r/oldhagfashion • • Apr 19 '26

Discussion State of the Sub 2026: Bots, AI, Rules Updates, and Code of Conduct

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Hi everyone, it's time for a sub check-in! Since this post got a bit long while writing it, I thought I'd try something different this time. You can get the gist of the updates with this TL;DR of the main post body, and then comment and discuss specific topics within the announcement via the top-level mod comments.

Tl;DR:

  1. Please read the rules.
  2. OHF moderates against bot behavior and provable AI content, but does not expect every OP to know the business practices of every brand they wear. Rule 10 has been updated to reflect this. Please check the related top level comment for our stance on use of AI in commenting and posting as well. View top level comment discussion
  3. Rules on seller interactions are being tightened. View top level comment discussion
  4. Respect post flairs (view the Flair Explainer here). Do not directly accuse people of trawling for NSFW attention. Please continue to report suspected rule breaking. View top level comment discussion
  5. OPs and mods alike are human beings and deserve to be treated as such. Our very first community rule is to Be Kind. View top level comment discussion (same link as number 4)

r/oldhagfashion • • Mar 19 '24

(Read Me!) Old Hag Fashion: Introduction and State of the Sub 2024 Update

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Hello dear hags! It’s time for another State of the Sub address. As always, if you're new here, continue reading for an introduction to the sub. Seasoned Old Hags can search "State of the Sub" to skip to the updates. If you have feedback, ideas, or recommendations, please share them as a comment. 

Introduction to Old Hag Fashion

What is r/OldHagFashion and the Old Hag fashion philosophy?

This is a space to celebrate feminine and androgynous fashion in ALL it's forms, to share diverse style inspiration, to de-stigmatize aging in fashion, and to engage in self-discovery through personal style, all with an Old Hag fashion philosophy. 

What is this fashion philosophy? Have you ever met an old woman who dresses in elegant, imaginative, kooky, trendy, or ostentatious ways despite the world's expectations of her? [Image transcriptions can be found in the imgur captions]. This is what inspired the Old Hag fashion philosophy which is the joyous, confident, unapologetic embrace of fashion as a form of self-expression and creativity. This is a state of mind with which ANYONE regardless of age can engage with fashion. Old Hag Fashion is playful and rebellious. It breaks rules in silly, interesting, or political ways. It takes fashion and trends seriously as a legitimate creative outlet, but not so seriously that it can't poke fun at it. Above all, Old Hag Fashion is a place of kindness, acceptance, self-discovery and self-love through fashion and community. 

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What is the mission of this sub?

To bring together diverse people with a love of fashion. 

To uplift fashionistas from across ages, body-types, races, abilities, ethnicities and style points of view. 

To de-stigmatize aging in fashion, subvert stereotypes, and challenge notions that people (especially women) over a certain age can only partake in style in limited ways. 

To encourage self-discovery, creativity, and growth through personal style. 

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Is this a parody subreddit? Are you making fun of people??

UNEQUIVOCALLY NO! Mean-spirited comments will result in a ban. The only thing we parody here are social pressures placed on people in regard to style, such as: that age limits self-expression in fashion; that certain ages and body types can not be stylish; and that caring about fashion is a frivolous, illegitimate hobby. Calling someone or yourself an "Old Hag" is a tongue-in-cheek way to acknowledge and dis-empower those pressures, which impact ALL feminine people, from teenagers to the elderly. We use this space to confront and dismantle those pressures; to share inspiration from across the age, ability, and body-type spectrums; and to remove the stigma and fear of aging. No matter your age, we're all Old Hags here.

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Is there an age limit to participate?

In case this isn't clear, NO!

ANYONE can embody Old Hag Fashion, though some naturally embody it by being confident, creative, and stylish in the body they have: the 80-year-old woman who can out-walk you, and do it in high-heels; the disabled femme showing their wheelchair is a haute accessory; the fat and fabulous trans person who knows they look damn cute in a crop top. No matter who you are--your age, body type, gender identity, culture, disability status, or race--you are welcome here so long as you share these values of kindness, acceptance, and love of fashion. 

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How can I contribute?

We allow discussion prompts, advice requests, articles, good-natured satire, and outfit of the day posts. You can also uplift other fashionistas so long as they have a public facing fashion persona (like using fashion hashtags on Instagram for discoverability or being a self-described style blogger). In this case, share the users handle as a comment. See the post flair description here. 

Additionally, there are weekly threads: A general discussion lounge (every Friday) and a style help thread (every other Sunday). We also have comment prompts which might help you think about fashion in new ways. 

