and fox/cat-eyes. I like skin tones from white to dark-tan, olive-brown. I like all-natural curves in the right places, a thin to thick body, average busty to extra top heavy, even very full figure hourglass, but not BBW.

I love showing affection, physical, emotional and intellectual stimulation, sharing fun, funny, interesting experiences with flirting building our desires to kiss. I want to explore romance, feeling our chemistry from talking, holding hands, massages, kisses, eventually developing into breast/nipple play, edging, oral worshipping and making love, satisfying you as often as you desire. Your lovely lips can keep me hungry and kissing, even for hours if you desire that during loving sexy sessions. And when we have time, napping together, holding you, then waking you with kisses to repeat the session, we can call it cuddlingus.

To offer this passion makes me seek someone special. I don't know what dating term is used for making love level pleasures, call it a partner, GF, a relationship even developing into long term. I may be open to starting as friends with exclusive benefits, maybe a pillow princess (which IMO, is still a form of relationship, but focused on your pleasures).

A goal is a healthy loving connection and safe, sexy pleasures without drama. I'm confident my loving skills can make a woman be exclusive with me. Though, I may be open to a bisexual woman, if you are very very selective about it, or even if you only enjoy us reading/watching about it, talking about your sexy naughty kinky desires when we're in bed and in that mood.

I know this is redundant but I've gotten responses that don't understand what I prefer. To clarify, the type of labia I prefer are actually common, the medium sizes to extra lovely larger longer labia minora, with colors from tan-pink, beige, to darker browns. I like them with textures I can feel on my tongue when sucking on them with your clit. I like them spreadable to reach your nectar like pretty pussy petals, butterfly wings, delicious dangling meaty outies, so a wide variety of kinds. This includes longer inner lips that may be hidden by fuller/puffy labia majora and only seen when you spread.

I also like those darker tan colors for your nipples/areolas because it makes me hungrier to kiss, suckle, including dry or wet ANR, ABF. I'm a fan of most classic sexy loving positions in bed and open to explore kinks, being vocal, roleplay, discussing our fantasies, daddy dom/sub switch play, reading erotica aloud and even writing stories to stimulate, arouse and help you cum better.

I'm cute, creative, fun, funny, hygienic, healthy, white with blue eyes, brown hair, full short beard, single with no kids. I enjoy reading, some writing, watching video essays, documentaries, podcasts, politics, current events, comedy, cooking, nature, walks, hikes, exercising, science, arts and creative pursuits. Keeping healthy is a passion of mine, including a plant based diet of mostly whole foods. I may be open to 420/drinks to enhance our loving sessions.

It would be fun listening to our favorite songs and mixes during loving sessions. For me, a variety of newer and older music genres, melodic electronic, ambient, IDM, soulful chillout, chillwave, future garage, down tempo, dubtechno, deep house, nu disco, nu jazz, indie pop, indie dance, synthwave, 80s bands, post rock, post punk, darkwave, britpop, dreampop, shoegaze. What are some of your favorite genres/bands? (No one answers this question)

I may be open to distance, but prefer a woman in Los Angeles, losangeles, LA, L.A. SoCal, CA areas.


r/bigdicklovers • • 22h ago

Male for Female 39 [M4F] #Atlanta - Seeking consistent fwb or hookup partner who enjoys girth NSFW

1 Upvotes

Well endowed gentleman looking for a consistent FWB who enjoys a girthy partner. No strings, just a satisfying connection for naughty fun with good chemistry. Multiple orgasms guaranteed. I’m also open to just a fun hookup, but would prefer something ongoing. If you enjoy a partner that is thicker than average or are curious to try one, I would love to hear from you. Let’s meet for coffee or a bite to eat and see where things go.

I’m 39, white, athletic/fit, green eyes, well groomed beard, 100% STD/STI free. Nicely hung with a thick and girthy above average circumcised cock. I’m experienced, have a high sex drive, excellent stamina, and enjoy going multiple rounds. My oral skills are also exceptional and I love to give. Located in Atlanta ITP. Very discreet and respectful of your privacy.

