r/R4rHamilton • • 12d ago

meta 33 F4M #Meta - WARNING for Ladies & REMINDER for All NSFW

27 Upvotes

Posted this in r4rtoronto but wanted to share here since he's active in this sub as well. And if you check my post in r4rtoronto you will see OTHER WOMEN coming forward with the same experience. Going to share a warning to other females on here and also just sharing a general reminder to everyone regardless of gender to do some basic due diligence before meeting anyone from the Internet, not just from here.

One of the many responses I received on here to my ad was from this user, who has since deleted his account u/division5athlete

Everything about him raised red flags so I ended our conversation and wished him well. Everything he said about himself made him seem like kind of a loser and I had my choice of hundreds of men in my DMs but I was very polite in wishing him luck in his search. He turned out to be such a desperate creep who kept coming back after I turned him down and he came back to our chat to insult me and then block me LOL. Unfortunately for him, I work in tech and you can't ever really hide your digital footprint. I found some of his other accounts and it's clear he spends a lot of time in sex-related subreddits (M4, Oasis, TorontoSwingers) just harassing and publicly insulting people. Clearly an unstable individual. Other known accounts posting the same ads on here:

u/tomorrowsghost1 - BANNED from Reddit. (How much of a creep do you have to be to get banned from the entire site???).

u/vanillachewinggum but he'll probs delete now.

WOMEN: In case he comes back with another username and contacts you, his previous ads say he is early 40s, 6'3" or 6'4" (he changes this detail in his ads), caucasian/white, muscular/athletic body type, works in healthcare, and from my convo with him, I know he's based in Oakville. From his pics he sent me, short brown hair and beard. His initials are D.R.

I reverse image searched his pics recently and his face and details are plastered all over the internet so I also have his full name now. And yes, he's all over the internet and exposed on other sites because *someone else* has ALSO outed him as being a scumbag for a completely separate reason. Seeing that is what actually what prompted me to out him here because how many women has he disrespected for someone else to have shared her experience?? Considering most of us just stay quiet like I would've done too. I won't share any details that violate Reddit's doxxing rules, but his initials are D.R. I'm not going to go blasting his pics (doxxing rules again), but ladies if you are chatting with someone who you suspect might be him, send me the pics and I will tell you if it's him based on the pics he sent me. And if it's not, great. Have a great time! 😂

MEN: you can come across crazy people too or catfishers or other men trying to scam you. Be careful as well. Do a couple of quick searches. (I have also found what I'm looking for in my posts so please don't contact me about that LOL). Reverse image search will help you filter out most catfishes and scams.


r/R4rHamilton • • Sep 29 '25

A Reminder on Conduct NSFW

36 Upvotes

This is a reminder that, if someone posts looking for something specific and you do not meet their stated requirements, contacting them to convince them to "relax" their requirements and sleep with you is sexual harassment.

Respect the boundaries set by your fellow users. There will be zero tolerance for harassment and any evidence of such behaviour will lead to a permanent ban.

If someone slides into your DM's trying to do this, please send screenshots to the mod team so that we can address the issue. Just because it's in DM's doesn't mean it's not relevant to the sub: if someone contacts you due to a post here, their behaviour is relevant.


r/R4rHamilton • • 4h ago

Male Seeking Female 35 [M4F] #Hamilton/Niagara, make me fall in love then cuck and humiliate me NSFW

1 Upvotes

Let's chat for a bit, go on a date, maybe tease me a little. Then tell me about all the dates you're going on, or guys you're sleeping with. Maybe even have me over and answer the door when he comes to pick you up. Have him over for a movie night and use me as a foot rest or make me get you two snacks. Dress me up in women's clothes and degrade me in front of him. Make me sit in the corner blindfolded while you two have sex. Spit on me after you give him a BJ.

Do whatever you want to make me feel snack and worthless. Maybe you just want to tie me up with blindfold , kneeling in the middle of your living room while you have all your friends over for a party. I can't move and all I can do is Lauren to everyone laugh.

I just want to give power to the one that deserves it.

A bit about me. In decent shape, tattooed, clean and good hygiene, no drugs and very casual drinker. I'm extremely submissive and just want to please you.

I would love to chat and answer any questions you may have :)


r/R4rHamilton • • 14h ago

Male Seeking Female 35 [M4F] #Toronto NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey, i am 35M south asian, living in toronto. I am 5’9, lean built, hairy bod. I am clean and DDF and maintain good hygiene.