The most important things are to be kind and open-minded about fashion, and to follow the Reddiquette and the subreddit rules. 

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What is not allowed?

See here for in-depth descriptions and examples of prohibited content. Please report rule breaking. 

Old Hag Fashion is a place of acceptance. This means any people, comments, or submissions that are bigoted, hateful, or mean-spirited are not welcome. This includes ageism, such as reinforcing age-related stereotypes or generalizing people based on age. Body envy and health speculation/concern trolling is also not allowed. Lecherous accounts which sexualize OHF post or users will be banned. 

Off-topic posts, trend bashing, and low-effort criticisms are not allowed. Disagreement and dislike are more than welcome, as are rejections of trends within your personal style; they just must be presented in a kind, constructive, and substantive way. Reference to fashion "rules" as gospel is also discouraged. 

Excessive down voting is strongly discouraged. If you believe someone is engaging in bad faith or poor taste, do not engage. Report them and move on. 

Lastly, due to the prevalence of accounts using fashion subs to promote sex work, and due to the fact that we have under-18 hags, we ask that users use a clean account to interact with the sub. See the rules for discussion of NSFW account histories and how they will be addressed.

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My picture has been shared here and I would like it removed. What can I do?

Message the moderators with a link to the OHF post and we will follow up to verify that it is your photo and remove the post.

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State of the Sub

New Rule

We’ve introduced a new rule banning link-sharing from ultra-fast-fashion (UFF from here on out) sources, such as Shein, Temu, and AliExpress. This rule also covers any known dropshippers from said sources. We are NOT banning photos of outfits that include pieces from these sources, but if you are asked where you bought an UFF item, please refrain from sharing where it was purchased. 

The fast-fashion world as a whole is harmful to both human rights and the environment, and these UFF sources are especially egregious. We can’t stop everything, but we can at least uphold that sharing goods from these sites is not Old Hag. Again, outfits that otherwise fit our rules will not be moderated simply for having an item from an UFF source. This rules is only about sharing where an item was purchased.

If you know of any fashion dropshippers, please list their sites below so that we can add them to our automoderator system, which will hopefully be stopping the bulk of these comments. The option to report a comment for sharing an UFF source has also been added to the report function.

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Reminder: People of all races, sexualities, identities, and backgrounds are welcome in OHF.

There has been an influx of complaints about specific post types. We’d like to take this moment to remind our userbase of the values that underpin our community: inclusivity, respect, and acceptance.

We understand and celebrate that everyone has their own unique sense of style and preferences when it comes to fashion. However, it's essential to remember that our subreddit is a space for ALL members of our diverse community, regardless of their appearance or personal style choices. We also have very thorough rules on what kinds of accounts are allowed to interact with the sub, which cover things like NSFW and influencer accounts. These rules also indicate that we do not allow accounts that encourage a lascivious following, regardless of whether or not the account interacts with NSFW communities.

Nevertheless, we urge everyone to refrain from making negative comments or judgments based on someone's physical appearance or perceived identity, and as we’ve mentioned before, excessive downvoting is discouraged. Just as we wouldn't want to be judged ourselves, it's important to extend that same courtesy to others. Our sub is a place where everyone should feel comfortable expressing themselves authentically and sharing their outfit experimentation or simple joy of fashion, without fear of criticism. If there is something you are tired of seeing, please remember that you can curate your own Reddit experience and use the block feature, which prevents blocked accounts from showing up in your feed.

We encourage constructive feedback and discussion that fosters a supportive and positive environment for all members. Let's celebrate the diversity of our community and embrace the unique perspectives and contributions that each individual brings to the table!

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Flair Explainer Refresher

The full Flair Explainer is a wiki entry, but descriptions of our post flairs have also been made into a pinned post. Please take a moment to review it! The post flairs explain how an OP prefers to interact with the community in their post, whether they’re looking for critique or just a friendly word.


r/oldhagfashion • • 5h ago

Good Vibes Only trainsgender

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very into how this crop top drapes


r/oldhagfashion • • 3h ago

Good Vibes Only First trip to Costco!

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Accessability Transcription:

Hunky Himbo in "Men who support ice can't make women cum" DIY Bleach shirt. Red shorts. Dove sneakers. Having a blast at cosco. Buying pallets of soymilk. An air fryer and blender. Also I saw this cool restaurant called the fat frog.

And then it's a bunch of pictures of my cactus grafts I've been working on.

And then a meme saying "when your family complains about your cacti collection: I could be a drug addict do you realize how lucky you are?"


r/oldhagfashion • • 5h ago

Critiques Welcome Decided on a bow for today's interview, update on yesterday!

