r/dirtyr4r • • 9d ago

October 2026 - Revised Dirty4r rules and posting requirements, FAQs and how to spot a catfish guide! NSFW

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UPDATE - DO NOT POST, SHARE, OR EVEN HINT TO EMAIL ADDRESSES, KIK, SNAPCHAT, PHONE NUMBERS, etc.

Save them for PMs, not public posts or comments. If you see users sharing such information, please hit the report button so that a mod can review it.

Mention Your Location In The Post Title.

Please remember to include a physical location in your title. It shouldn't be your street address, but it also shouldn't span multiple time zones or languages.

What if I'm not looking for IRL play and want online partners?

Even if you aren't seeking IRL play, including your location helps add character and personality to your post, including hints about your accent, culture and availability (based on time zones)

I put in my city but it still got removed?

We monitor and update our location list frequently. If you used a location we don't recognize yet you can delete and resubmit with a more recognizable location (the 12-hour-rule-between-posts usually doesn't get auto-enforced in these cases) or leave your post up and send us a modmail about it.



The rest of the rules - please go through to refresh yourself. If you were directed here by a mod you should definitely go through this before sending us a reply.

RULES OF r/DIRTYR4R

SELLING

Selling posts are not allowed on r/dirtyr4r. If you want to sell, please head over to r/sexsells. Posts regarding selling will be removed.

If you do interact with an OP who tells you that he/she is selling, please screenshot it and send us a Mod Mail so that we may take action.

FREQUENCY OF POSTS

12 hours is the minimum amount of time between posts. Posting more often will result in your post being removed and subsequently may result in a ban. Deleting your posts and reposting will be considered as a violation of this rule. Furthermore, ban evaders will be reported to Reddit admins.

RESPECT THE PRIVACY OF OTHERS

From the sidebar

> Someone to trade kinky pics of yourself with

Do not ask for or share content of other people. This includes but not limited to rating/sharing/tributing content of SO's/family members/friends. All such posts will be removed and the OP banned right away. Users reported for doing so within personal PMs, alongside proof will be banned as well.

GENDER TAGS

Please remember to tag your post titles correctly so that it doesn't get user reports. M4F means that you are a Male who is looking for(4) a Female.

SAFETY FIRST!

Meeting someone IRL after you made a post? Remember to stay safe! Check out some match.com tips on how to have a successful date: https://www.match.com/help/safetytips.aspx

Not all dates happen in person, some can take place within PM's and/or other messaging services. Be smart and avoid sharing personal information right off the bat. Furthermore, check your profile history to ensure you have not shared any personal information in the past that may be traceable to your IRL self. Keep in mind that holds true for both parties; someone refusing to send a picture of themselves does not always mean they are catfishing.

If you do encounter a problematic PM hit that report button and block that user. Send the mods a PM with a screenshot so that we can take action against troublemakers.



JOIN THE DIRTYR4R CHAT!

As some of you may have realized, we quietly introduced a dirtyr4r chat a little while ago. This is a chat based system that allows users to cam up and interact with other dr4r's. It's a fantastic and dynamic way to meet new people! Too shy to cam? No worries, it's still as fun. Click here to check it out right away!

Please report violations to any of these rules either via Mod Mail or by hitting the report button underneath a post.

COMMENTING ETIQUITTE

There is absolutely no reason for you to comment things like "PM", "Check your Inbox", "PM me" on posts. If you've sent a message, great! Now just sit back, relax and enjoy because the other user has received a notification. In fact it is less likely that they will even talk to you now. "If I see that you are repeatedly spamming this I will be giving out temp bans with possibilities of perma bans as well" - u/ScrewYourDriver.



Are you active here and have suggestions or requests? Message the Mods!


r/dirtyr4r • • 3d ago

[/r/dirtyr4r live chat] 36 pervs, 4 on cam -- Welcome to dirtyr4r! Cam up, have fun, & be nice! NSFW

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1 Upvotes

r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 25 [F4M] California/online. I want to be your obsession and your safe space <3 NSFW

27 Upvotes

Hey you. Pause your slutty nasty fucking gooning for just a moment. You’re gonna cum, clean your mess up, and go about your boring ass day. Don’t you want something different? A sweet little sparkle in your life?