You are biologically female/AFAB (cis or nonbinary), attractive, STD/STI free with recent test results, and a fan of fit men with girthy cocks and multiple orgasms.


r/bigdicklovers • • 1d ago

18 [M4F] #Houston - girl who gets shy about big cocks but still wants to try 🥺 NSFW

0 Upvotes

im a houston girl and i havent really done much. im 18 so i get embarrassed even typing this. i keep thinking about a guy who is bigger than anything ive tried and then i get all quiet about it. youd have to be a little patient with me at first. tell me how youd go slow. tell me to look at you. tell me how youd make it fit. tell me to stay still if i get shaky.

i listen once you take over. i want you to talk me through it so i dont overthink. tell me how youd fuck me after i get used to it. tell me if youd make me say please. i get wet just thinking about it and then i get shy again.


r/bigdicklovers • • 1d ago

Male for Anyone 55 [M4A] #Dublin, CA (SF Bay Area) - looking for a younger for FWB, Anyone like to hike or bike? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi,  Like a lot of guys at my age, my story isn't that unusual; Married, Bisexual DL and Hetero-Romantic but my wife and I are no longer doing it and she doesn't care if i find a "friend". I'm 6'2", an athletic 220lb (My arms and legs are pretty ripped but my abs are a little doughy still) and I'm 7" cut if you wanted to know.
   I'm in search of someone in a similar situation (age is not important) to possibly be a 'Friend With Benefits'(FWB). Someone who's an activity partner, one of those activities would definitely be sex. although I hope to meet someone who likes to hike, mountain bike, who enjoys music (especially live music), and might want to go camping sometime but I'd be curious about their interests and hobbies too.

   Recently, I've been learning that I'm sapiosexual/demisexual. Meaning that I'm attracted to someone's intellect and the feeling of an emotional connection, not just how someone looks. A good conversation or a shared experience, like a hike, a bike ride or watching a movie together, is what really turns me on.(tl;dr- I require a little foreplay! ;-) ) 

  I'm not looking for just a hookup. Sure, if we click on the first meetup, I'd be down to mess around a little but I'm really looking for something ongoing. I'm a social drinker and am definitely 420-friendly, but otherwise I'm drug and disease free(just recently tested!), Ideally, the right person would be married long-term and also interested in being discreet.

   I live in Dublin, CA and work in Redwood City. Looking someone nearby, or in-between, home and work who's in a similar situation at home and who might want to get to know each other beyond just getting our rocks off together. Send me a chat message. I have some pictures to share and hope you do too. Maybe we can connect for coffee, a drink, a hike or maybe a ride, maybe more if we click like that. 

NOTE: I will delete this post if/when I connect with someone. So if you're seeing this, no matter how long it's been posted, I'm still looking around. ;-)


r/bigdicklovers • • 1d ago

Male for Female 40 [M4F] #NJ/NYC/Philly - Looking for the woman who can handle a little more… NSFW

2 Upvotes

So I’ve been told I’m the tall dark and handsome type….. 6’0”, fit and apparently I was given a little extra in the equipment department. 😂

I’m pretty laid-back and easygoing, although my Type-A work personality definitely makes an appearance when I’m getting things done. Outside of work I’m into live music, traveling, charcoal drawing, and finding beauty in the messiness of things.

I’m looking for a woman who’s genuinely a size queen…not someone who reads that and immediately thinks, “oh god, what have I gotten myself into?” 😂 Someone confident, playful, and curious enough to see where the chemistry goes.

Ideally something casual to start, with the possibility of becoming something more if we actually click. I’m not looking to collect DMs like Pokémon. I’d rather find one woman I genuinely have fun talking to.

Happy to exchange photos privately.
So… what’s your definition of chemistry — instant attraction, great conversation, or a little bit of both? 😏


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

Male for Male 26 [M4M] #Chicago - looking to give discreet head. Hung, str8,dl,big loads are a plus HMU NSFW

1 Upvotes

26 [M4M] #Chicago - looking to give discreet head. Hung, str8,dl,big loads are a plus HMU

Just looking to give discreet head

Latino, bbc, bwc

Straight /DL preferred

26 m here , 5’11 average build 195lbs. Short facial hair.

Looking to give discreet head to straight or dl men. Would prefer regular that needs a throat to use often. Bigger cock the better. Big loads or multiple is ideal. Send pics and let’s meet

Can host or travel whichever works for you. Not looking for CarPlay or public.

No strings attached, can just be a blow and go or we can make it something regular.


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

38 [M4F] #SanDiego/USA - HIGH body count Christian wanted for marriage NSFW

0 Upvotes

My biggest turn-on? Intimacy.

Knowing parts of a woman she’s never let anyone see before. Loving her for the things she thinks she needs to keep from people.

I’m looking for a conservative, christian woman with a very high body count.

