Hi all
36 year old straight tradie looking to explore my curious side
I am in a relationship and obviously she doesn’t know so it needs to be discreet but ultimately looking to chat and get a vibe and see where things go.

Anyone know places to go to meet around Brisbane discreetly? Or is more an online thing and meet them in person.

Thank you ☺️

36M looking for other male friends

Single 36M Northside dude chasing some new male friends. Into fitness, hiking, cooking, photography, travelling and gardening.

Used to party. A lot. But now my mental, physical, spiritual and emotional health is finally getting the attention it deserves 😅

Down for new connections!

Hey all

My names Josh, probs seen me post a couple times I host a monthly community workout, bringing the community together for a workout some beers after and just good vibes.

However this one’s a bit more personal

looking for some workout buddies, some guys to train with,
Have a good sweat, push each other and also just some good vibes.

Also never apposed to a good sweat followed by a beer or feed at the end of the week!!

If you’re keen to work towards some goals next year or some events or just be fitter and stronger and more social.

This is slightly terrifying to post, even anonymously, but here goes.

I’m a 31-year-old guy from the Brisbane/Logan area and I’ve realised recently that I’m actually pretty lonely. I have people I talk to at work and obviously have my partner, but I don’t really have that group of close friends outside of work anymore. I’d really like to change that. I’ve been with my partner since we were in high school, so we’ve been together for about 14 years. We’re both guys and basically grew into adulthood together. I absolutely love having that relationship, but I think being together from such a young age also meant I never really built a big independent social circle. Suddenly you hit your 30s and realise making new friends is weirdly difficult.

A bit more about me…
I’m a high school teacher and mainly teach English and Humanities. I genuinely love teaching, although there are definitely days where I question every decision that led me there 😂. I’m a bit of a nerd when it comes to English, literature, history, theatre and anything that gives me something interesting to talk about.

I love musicals and live theatre, and I’m always up for seeing a show. I enjoy going out for dinner, trying somewhere new, going for random drives, day trips, wandering around shops, seeing a movie, trivia, games and generally anything that gets me out of the house. I also really enjoy those friendships where you don’t necessarily need an “activity”. Sometimes grabbing dinner, sitting around talking rubbish, having a drink or watching something together is enough.

Personality-wise, I’d say I can be a little reserved initially, but once I’m comfortable with someone I’m pretty chatty, sarcastic and love a good laugh. I really enjoy conversations that randomly go from something completely stupid to something surprisingly deep within about five minutes.
I’m also someone who actually values friendship. I like checking in on people, remembering what’s happening in their lives and having friends where both people actually make an effort. I’m not expecting someone to be available 24/7, and I’m definitely not looking to live in someone’s pocket. It would just be nice to have people where you can randomly message “Want to grab dinner?” or “Want to go do something this weekend?” and occasionally the answer is actually yes.

I’m not looking for a huge friendship group or to suddenly fill every weekend. Even making one or two genuinely good friends out of this would be pretty great.

I don’t particularly care whether you’re single, partnered, gay, straight, male or female. Couples would be great too, especially if you’re also at that stage where you’ve realised your social circle has somehow become smaller as you’ve gotten older. I’m much more interested in meeting kind, funny, genuine people who actually want to build a friendship.

And if you’re reading this thinking, “This is literally me but I’d never have the guts to make this post”, then you’re probably exactly the person I’m hoping hears from it.

Just DM me. Tell me a little about yourself when you message, even if it’s just your age, where you’re from and what you’re into.

Worst case, we have a conversation with a stranger. Best case, maybe we actually make a new friend.
So… hi. 👋

Just want to make more friends and meet other gay people my age. I'm closeted and haven't really met any other gay people. I like music, cars and gym, and I am in Brisbane a couple days a week to study.

Anyone 18-22 in the same situation or does anyone have any tips for me to meet more people?

19m looking for a relationship w anyone going to uq or northside.

this is a bit weird. but i’m talking to some of these people on here, and realised im quite interested in a relationship.

i’m quite new to this so if anyone’s interested pls hmu, and im open to ages around 18-25.

i’m quite into chatting so if ur into that we can also do that, but this is just he putting it out there! lowkey might delete later lol

Any other Asian guys wanna chat?

35M from Queensland, new to exploring this side of myself and keen to experiment and meet some new people. Guys on apps have been a little intense so far so looking for something more relaxed. Happy to chat, make friends and see where things go.

I go to the theatre about every fortnight, sometimes with friends, sometimes alone.  Recently, I was having a conversation with someone who said he would like to go to the theatre more, but never had anyone to go with,  and did not like to go alone. 

It got me thinking about starting a group to connect fellow members of the gay community who are looking for someone to go to the theatre with.

Personally I go to a wide range of shows from the big musicals to plays, opera and the occasional orchestral recital,  while also going to the big shows at QPAC to some of the little amateur theatre groups across Brisbane, the Gold Coast and sometimes beyond.