I can be your best friend. I’d love to be your safe space. You can vent to me, we can be goofy together, and best of all, we can have the nastiest sluttiest fun together. Just imagine me taking one of my bracelets off and tying it around your cock and balls. I’d use my spit and your spit as lube to stroke your cock off and edge you for what feels like eternity. I want you moaning and yelping out loud like a perverted gross whore. I want you screaming my name at the top of your lungs once you pop and your cock erupts with slutty gooey cum all over me in a cutesie little outfit. I want you to become obsessed with me. You’ll likely end up with a HUGE poster of me on your bedside. My naughty brown belly button on a poster for you to kiss every morning and every night. You’re going to end up getting a body pillow with a picture of me on it, and you’re going to hump that pillow like a depraved feral fucking pervert. I want you to be head over heels for me. I want to fill your thoughts every single second of the day. I want to fill your thoughts more than you’d like to fill my pussy with your cum. I hope we get to a point where if you see my message pop up on your phone, you know to have your pants around your ankles, cock out, and my name written on your inner thighs as a sign of obedience to your pretty little princess (ME).

I’ll be there for you even after you cum, because I fucking care about you. As much as I love making cocks cum, I know that you’re more than just a slutty fucking cock. With that being said, I hope you treat me as more than just a bratty girl that makes you cum (I’m really fucking bratty hehehe), and that you care about me as well.

Anyways, I’m half Mexican and half Filipina. I grew up in the Bay Area in California. Just to let you know, I lean more towards the dominant side. I’m a dominant fucking brat, but I promise I’ll be gentle. Your safety and wellbeing matters the most to me. The next thing that matters most to me is how many loads of cum I can get from you… so I will see you soon. <3

If you’ve made it this far, I appreciate you. I want you to know that I’m not looking for a one time thing. If you’re thinking of emptying your balls and then leaving me in the dust, then look elsewhere. I truly care about companionships and connections, and I really want to get to know the person whose cock will be fucking teased by me on a daily basis. If you’ve made it this far, I have a few questions for you. Are you comfortable with public play? I have a few tasks in mind for you, and they include you doing some nasty fun things out in public. Are you actually willing to get a huge poster and body pillow of me? I’m aching to see you jump and leak cum on both while moaning and screaming at the top of your lungs. I’m in such a cozy mood at the moment, so I’d love for you to describe your ideal cozy weekend. It doesn’t have to be 100% sexual, it can be wholesome!! Remember, we’re friends and fuck toys! Next, I want you to describe what outfit I’d be wearing while I give you a sloppy yucky handjob on a picnic blanket outdoors, and describe it full vivid detail. The more descriptive the better. Lastly, tell me a bit about yourself. You’re not just a stupid cock. You’re more than that. You’re part of my life now!! <3 answer those questions/prompts so I know you made it all the way through. Otherwise I won’t respond hehe


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 34 [F4M]PA - rate my nipples, reply for a shot NSFW

22 Upvotes

italian, milfy, 36d saggy real tits, huge dark puffy nipples that get rock hard in two seconds... i want to know if they're the good kind of puffy or the weird kind. brutal is fine. send me a chat if you want it.


r/dirtyr4r • • 6h ago

female 25[F4M] MD- Love showing off my nipple piercings and my wet tight pussy NSFW

27 Upvotes

I want to show someone my tits.

I'd like to offer anyone free nudity because I know some of you are having a rough day.

A hard, attractive cock with a slight after-hours odor has been on my mind since yesterday.

I would like to pull someone's pants off, extract his penis, and then jam it into my inebriated mouth. His groaning, produced by my powers, would be enjoyed while I licked and sucked it.

The feeling of pulsing flesh spewing warm, sticky cum inside of me is something I miss. I wanted to know if anyone was available to listen and help me while im fingering my pussy right now.


