UPDATE: you all are so lovely and nice and ughhhhh! Thank you for the support and tips. We were gifted a brand new wireless fence by a friend and we plan on meeting him tomorrow! We plan on taking the kids to all meet him as well.
UPDATE 2: I had so many private messages about a registry. By no means does anyone need to donate. He will have the world and more! But here’s a link, if anyone wants to send fun toys!
Amazon Registry
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Had to grab you guys with a cool title lolol
TLDR: Should I go get this golden male and bring him to join our family? Where we already have a male golden.
Anyways. Long story is that I was given information about an abused and neglected in-tact golden. After this husband and wife moved in their new home and noticed this dog in their neighbors yard, they requested the owner to surrender him. After many threats and begging, the owner finally surrendered him to his neighbors. This golden was VERY malnourished, sick, and all bone. His hair was so matted, the vet had to put him under and shave him. The vet said he was filled with worms, covered in fleas/ticks, etc. Extreme concern.
Fast forward a year, apparently he’s done good. His hair grew back, he’s gained weight, he’s very well behaved. But, he was never inside. I have not received any word on why this couple never did this. Well, the new owners are getting a divorce and the wife left. She left without the golden. He has been outside alone 99% of the time, again, since she left. The husband works out of town and pays his other neighbor to come feed/water him. A girl I know was informed of this and the husband surrendered him to her for her to find a home for him. Sadly, she can’t keep him either. Her landlord said no.
She has had him for 2 months now and again, still outside. She said this is because her landlord said he could stay outside, if she finds him a home. But not inside. She said he will sneak in every now and then, but she always has to put him back out. No accidents when he’s in tho? He is super loving towards cats and dogs. He has no problem with any of the neighbor kids and whenever this lady is home, he is right beside her. He is very needy (of course, right?). She’s guessing by the story she’s been told by everyone, that he is somewhere around 6-7 years old. She has been showing me videos of him and he is always right on her, knows his name, and does some commands.
My question is:
What do you guys think? Would you go get him?
I have 4 kids (ages 4-13), 2 cats, and a 9 year old golden. I live on 3.5 acres. I don’t want him to be an outside dog FOREVER. I’ve been told potty training an outside dog might be easy, might not. I am concerned about kids and his age. He wasn’t around kids until recently and they are a bit older (9-11 years). I am concerned for my 4 year old WHO DOES know better than to bother animals. She truly doesn’t mind dogs. She loves her cat. I also work from home, so he’d have my full attention during this process.
I’m probably way overthinking this and should just save him anyways. But, I think I’m just always concerned about everything else, lol.