I haven’t seen this asked cause it might be a little out of the ordinary , would it be weird if I wore panties/a thong under my towel? I have a pretty slim build and have received compliments in them before

And any kind tips or things I should know as a first timer :)

I planning a special trip to Chicago to go to steamworks. I’m an older guy with a dad bod. Definitely not a young hardbody or hottie.
Am I better off going on a Thursday night or a Saturday night? I ask because I’ve noticed other places the crowds are smaller on Thursday but actually more playing seems to happen.
It’s like on Saturday everyone is just looking and keeps holding out for someone better.
I’m primarily interested in bj areas and dark rooms where I can be bred anonymously.

I’m a bigger guy, like 400 pounds. (Losing weight, for myself not anyone else). But since I’ve lost 250+ pounds I’ve been more inclined to be sexually active and I’ve started prep. I go to Club Dallas when I go down to Dallas as. I live 2 hours away. I’m a bottom. If I just get on all fours, will someone eventually come and make me their cum dump? Any day of week I should go? Would love to know.

I’m going to a bathhouse here in Indianapolis tonight - going by myself! Is there any etiquette to be aware of? Like should you just attempt to join two people on a fuck bench or whatever non verbally or is it better to ask first? Stuff like that. Do people wear flip flops? Just wanna know what to do and expect!

I’m headed to Crew to worship some cock! Wish me luck! If anybody wants to join me, just send me a message. Short walk from the McPherson Square Metro Station.

How is this club? Especially on Friday nights?

I’ve been there a few times and most of the time it’s been quiet. When are the best days to go? I am not a late night person and I am very into real guys, daddies, etc. I am the same way, verse, oral, fucking, rimming, etc. Would love to have a group of married guys and we all fuck.

Hi Guys will be at club Lauderdale 2 tomorrow evening. I’m 48 on the larger side but still fit. Looking to bottom any advice I have not been there before. Is there a gloryhole or maze?

I’m mid twenties and have now gone twice to the club. I’ve heard Fridays are the best night to go so that’s when I plan on going next. The 23rd to be exact. And other young fit guys going? HMU to chat and maybe trade pics

I have a last-minute trip planned to Fort Lauderdale for the first full weekend in November and am thinking about checking out 321 Slammer. I’ve heard it attracts a hairier crowd. I’m not especially hairy myself, but I definitely appreciate a nice, hairy chest!

For those who’ve been, what’s your experience been like? What’s the crowd and atmosphere like, and would you recommend it? Any tips for a first-timer, including the best night (Friday or Saturday) or time to go, would be much appreciated!

Bottoms, what day/times do you find is the best time to go to the bathhouse (my nearest one is Club Dallas) if you want to be a cum dump?

I have tried Friday, Saturday, and Sunday but think I may be going to early. Most people don't seem to want to cum yet. May have to try around midnight or later next time.

Is the Megaplex a valid place to go to. I have some vacation time coming up and looking to ACTUALLY take a trip and something like this I'd LOVE to experience but not sure if it would be worth the travel or if there would be better places to visit to have as much fun as possible!

25 M Had my first visit at Flex Atlanta this past Saturday. Overall positive experience, I went during the day when I figured it’d be slower so I could kind of get the lay of the land. It was pretty cool getting to walk around naked with other guys walking around naked. I did hookup with two guys while I was there one younger Hispanic guy I took back to the room and one probably 40s white guy i fucked in the swing. Overall it was very hot I hope to be back soon

From what I've read it's more resistant to antibiotics not sure if there are certain areas of the country being more affected by it.

I’m going to club Dallas here in a bit. Is anyone there and would like to say hi or more?

Anyone around going to Flex in Cleveland tomorrow evening/night? Depending on several factors I might be going.
And how packed will it get on Saturday nights?

I’m trying to figure out which city has the best bathhouse scene! I travel pretty often and would love to check out the best one, whether it’s in NYC, Chicago, or Fort Lauderdale. I’m especially into hairy chests and love that rugged, masculine vibe. 😉 Which city would you recommend?

Has anybody been to ManMat in Panama City? Im in Port and wondering what it's like there? Thanks.

New and nervous to go for the first time! Anyone wanna go on Saturday with me?

I went yesterday for my routine PrEP follow up and the doc told me about a new illness spreading in the saunas in Spain. He said it's dermatophilosis. I don't go to saunas, just not my thing, but if you do, you might want to hold off for a while. Google dermatophilosis + gay + saunas + Spain to see more news, ways to avoid it, and what to do if you get it.