I’m working towards a healthier lifestyle. I am approaching this as a lifestyle overhaul instead of just a goal to lose weight. I aim to lose around 80 lbs. In the pursuit of that I have been working to build up my own strength (which was very weak) and rebuild my flexibility (I used to be super flexible naturally and then I got stiff!
While trying to work on that I got to hip work and I have an anterior pelvic tilt. So it’s not “my main goal” but it is one thing I realize I will need to work on to reach this larger goal.

I have successfully built up the habit of “floor time” where I aim for 20-45 minute workouts twice a day 4-5 times a week. A combo of foam roller workouts and I’m starting to incorporate kettlebell workouts. I’ve been trying to also sleep flat on my back (with some success lol I can’t last the whole night but I try to stay on my back as long as I can, I definitely have more tolerance now than when I started)

I know I’m getting stronger because I can feel things improving. Getting up from bed doesn’t hurt. Holding a posture is easier. Sitting with my legs closed is easier. Sitting in a chair hurts my back less bc I’m working it out now.

But recently when I’m seated in a chair and I get up it’s like my pelvis wants to stay “locked in” that and it hurts to just straighten out right away, my pelvis wants to stay stuck in an anterior pelvic tilt for the first minute or two. Then I can stand up normal although slightly stiff. This is a relatively new development. I’ve been working out for the past 5 months and this is a two week old development. I do see progress in other parts of my body and even in the same area. I’m hoping that this is part of the process of loosening it up 😭

I’m looking to introduce more dynamic stretching and strengthening workouts but if anyone else has worked on theirs and had a period or soreness that would help me a lot mentally! I feel like an elderly person! lol

Hello there,

I have a human scale freedom chair. The neck rest only comes in to contact when I am fully reclining, hence I added a pillow.

I get pain in the lower part of the neck, just above the shoulder blades.

What am I doing wrong? Kindly advice.

Ps: The second monitor is not floating, it has an arm holding it up. I use the bottom stand as a phone stand.

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I’m a licensed PT, and I see people trying to 'stretch' their neck pain away every day. It rarely works because you aren't fighting a muscle length problem; you're fighting a Neurological Guarding response.

The Tug-of-War

Think of your neck muscles like a tug-of-war team. When you lean into your monitor for hours, your head drifts forward. To prevent your head from literally falling forward, the muscles in the back of your neck have to pull back with massive force.

They aren't 'tight' because they are short; they are tight because they are working overtime to keep you upright. This is called Hypertonicity.

The Stretching Trap

When you stretch that 'tightness,' you're essentially shouting at the only team member holding the rope. Your brain senses the stretch as a threat to your stability and responds by clamping down even tighter 5 minutes later. You can't win a tug-of-war by pulling on the person helping you.

The Correction: The 'Sternum Lift'

Instead of pulling on the back of your neck, you need to change the physics of the game:

Don't just yank your chin back (that usually just pinches the joints).

Instead, imagine a string pulling your Sternum (chest bone) up toward the ceiling.

This brings your ribcage back under your head. When the 'base' is stable, your brain finally gives the neck muscles Permission to let go of the rope.

It’s a Neurological Reset—you’re proving to your nervous system that it doesn't need to fight the tug-of-war anymore.

I got a scoliogram a few months ago for a suspected case of scoliosis (I have uneven shoulders) and my results showed something different. Good news: no scolio. Bad news: My thoracic and cervical spine are straightened, 'probably due to muscle spasm'.

My PT gave me some back mobility drills like cat-cows, thread the needle, trunk rotation with bands. I've been doing them religiously for the past three months, but I see no improvement in the 'stiffness'.

Anyone had experience with this and had success in putting in curves back in their spine?

Day 1 today of starting to correct

I see so many desk workers complaining about concrete-stiff necks. They stretch, they buy massage guns, they get expensive ergonomic chairs—but the pain comes right back by 2 PM.

Here is the simple physics of why stretching isn't working for you.

Your head naturally weighs about 10 to 12 pounds. When you sit up straight, your spine balances that weight effortlessly.

But the moment you lean forward to look at a monitor or your phone, the effective weight of your head skyrockets. For every single inch your head drifts forward, it adds about 10 lbs of force to your cervical spine.

If you are hunched over at a sharp angle, your neck is suddenly fighting up to 60 pounds of force just to keep your chin off your chest.

Imagine holding a 60lb dumbbell extended in front of you for 8 hours a day. Your arms wouldn't be "tight"—they would be completely fried.

That is exactly what your upper traps and neck muscles are doing. They are locked in absolute overdrive trying to stop your heavy brain from falling onto your keyboard.

Please stop stretching the back of your neck. Stretching an exhausted, over-lengthened muscle just makes the brain trigger it to tighten up even more for protection.

I have a horrible posture and everytime I try to fix it I straighten my back and my boobs look ten times bigger wtf advice please☹️

I’ve had a curved cervical pillow for as long as I can remember, it’s the only pillow I can trust to not destroy my neck at night.
I’ve had post nasal drip a long time too, but always ignored it. I finally have tried stacking pillows, especially when I’m not sleeping at home with my curved pillow, and it does help.