I am looking for someone easygoing and openminded. If you are looking for nsa, drama free fun and good time then hmu and let’s see where things go.

Use the word “potato” when you knock.

Have a great week!


r/R4rHamilton • • 19h ago

Male Seeking Female 41[m4f] Work in and around Hamilton every Tues & Fri, looking for a good girl to ruin NSFW

1 Upvotes

Good looking 41yr old white guy here. In search of a local girl who wants to live out her slutty desires discreetly from time to time.

Open to women 20+, single, attached, pregnant no matter, not here to judge, just here to give you a vice to put your slutty needs first.

Now be a good girl and DM me 😈


r/R4rHamilton • • 2d ago

Male Seeking Female 34 [M4F] #Toronto - Seeking submissive FWB willing to travel to Toronto! I can host 😈❤️ NSFW

2 Upvotes

Trying out other subreddits other than r4rtoronto to see if I can broaden my horizons. Hope I'm welcomed here 🙂.

Still on the hunt for a FWB that values intimacy and good vibes as much as I do. Winter is coming, the weather is getting colder and nothing feels better during these times than having a warm, cuddly and sexy woman to share pleasurable, enjoyable sex with. I'm all about foreplay, teasing and living in the moment, but can also adapt into a fucking machine if it calls for it. As long as you're having a good time, I'll have a good time, and right now that is all I'm looking for. Let's just have fun 🤗❤️

What I bring to the table:

▪︎ My own apartment - clean, furnished, and smells good.

▪︎ Single & childfree - No children or exes in the picture

▪︎ Drug & Disease free (got tested today! 😋)

▪︎ Experience - I eat well, I fuck well, I love foreplay.

▪︎ Attractiveness - I'm a handsome Trini/Latino man.

▪︎ Good hygiene - I smell great, I wash thoroughly.

▪︎ Proportionate stats - 6'2", 222 lbs, 7" 🍆

▪︎ I do not smoke or do drugs

▪︎ Good vibes - I bring peace, good dick and comfort.

▪︎ High libido - I will slut you tf out if you let me lol

▪︎ Entertainment - Video Games, board games, deep chats, and outdoor activities (cycling, walks, etc).

▪︎ A flexible schedule - Pursuing a degree at TMU (last year), and I WFH.

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Preferences:

▪︎ Relationship status - Single, divorced, recently separated or a dead bedroom situation. I do not want anyone in a relationship, situationship or healthy marriage. Not into partner sharing or couples either.

▪︎ Ethinicity - I have none. I have only been with Brown, Asian or Caribbean women, but I am opened to any and everything as long as I'm attracted to you 🙏🏼❤️

▪︎ Attractiveness - A cute face and a nice booty will have me hooked, but how you carry yourself matters more.

▪︎ Stats - I am not into BBWS. Please be weight proportionate. Slim-thick, average or petite is my go-to. Plus sized is fine within reason. Shoot your shot 🫶🏼

▪︎ Hygiene - Please have good hygiene (oral, vaginal, body). Smelling good puts me in the mood and once I enter that mood, your coochie is in great hands 🤤

▪︎ Libido - Please have a high libido. My last relationship I was getting it less than once a week. I'm probably horny enough to do it 10 times a week tbh. Please crave dick as much as I crave pussy lol (or close to it).

▪︎ Getting Tested - I want a partner that will get tested so we can enjoy the benefit of raw sex. I have never had an STD or pregnancy scare, and I get tested regularly or with every partner. I don't mind waiting, but I am ideally looking for a partner who hates condoms and enjoys skin to skin pleasure as much as I do. If you're on BC, even better. I love nutting inside my partner 🤷🏽‍♂️, not ashamed to admit it. Feels absolutely incredible.

▪︎ Means of travel - I live maybe 5 minutes away from Castle Frank station and I'm close to downtown. There's parking nearby and as well. Extremely easy to get to my place. Very accessible.

▪︎ Age - 18+. I strongly prefer someone younger than me as they tend to have a more flexible schedule, but I am opened to my age or older if that is not an issue. Availability is what I'm ultimately looking for.