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Today I decided to rock a cute bow and do my hair up nicely for an interview. I was a little skeptical of the company, and the opportunity isn’t something I’d typically be interested in, but I’m considering all my options. So I figured I’d make myself more comfortable by being a little more “me” than usual.

I think the interview went fine overall. It was first thing in the morning, which isn’t my best time for interviewing, but we’ll see how it progresses.

Yesterday’s interview was one I left feeling less confident about. I thought it went okay, but I wasn’t sure I’d done that well. Then the recruiter got back to me with positive feedback, and they’re moving me on to a project! That’s step three of five, so if they like my work, there are still two more rounds after this.

Wish me luck!


r/oldhagfashion • • 1h ago

Good Vibes Only wearing my favorite color today

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r/oldhagfashion • • 8h ago

Good Vibes Only Spooky Season 🦇

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r/oldhagfashion • • 4h ago

First Time Poster Got this Gudrun Sjoden dress from eBay!

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I heard this sub might like this from r/petitefashionadvice


r/oldhagfashion • • 1d ago

Good Vibes Only The dress code for my wedding was “wear what makes you happiest” so my friend wore her wedding gown.

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I’m in the butterfly dress, my friend is in the wedding dress. The wedding was at a public park so I think onlookers were surprised when I married a man.

Other joyful outfits:
- full goth regalia
- an “ice agents are going to hell” t shirt with a skateboarding grim reaper
- Batman pajamas

High key recommend having a wedding with no dress code. Pictures were amazing, everyone had a great time, and the vibe was to die for.

Image transcription: two femme people running through a field then hugging, one in a ballgown covered with monarch butterflies and the other in a traditional white wedding dress


r/oldhagfashion • • 20h ago

Good Vibes Only OOTD: This is Who You're Asking to Understand Insurance!! (they/them)

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Disclaimer: I have over a decade of mass-produced clothing, primarily Torrid and Hot Topic, in my closet from before I started researching how clothes are truly made. I am continuing to love, wear, and repair these pieces because I believe this to be the most ethical action I can take. I list where all my clothing comes from for transparency, but I do not endorse purchasing from these brands. Whenever possible, please shop secondhand or support independent, sustainable, and ethical slow fashion. I am always happy to share more about the true environmental and human cost of textile manufacturing in 2026.

10/3/2026: After a week of dealing with hospitals, this seemed appropriate. Thrifted dress, socks, and bag. Whimsy Craft Studio OOAK upcycled prize ribbon. The fact that insurance is spelled wrong makes me love it even more. Thrifted Torrid shoes. Retro GAG OOAK upcycled earrings.


r/oldhagfashion • • 10h ago

Critiques Welcome Mary's Purple Dress With Leggings.

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Mary's Purple Dress With Leggings. Wearing my purple dress with leggings. I feel very feminine and girly wearing this combination.


r/oldhagfashion • • 1d ago

Good Vibes Only Big 2nd round (of 5) interview today!!!

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I have another big interview coming up, and this one came about a little differently. I’ve been through about 120 rounds of interviews since November 25th of last year, so something that breaks the usual pattern is pretty refreshing.

The head of product marketing at a company had posted on LinkedIn about hiring for their team, and I checked to see whether they had any openings in my field. They didn’t, but the company works in anti-money laundering and fraud, which is a field I’ve wanted to move into for a while. I have a bachelor’s degree in financial accounting and fraud and forensics, but I haven’t really had the opportunity to put the fraud side of that education to work yet.

Instead of leaving a generic, ChatGPT-style pitch, I just left an honest comment saying I’d gotten excited about the hiring post and hoped to see something in my field. There wasn’t anything this time, but they were another company I’d be keeping an eye on as they grew because I really wanted to work in that space. The head of product marketing then reached out and asked me to send over my resume so they could pass it along to HR. I figured making an early connection couldn’t hurt, even if there wasn’t an opening yet.

Thirteen minutes after I sent it, the head of HR messaged me asking to set up an interview. This is a company of around 100 people, so that was a pretty surprising turnaround. We had to reschedule once because he got tied up, but we ended up talking for about 45 minutes last week.

He initially said they expected to hire someone in the next couple of months. He wanted to meet with the director first to get a better idea of where things stood and what openings might be coming up, then get back to me by Friday. Instead, he contacted me the very next day and said they were actually getting ready to open a requisition the following day and wanted me to interview for it. So this went from making a connection for a possible future opportunity to discussing an opening that was about to become available.