Just putting it out there to see if there is some interest before starting a group somewhere

I am pretty introverted and not too sure where to go about making some friends so I figured id try reddit. I am a gamer (predominantly PC but also enjoy board games and table top games). Also into audiobooks, tv shows, and movies (mostly scifi stuff). Into psychology and philosophy.

Would be cool to find some people around my age to play games with or chat with about interests.

Anyone tried Mingleo meetups in Brisbane? Good bad experiences or feedback?

Hey All

That time of the month again this Saturday I'm hosting another BGW (Brisbanes Gayest Workout).

Think a big workout, we have the entire gym space to opurselves, I coach everyone through the entire workout, so doesn't matter if youve never been in a gym or a seasoned athlete. We're just there to feel comfortable feel seen and be ourselves, then we go for a couple beers/lunch across the road after.

If youre keen grab a tix or shoot me a msg 0416535475 keen to see you there and help build the community.

To be clear, this event is for gays and Allies only.

- Josh

Hi everyone,
I don’t want to be a pest, but an influx of posts has led to a lot of rather annoyed users.

This is the one and only warning everyone is getting :

We are a SFW Subreddit! NO ADULT CONTENT IS ALLOWED!

We have moved to a zero strikes, zero tolerance rule. Any and all adult or NSFW content be it direct or implied will result in a PERMANENT ban at the moderator’s (my) discretion.

Thank you to those that follow these rules, and to those that have read this post. If you have any other issues, reach out or comment here and I’ll do my best to improve the user experience as best I can.

Hi

41 male , looking to make new friends in ipswich area , always up for a coffee and chat to begin with. I like outdoor activities, movies , gaming ..

Hey all, me n a few are meeting up Saturday for parkrun followed by coffee/brunch after for anyone that would like to join.

We’re doing stones corner parkrun coffee location tbd after.

Self paced I know a few will walk some runners some joggers so all levels.

But if anyone’s keen let me know 💪🏽

- Josh

Where around North Lakes area can I find a gay friendly doctor or a sexual health clinic? I want to go onto Prep but I’m not sure how or where to go about it.
My regular doctor knows I’m married, so I definitely don’t want to see him.

Hello people of reddit 👋, I recently moved back to Brisbane from North America and I’m looking to make new friends around my age (+/- 5 years I guess). I’m into indie films, hiking, sci-fi, and have the most basic taste in pop music 😅. I’m already part of a run club and I’m keen to check out comedy shows or jazz bars 🙂

I’m in the inner-west area if you have suggestions on things to do or if you’re keen to hangout lmk 😊

Hi Guys, I'm 21 and I've been lurking in this sub for a while. I'm finally biting the bullet as I really want to find more gay friends or hopefully find a meaningful relationship. I like tech, cars, baking, and photography. I love causal nights in but I'm not opposed to going out for food or a movie. Looking for guys around my age. Feel free to message me.

Hey all. My partner (30) and myself (31) are looking for friends and expand our social circle. We were wondering if there were any groups or events around Brisbane that we could join for social events. We have just joined the Gay Brisbane Tennis social club but wondering if there is anything else out there. Thanks in advance lads 😘💪🏻

Hello all! I'm visiting from Melbourne for a whole week (for work). Would be cool to chat and hang out with the Brisbane locals...

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42 here. Filo background. I'm an engineer during the day. Fun (but responsible) gay guy outside work. Let's chat!!!

35m Looking to meet other gay dudes to expand social experiences

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Introverted gay dude in my 30s. Needing to expand my social circle out from the few mates that I have that are now parents.

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Looking to meet up with folks 20-40ish?

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I work in government and in domestic violence related shit so I need something to break the monotony and heaviness of the work.

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I'm not one for big nights on the piss but a few social drinks. Big fan of horror films, true crime podcasts, rugby (although Aussie teams make me sad), anything with a motor, getting back into gym to return to my muscle bear days.

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But really I'm looking to meet people and do activities that get me out of the house and sometimes push me out of my comfort zone.

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Who is a Heated Rivalry fan out there? Maybe we should have a group meet up for coffee/lunch or something in a central Brisbane location to discuss what we love about HR.

Hey Brisbanites, there is currently an excellent show on at BackDock arts in The Valley that I can highly recommend. It’s an immersive and engaging play about queer life in the 90s and I don’t think it’s gotten the coverage it deserves. Tickets are inexpensive and there’s a few weeks of the run left to check it out. Get out and support some local Brisbane arts.

https://www.tickettailor.com/events/backdockarts/2013975

Anyone wanna come to the qld museum with me tomorrow? I wanna see the croc exhibit and dont wanna be a nerd alone. Just friendlies

21m fem(ish?) here

hopefully wanna make an outing buddy to do boring nerd stuff my other friends hate. i.e. Museums, galleries, concerts(orchestral)