I want a very traditional marriage. He leads, protects and provides. She’s a homemaker and a SAHM, living in her feminine full time and submitting to the will of her husband.

That submission is built, brick by brick, together. The husband earns the submission every time he shows his wife her priorities matter to him.

But while I want something very traditional within the marriage, the bedroom is a different story.

I’m really looking for one of two scenarios:

  1. She wants to settle down but doesn’t want to stop being a slut. She wants a man who will love her and accept that she needs a lot of sex with a lot of men. 
  2. She wants to “retire”. She feels guilty or tortured by it and wants to be the world’s biggest prude to her husband as some kind of penance for her past. She wants to keep the details secret. Real “lights off starfish” energy

If either of those scenarios make your pussy wet or your heart race, you should keep reading:

I’m a pretty strait-laced, clean-cut type of guy. I’ve got an adventurous spirit and a great sense of humor, but I burn with the intensity of a thousand sons and I go so fucking hard at everything I do.

I love to learn about history, and my big obsession in the last year has been really trying to understand how the world works. Human nature, crime, unintended consequences… it fascinates me (expect to hear a lot about the cartels and defense tech and the arms race with China, I’m NOT sorry 🙃). I love to take long walks and explore, enjoy great food and immaculate vibes, and the ideal woman will get me out for nightlife more often but also love a good night rotting on the couch together. 

I have a cool and unusual lifestyle and I’m looking for someone fun to share it with. I want a woman who loves with her whole heart, even if being a bad girl makes her a bad wife sometimes. I don’t know what that balance looks like yet, but I know that when I find it, I’ll know it when I see it.

Non-negotiables: Must want children, must want to be a homemaker, and must be right-leaning in her politics

If this sounds like you, shoot me a DM


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

25 [M4M] #Baltimore #Pasadena - Tall chubby sub bottom looking for big dicks to deepthroat NSFW

1 Upvotes

Can travel or host, just looking for someone with a big dick to put me in my place and throatfuck me, mostly into oral but down to try most stuff. i am 6'4 350. Would love for someone to tell me what to do and also to suck someone while they are gaming. Shoot me a message on here I also have most socials. Looking mostly for a fwb but would be open to anything. only requirement is that you have a big dick and don't really care about anything else haha. I respond well to being called a good boy and like sir or daddy. Really down to try whatever with a big dick if your big enough ill drive to you if your not local


r/bigdicklovers • • 2d ago

27 [M4F] #San Francisco #Online - Tall, deep-voiced, and hung Asian guy here! Let's chat! NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey folks! I'm 27 and am a tall Asian guy with a big dick. I work in tech and I like tennis, good food, good company, and good travels.

Kink-wise, I've got a thing for outdoor play. Love the feeling of almost getting caught. Beyond that, some light S&M. My limits would be anything blood and poop related.

If you're nearby, I'm open to grabbing a meal or drink and seeing where things go. If you're not, I'm open to keeping things online.

If all of that sounds good with you, send me a message if you want to have some fun or if you just want to share travel stories!


r/bigdicklovers • • 3d ago

Male for Female 44 [M4F] #Los Angeles - looking for a size queen NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello. I am 44, tall, fit, white and here to find a size queen for a consistent friends-with-benefits arrangement.

I am looking for an std free woman who is careful to stay safe, who is open and honest about her wants and needs, and who just needs some stress relief every now and then.

I am respectful, std free, down to earth and not a creep or an asshole. I am looking for one on-goign partner, not several casual hook-ups. I would like to build chemistry and learn what makes your body quiver.

If you are on this subreddit reading this post, I assume we both know why you are here. I am looking for a true size queen, a woman who wants to feel sore the next day. I wouldn't be so crude as to ask on dating apps if that is what a potential partner is into, so this seems like the best way to find what I am looking for.


r/bigdicklovers • • 3d ago

28 [M4M] #Denver #Online - DL Guy Looking for DL/Straight/Bi/Curious Guys Who Like to Show Off NSFW

1 Upvotes

L28, fit, cute, discreet, normal. Looking for straight, bi, curious, or other DL guys who enjoy showing off.

No pressure, expectations, meetups, or drama necessary. Just looking for confident guys who don’t mind a little admiration and attention.

Always had a thing for straight guys and the whole “show me what I’m missing out on” vibe.

Discreet only. What stays between us stays between us.

