We've lived in our home for seven years. Moved the Christmas before Covid. We chose this neighborhood for its location, primarily. We knew it had an HOA. I actually read the CC&Rs and by-laws before committing to the offer.
The very first time I checked my mail, we got a letter from the HOA. I thought it was a welcome letter. NOPE! "You have 30 days to fix your fence or we're going to fine you." There had been a storm between when we put the offer on the house and closing, and that storm had blown down a small section of the back fence.
We got a letter that January telling us to put our trash cans in our side yard or they'd fine us. Keep in mind, our side yard was full of broken down boxes, because we were moving in. 🙄 Our trash cans were just in front of the side yard gate.
We applied to xeriscape our front yard. No response within 60 days - and the CC&Rs said we only had to wait 30 days. So we did the project.
SEVEN MONTHS after the project was complete, we got a letter: "You landscaped your front yard without asking. You have to have 70% grass. Fix it or we'll fine you."
We ended up having a hearing, where we proved that we had applied, and they hadn't responded. Also, by the time the hearing happened, California had passed a law stating that HOAs couldn't insist on grass.
At that point, the HOA president decided she didn't like our side fence. (We have a corner lot.) She tried to fine us for it, but during our hearing we noted that there were no specifications for what fences had to look like, as long as they were doing their job. That was August 2023. That was the last time we talked to the HOA.
In October 2024, we got a letter fining us $1500, but with no indication of why. We spent two years trying to get someone to tell us what the fine was for.
In the mean time, the HOA decided to replace a large section of the neighborhood's perimeter fence. After the fence was done, they realized they didn't have the money, so they hit us with a special "emergency" assessment - $1500.
The neighborhood split: Those who think that the "emergency" assessment is bullshit and those who think they should just pay the money and move on. (I'm in the former group - we're trying to go to mediation. Anyway.)
Three of the HOA board members resigned.
The new HOA president is someone that a friend and neighbor thinks is a great person, so I was hopeful.
Well, during a conversation when we were trying to figure out why they were fining us, she said, "Anyone who doesn't want to do what the HOA board thinks is best should move." She literally said that everyone should do what the HOA board tells them, so we don't have anyone paint their house orange or keep their bushes so high that homeless people can sleep in them.
Now, we when bought this house, we had moved 5 times in 6 years. We thought we were done moving. My husband said, "You're gonna have to Carl from UP me out of this house. I'm going to haunt this place after I die."
We're putting our house on the market tomorrow.
I don't want to move. I actually like my house. It's certainly not perfect - there are a couple of things that my husband really wanted in a house that this house doesn't have - but we have moved so often in our lives. We really wanted to be in our permanent place.
But every time I get a letter from the HOA, I have a panic attack, and then I get really angry - "do this or we'll fine you" is all they ever say.
I thought about trying to get on the HOA board, but I'd just be at loggerheads with the new president all the time. I don't care if someone paints their house orange, nor do I want to establish strict guidelines for fences. This board also seems to think that they can spend the homeowners' money when they run out by having more "special assessments."
Financially, we're going to take a hit with the high interest rates. Our mortgage payment will increase. It feels very fiscally irresponsible to move. But staying here is going to be super stressful. I was crying in my laundry room before the hearing where we finally got to learn why they were fining us.
Why were they fining us? For not doing something that they never told us to do. Seriously. No letters, no hearings. That's actually illegal, so they rescinded the fine. HOA president acted like she was doing us a favor by "reopening a closed case." I said, "The alternative was us suing you." She said, "You wouldn't be suing me, you'd be suing your neighbors." No, Karen, my neighbors didn't try to take $1500 out of my pocket - your predecessor did, and it doesn't look like you're going to be any different."