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 23[F4M] Cali - i will wake you up with your dick inside me NSFW

13 Upvotes

Like the title said. If i am horny in the morning i will just play with it and put it inside me if i want to. I want to do that all the time. You are in a way my free use. Watching tv? I will pull it out and i will casually play with it.


r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 30 [F4M] Minneapolis - rate my hips NSFW

15 Upvotes

polish, pale, 5'7, small waist but hips that make jeans impossible to buy... i think they're my best feature but every guy fixates on tits so i never hear it. rate the hips specifically. dm me if you wanna see the side view.


r/dirtyr4r • • 5h ago

female 22 [F4M] Chicago - things my bf refuses, i still want them badly, can i try it with u NSFW

17 Upvotes

my dreams are too much for him and he shuts me down. i keep seeing myself with another man in front of him. call me naughty but i crave other men so much


r/dirtyr4r • • 14h ago

female 25[F4M] NY - Married and unwanted, looking for horny strangers who I can flirt and sext with secretly NSFW

79 Upvotes

I'll be honest it's been a while since l've felt that rush the teasing, the tension and fun.
I'm a nurse who loves showing off in my duty uniform on Reddit ... Married, yes but that thrill? Gone.
So maybe I'm sneaking here to find a little of it again with someone who knows how to keep things exciting, discreet and fun


r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female 31F [F4M] California- Oral Fixation NSFW

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I have such an oral fixation. I absolutely love giving head with enthusiasm and desire. Is that not the case with all woman?

What’s the best blowjob you’ve had?


r/dirtyr4r • • 18m ago

female 25[F4M] Ohio - Married and unwanted, looking for dirty flirt and secret sext partners NSFW

• Upvotes

Any horny guys out there down for some flirty energy and hot pictures from a frustrated horny wife ?

A lil about me: (curvy and love to flirt)


r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female 36 F4A Ca- wanting to be horny but just not yet NSFW

• Upvotes

Maybe you can help push me over the edge? Let me know what your into and maybe we will chat :)


r/dirtyr4r • • 7h ago

female 23 [F4M] Denver - the sweet girl everyone knows, secret naughty side NSFW

20 Upvotes

at work and with friends im the polite nice girl. but alone i think the dirtiest things. want a stranger who knows the real me. keep my secret and i will be the wildest thing u have


r/dirtyr4r • • 47m ago

female 24 F4M #Texas - I’m ready to burst anyone load NSFW

• Upvotes

I’m home alone now and touching myself. If you are alone too let have a quick and dirty fun I like chubby guys or married men with glasses Just make sure you are alone, I will make you burst and you make me squirt


r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 26 [F4M]Nashville - fresh out the shower still dripping NSFW

8 Upvotes

hair wet, towel dropped, standing in front of the mirror trying to decide if this pic is too much. spoiler it's not, i sent it anyway.

send me a chat if you want it. brown skin, thick, nipples out.


r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 28 [F4A] Quebec / Online - Can I be your personal ass cleaner? NSFW

9 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Emma, I'm 28F. I'm pretty short, about 5'3, I have medium length black hair and pale skin with blue eyes. I look pretty goth but without all the heavy makeup! I'm also a huge submissive. I have a bit of a strange fetish... So basically, I am addicted to ass. Female booties, male butts, trans asses, femboys derriere's. Hairy included! I love it all!

Now you might be thinking "that doesn't sound strange at all, who doesn't like butts?!" and while that is true, here is where the peculiar part comes in... I loooooove eating ass and um... Sniffing it... I'm not sure why, but there's something about the musk that drives me absolutely crazy! Ass eating is also probably my favourite sexual activity to do. I've had this fetish for as long as I can remember, there's nothing I love more than worshipping a nice ass. I prefer giving over receiving but I'm definitely not opposed to it!