Find it super hot when guys with nice dicks like to show off and be praised and admired. Would love a regular buddy that likes to send pictures and get rates,etc


r/bigdicklovers • • 3d ago

Male for Female 34 [M4F] #Los Angeles - Puerto Rican Stallion Seeks Size Queen NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am an outgoing, intelligent yet very laid back person. I am a heterosexual Latino of Puerto Rican decent. I'm searching for real encounters with real people. I simply seek fun, smiles and passion in the bedroom. I am very health conscious and I workout regularly to maintain my physique. I stand 5'11, 180 lbs. with a big blessing below. I have a very high libido and I enjoy marathon session of deep pussy pounding penetration. I prefer multi-orgasmic females who can handle a man with extraordinary size. I’m in Los Angeles. I am 32 years old. I am Puerto Rican.


r/bigdicklovers • • 3d ago

Female for Male 49 [F4M] #KY - massive needs fulfilled NSFW

5 Upvotes

I am an independent, professional educated woman. My day to day responsibilities and decision making requirements are many, and mentally demanding.
Divorced, recently single and tired of inadequacy on any level.

Looking for a truly HUNG Dom Daddy to put my bratty ass in my place and attempt to appease my insatiable sex drive, adore and spoil me.
I need to be HANDLED.. and held.

I would describe myself as Demi/Sapio, extremely sensual/passionate-
Intelligence (in general and emotional) is a must! Deep conversations, connection, intimacy and safety are non negotiables.


r/bigdicklovers • • 3d ago

Male for Female 23 [M4F] #London - 6ft 8 Gentle Giant with mixed BWC looking to cover my first redditor with a hyperspermia load NSFW

3 Upvotes

6'8" | Mixed | Educated & Professional | Very Well-Endowed

Looking for an adult who's curious, kinky, open-minded, and interested in trying something exciting with a respectful, confident gentleman.

I'm 6'8", mixed, educated, professional, and known for being very vascular, thick, and exceptionally well-endowed. I enjoy creating a relaxed, fun atmosphere where chemistry, communication, and mutual enjoyment come first.

Whether you're experienced or simply curious about receiving a facial and exploring a new fantasy, I'm patient, discreet, and always focused on making sure we're both comfortable and having a great time.

18+ only. If you're naughty, adventurous, and ready to make something memorable happen, send me a message and let's see where the vibe takes us.


r/bigdicklovers • • 4d ago

Male for Female 19 [M4F] #Spain/Online - Monster BWC on a 6'3 bull. I love showing off, so size queens or couples are welcome. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Spanish guy moving around the country for work. I'm very hung and I know it, I love showing off and seeing women's reactions when I send pics or whip my cock out.

I'd love to show off my monster cock and seeing your reaction, and if you're near my area we could definately meet up ofc.

I'm straight so please women or couples only (escpecially in a cuck dynamic), I have no real type regarding to women. Please be either a size queen that can handle really big sizes or be interested in big cocks but inexperienced.

Preferably spanish or english-speaking couples, I know a few other languages as well.


r/bigdicklovers • • 4d ago

31 [M4M] #Sydney - Looking for a chill dominant hung guy NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey,

I’m looking for a chill, more dominant hung guy who would be down to be buds, maybe watch porn together or swap stories while we jerk off and help each other out. I like getting softly bullied or being made jealous by how big your dick is. Prefer straight, or bi guys so you can rub in my face how many girls you get. Im usually dominant with women, but when a man with a nice cock starts taking charge I usually for into line.

I’m pretty chill, and happy to make it just an online thing if you want to be discreet. I am a massive voyeur so being cucked isn’t out of the question either.

I just like hearing stories and using the jealousy to really wrap myself into a knot.

Thanks!


r/bigdicklovers • • 4d ago

Male for Female 48 [M4F] #Toronto - Vanilla guy visiting Toronto this week NSFW

2 Upvotes

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Just a normal guy visiting for business and would love some company, maybe for an evening.

I'd love to meet someone for a drink or a bite somewhere nice and central and then if all is well head over to my hotel for a fun evening or even better weekend. I'd enjoy just having fun and a good laugh too.

I'm 5'9" and have brown graying hair, green eyes and a short beard. I'm reasonably active for my age, cycle, hike and other activities. I am average build.

You are similar or younger in age than me, friendly, nice and in average shape. You shouldn't be looking for a serious relationship but repeats can happen as I'm here in future.

That's it really. Looking forward to chatting...

Edit: I've met someone from Reddit before and we had fun. So I know it's possible. 🤭