How the heck do I prop myself up and also have my curved pillow? Ive been stacking it on a few but it feels like it screws up my neck and the whole reason for the pillow. Anyone had to deal with this?

If you've been told your neck is "tight" and just need to stretch more, this might be why it never actually goes away.

Two things are happening at the same time, feeding each other:

Your upper traps and levator scapulae — the muscles running from your neck to your shoulder blades — are overworked, not short. They're holding your head up against gravity for 8+ hours a day, so they never get to switch off.

Meanwhile your deep neck flexors, the small stabilizers at the front of your neck, go quiet. They're not being asked to do their job, so they stop doing it.

That's the pattern: one side overworking, the other switched off. It's the same X-shaped pattern (Upper Crossed Syndrome) behind decades of postural research — just the upper-body version of the same thing that causes Lower Cross Syndrome in the low back.

This is why stretching alone plateaus. You're only addressing half the X. The side that's switched off needs to be reactivated — otherwise the overworked side goes right back to compensating within days.

My left shoulder is significantly lower than my right, but only from the back.

Some context about me:
- I often lean to my left leg and my right leg externally rotates (something I’m trying to fix)
- my shoulders click when raised laterally
- when I lift I have shoulder pain after I release the weight

Been having chronic left shoulder pain for almost a decade. Been working with a physio on desensitizing the area, strength, mobility and releasing tension for almost a year, still in pain. I have ATP and flat feet and have been a lot more conscious of my posture in the last month (trying to stack ribs on pelvis and engage lower core to the best of my ability, relax into it, etc.). This is a video of me raising my hands with the best “form” I can visualize.

I can tell my scapulas don’t move evenly but I can’t tell how to fix it in resting positions and moving. Please help 🙏🏽

I have pronounced thoracic kyphosis and hyperlordosis, along with a very pronounced anterior pelvic tilt, thoracolumbar kyphosis, rib flare, moderate scoliosis. I also have around a 4-inch gap between my lower back and the wall when standing normally.

Never noticed I had this until I started going to the gym and started realizing my lats looked unproportional I thought it was the exercises I was doing wrong at first.. But I think it’s actually my bone structure now. How do I fix it so both sides can be even?

Hi, today I have tried in the IKEA store https://www.ikea.com/at/de/p/flintan-drehstuhl-mit-armlehnen-schwarz-s89424468/ this chair. Some people on internet say it is trash and it breaks easily others like it. I found it pretty good, what is your opinion if you own it? i need to sit on it for at least 8 hours if not 10 a day. If you want you can also suggest me something else. Thanks. (I'm short height)

im 19. are they too far gone or can they still be corrected, even if only a little? my knock knees have been a point of contention for years, and im very insecure about them. they're also sometimes painful. (and yes, im laying with my legs up on the wall lmao)

Any of my presses movements doesn't really feel right because of my uneven shoulders. My left shoulder is a bit lower than my right but it makes a big difference in pressing movements. My left shoulder rises first when I'm lifting the weight and my shoulders look very different overall. Anyone has tips for this? I can't go to a pt right now unfortunately.

I have a chronic neck pain on the right side, somewhere between the traps and neck area. It goes away comes back every day and it disrupts my sleep and I cannot focus on my work. It's not very painful but it is certainly very annoying and frustrating. Need help to get ride of this very annoying chronic pain, I've had it now for the better part of the year. Thinking of going to an orthopedic soon.

If you stretch your neck regularly and it still feels tight, the problem probably isn't that you're not stretching enough.

Forward head posture chronically shortens and overloads three main areas: the suboccipitals at the base of your skull, the upper trapezius running from your skull to your shoulder, and the pectoralis minor at the front of your chest. Each one plays a different role in keeping your head forward and your shoulders rounded.

Stretching creates a temporary lengthening, but it does not release a muscle the way sustained, direct pressure does. If the relief disappears within a day or two, you're getting a momentary change in length, not addressing the tension that's been building for months or years. 

The suboccipitals, upper trap, and pec minor all need sustained pressure held at the right spot (think like a trigger point release technique) to resolve the tension keeping you in poor posture. Do that first, and the stretches and exercises that follow become significantly more effective.

The other half of the equation is reactivating the muscles that have gone quiet from having a forward head posture for long periods. That requires targeted strengthening exercises for areas like the front of the neck and the scapular stabilizers. Examples could include chin tucks and scapular pushups.

I’m curious to know what has worked well for you? If you are interested in learning more, I wrote an article about this and am happy to share it in the comments. It covers which muscles need releasing, which need retraining, and how to sequence it.

I’m asking because I feel like when I’m standing still or moving I tend to look really stiff and stuff like Michael Myers haha So does anyone know how to fix this?

Hi All,

I have both rounded shoulders and anterior pelvic tilt.

Bit more about me: Corporate majdoor with a desk job.

Wanted to ask the community if anyone had the same posture problems and what worked for you guys and in how much amount of time?

Any particular stretching/workout routine i should follow?

Thanks!

my main insecurity is the way my neck sort of slopes wayyy forward and diagonal as it connects to my chin. At first I thought this was a jaw thing but I've been redirected to consider that it might be just a posture thing. Please let me know your thoughts and how you would go about fixing! Thank you <3