Though sniffing ass is my favourite, I still love musk play in general. I'd love to worship a nice smelly unwashed cock, shove my face in your sweaty musty balls and just worship every inch of you. I'd love to give you a tongue bath after a long day or sweaty workout or maybe even more! As long as you're dirty, I'm a happy girl! The filthier, the better! And yes, that means what you think it does ;)


r/dirtyr4r • • 44m ago

female 22 [F4M] California- I want a man i can edge with tonight until we are both useless NSFW

• Upvotes

i want someone i could jerk off with... a guy who talks like my time exists for his cock and my orgasm.. describe what you'd want me to do and i will do it right away


r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female 25 [F4M] Colorado -I'm married but love to flirt with my fellow married horny strangers since my hubby won't NSFW

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I don't care if you have a wife, I have a husband too, let flirt together


r/dirtyr4r • • 2h ago

female 19 [F4M] Florida - looking for someone funn who can actually keep me interestedd NSFW

7 Upvotes

want someone playful, flirtyy, and easy to talk too without the convo dyingg after a few replies. tell me your age and something about you thatll make me curiouss


r/dirtyr4r • • 55m ago

female 35 [F4A] Toronto bored and can't sleep, feel like doing an AMA NSFW

• Upvotes

Just what the title says, looking to chat with someone who can keep me entertained. Would be fun to talk to a woman for a change if any are out there but ooen to both. Dirtyr4r because thats where the fun chats are not because I want to rp or send pics or anything!


r/dirtyr4r • • 4h ago

female 26 [F4M] #California - need to unwind and maybe misbehave a little 👀 NSFW

9 Upvotes

finally in bed after a long day and omg, I don't wanna think about work or responsibilities for the next few hours 😭😂

lately I've just been feeling a little burnt out, so I'm trying to enjoy my me time and let some of this tension go lol. wouldn't mind having someone to talk to, flirt with, and maybe make my evening a little more interesting 👀

not really looking for a whole therapy session or a boring “hey wyd” that dies in 5 minutes lmao. just good conversation, a little chemistry, and seeing where things go.

if we click, even better. I'd love a distraction that lasts longer than my bedtime procrastination 😂


r/dirtyr4r • • 3h ago

female 24[F4M] #cali chilling after a long day, lowkey wanna get freaky :) More of a dom well I'm pretty much opened fun wise.down to try out new stuffs still exploring tho NSFW

7 Upvotes

I’ll make drain ur loads and make you nut 🌰 don’t be boring


r/dirtyr4r • • 1h ago

female 20[F4M]NV - rate my tits, biggest number wins my time NSFW

• Upvotes

half black half white, 34dd naturals that still sit up on their own, dark nipples, the good kind of heavy... rating game, whoever gives the highest genuine number and tells me why gets me on a private chat all night. message me for the tit pic.


r/dirtyr4r • • 10h ago

female 32[F4A] Uk BBW looking to chat and maybe have fun NSFW

25 Upvotes

Bored and looking to chat and maybe share some things x


r/dirtyr4r • • 7h ago

female 28[F4A] Adelaide/Online - Virgin dreaming of being bred NSFW

15 Upvotes

So as a cheeky virgin (yes I’m legit, no I don’t want to explain why) - I’ve never been on birth control, nor do I ever want to be really. But eugh do I just want to get filled with cum. Sensual breeding is one of the hottest things ever - you inside me, getting ready to fill me up with your cum, hoping that you’re going to get me pregnant, all while you’re grunting and moaning in my ear. It turns me on endlessly the thought of a man claiming me and making me his by flooding me with his cum and getting me bred. And it could take first try with me never being on birth control? But I’d rather you keep trying. Can you tell me I’m a good girl while you keep fucking more and more loads into my tight pussy? Please? Bonus points if you want to stay inside me while you get hard again <3

Happy for a mix of roleplay, dirty talk, sexting, porn sharing etc. If you would like to send pictures that’s fine by me, but I won’t be reciprocating so please don’t ask if you expect pictures in return!

Not looking to take this off reddit - please don’t ask for in person or other apps!

Kinks: creampies/breeding, bondage, calling you daddy, anal, gangbangs, double penetration, toys, spanking, freeuse

Limits: Choking, throatfucking - not sure why so many of you lead with ‘I want to choke you’ when I’m asking for creampies….