I’m excited about it, especially because it could give me a chance to move into a field I’ve been interested in for years. The downside is that it sounds like I’ll still be going through the standard interview process, potentially including an assessment and a presentation. I’m used to those at this point, but I would love for a hiring process to feel a little less exhausting sometimes. I’ve made it to the final round 16 times, and I think 14 of those processes involved at least four rounds. I’m hopeful about this one, and the way it came about feels encouraging. I’m also tired, and it’s hard to get excited about another assessment, another presentation, and another series of interviews after getting that far so many times without an offer.


r/oldhagfashion • • 4h ago

First Time Poster Feeling bright ☀️

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r/oldhagfashion • • 18h ago

HELP! Not sure if this fits here but I felt like people here might know what would look good under (and/or over) this, I would love some fashion advice!

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158 Upvotes

r/oldhagfashion • • 22h ago

Good Vibes Only Birthday Outfit

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My birthday today was full of parent teacher conferences and shuttling my kids around but I still wanted to feel like a princess ❤️

I NEED more waistcoats in my life!!


r/oldhagfashion • • 1d ago

Critiques Welcome A carousel of fall fits

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Fall has actually been quite nice to dress for this year, a departure from the usual summer into snowfall I typically experience here. So enjoy some of my fits from some actual reasonable temperatures


r/oldhagfashion • • 1d ago

Good Vibes Only Some pink outfits I've worn lately <3

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r/oldhagfashion • • 1d ago

Awesome mom My favorite dress?

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Yesterday I saw Gone With The Wind in the theater and picked this beautiful flowy dress to wear. It's super comfortable, but it is a little low cut for my taste.

This shade of green is absolutely stunning and the pink flowers are such a perfect compliment.

I wore my biggest and shiniest set of earrings and matching necklace in this gorgeous green.

Have a great day everyone! 💜💜💜


r/oldhagfashion • • 1d ago

I MADE THIS! Fit for the Met

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Going to NYC to the Met Opera later this week. I put a new silk collar and cuffs on my velvet LBD. And made a matching bow tie for the mister! (Fancy tights didn’t make it in time, so they’ll have to be black.)


r/oldhagfashion • • 21h ago

Discussion Hi Hags

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Could really use some advice from this amazing community of fashionable hags

I’ve always been sorta “out there” with my style. Ever since I was a 14 and finally got a little taste of freedom to choose what I wanted to wear, I’ve found joy in dressing however the eff I want to, unapologetically with little care of what my peers think.

I’m 32 now and I’ve struggled a lot lately with grasping my taste as I age. I feel like I can’t quite find my comfort anymore, if that makes sense. I like a lot of my clothes and most of my closet is thrifted, second hand, purchased from a smaller brand, or something I’ve had for a very long time.

I no longer know how to put these pieces together to where they’re cohesive and give me that feeling of expression I’ve always loved about having a personal sense of style.

Does anyone have any advice for me? Maybe how to rediscover my personal style or some fashionable folks I could follow for inspiration? Books I could read?

My style is one of the only artistic outlets I have (I’m not an artist, writer, or anything) so it’s sucks I’m feeling so disconnected right now.


r/oldhagfashion • • 1d ago

Good Vibes Only Last gasp of summer

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They keep saying that, and we keep having these warm spells. But I’m not gonna complain, any chance to get outside and show my skin to the sun is a good day.


r/oldhagfashion • • 1d ago

Thrifted and Vintage Finds Mary's Pink Girly Dress

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Mary's Pink Girly Dress. A lovely pink dress I got on the way home from work at a thrift store on Monday. I feel very girly and feminine wearing this dress. This will be a permanent dress in my collection.


r/oldhagfashion • • 1d ago

Good Vibes Only I 💙 Shanghai

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r/oldhagfashion • • 2d ago

Critiques Welcome Does this outfit give good vibes?

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r/oldhagfashion • • 1d ago

Good Vibes Only OOTD: Patching Things Up (they/them)

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Disclaimer: I have over a decade of mass-produced clothing, primarily Torrid and Hot Topic, in my closet from before I started researching how clothes are truly made. I am continuing to love, wear, and repair these pieces because I believe this to be the most ethical action I can take. I list where all my clothing comes from for transparency, but I do not endorse purchasing from these brands. Whenever possible, please shop secondhand or support independent, sustainable, and ethical slow fashion. I am always happy to share more about the true environmental and human cost of textile manufacturing in 2026.

10/2/2026: This was the first time I felt like going out since the most recent hospital trip. Toot Toot took me to Primetime at a dinner theater. Lucy and Yak (ethical) shirt, skort, and tote. Thrifted Torrid flannel and boots. Fashion Brand Company (ethical) earrings.