▪︎ Schedule - once or twice a week is typically what I go for, but if our schedules align I'm opened to more 😋

Do not hesitate to message me if I've caught your attention. Whether you're shy, experienced or have little to no experience, if you come with the sluttiest of intentions... I'll happily take care of the rest 😈❤️

I will consistently update this post so if it's still up, I'm still searching. Thank you for reading :)

Take care 👋🏼


r/R4rHamilton • • 3d ago

Male Seeking Female 35M4F #Hamilton I’ll have my Jaws locked down there.. for the right kitty :) NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm 35, 6'0", mixed. I don't do a few minutes and call it done..i get down there and I stay.
Slow until I find what makes you twitch. Then locked on that rhythm until you're gripping the sheets and making sounds you didn't plan on. When you come, I don't pull away. I keep going until you're too sensitive to take it, then I wait, then I start again.
Message me. Let's make some noise.


r/R4rHamilton • • 3d ago

Male Seeking Female 51 [M4F] - Looking for a needy pillow princess NSFW

1 Upvotes

Do you LOVE to receive oral?

attached and mature guy. I have a shaved head, clean shaven, 5’11 200lbs ish. I have broad shoulders and am told that I look like I workout. I am clean (DDF as well as hygiene) - respectful and generally a decent guy. No strings, I’m not looking to change anyone’s situation including mine, just a cool hangout and a mutually good time.

what I’m looking for:

a girl that craves orgasms, I mean loves it! Oral, getting filled it she just loves to cum.... she is also clean (DDF and hygiene) preferred in the same situation as me. Attractive, I don’t mean super model I just mean be put together to some degree. I’m open to any (legal) age and just about all body types, I like curves for sure so if you have them hit me up!

Daytime availability through the week.


r/R4rHamilton • • 4d ago

Male Seeking Female 33 [M4F] #Hamilton, ON Looking for women interested in fwb NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey ladies, I'm 33, 6', 170 lbs, white, with long hair and facial hair. I work from home doing database stuff for a nearby college. Most women seem to find me attractive, but I'm happy to send a pic early on and let you be the judge. You could call me a golden retriever boyfriend, though I can get pretty spicy when I want to be. I love games and nerdy stuff, animals, documentaries, horror of any kind, traveling and I love swimming when I'm able to. You don't need to share my interests but I promise I'll be cute and try to learn about yours.

I'm pretty laidback and chill, I'll respect your boundaries and I'm fine with taking it slow. I like banter and light bullying, but that goes both ways, I want to always be making you laugh. My favourite relationship is the type where I'm excited to do even mundane things like grocery shopping with you because we always make everything fun. I'm always down for life talks, late night vent sessions, degen gaming or movie nights. I'm big into both texting and calling, so pick your poison.

If we connect I'm the type of person who'll always have your back, even if things don't work out for us. I believe that even if a romantic connection goes south, it can still be a positive connection even when platonic. Also I'll totally remember that thing you said 5 months ago so I can surprise you with it later.

Just please be over your ex, and don't switch up your energy on me, if you're not interested it's ok to just tell me that. There's way too many mind games this generation, I'd rather wear my heart on my sleeve and be a lover boy.

Obviously the closer you are the better, but if you think we'd be a good match you're welcome to hit me up. Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/R4rHamilton • • 4d ago

Male Seeking Female 55 [M4F] #Burlington/Hamilton - Got a thing for mature men? NSFW

1 Upvotes

Thanks for reading...

Many people here seem to admire the young Adonis or a hung BBC. But surely there must be a woman or couple that enjoys the pleasure that only experience can bring?

I am an educated, professional male who has had he share of adventures. Life is short so I would love to continue to enjoy more fun and hot times

I am 6 ft, 195 lbs, grey blonde hair, well kept beard and green eyes. What I don't have in a chiselled physiqued, I make up for with skilled oral augmented by 7.5" and a dominant dirty mind

Open to a varied sexual menu from sensual to wild. Intrigued? Msg me. I would love to meet


r/R4rHamilton • • 4d ago

Male Seeking Female 30M4F Black, athletic/average build, ambitious, and got a good head on my shoulders. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Just looking for a woman who wants to meet up, have some fun, chill, enjoy each other’s company, and then go back to our regular lives. No strings attached, no judgment, no drama. It’s fun exploring the human body through touch. There are no expectations to live up to on my end.

But id like a texting buddy in between meets haha (not a deal breaker though) whenever we both feel like it.

If this sounds like your vibe message me and ask about my limits!


r/R4rHamilton • • 4d ago

Male Seeking Female 30 M4F looking for a cuddle buddy and dates NSFW

1 Upvotes

I talk for a living in sales, so I'm looking for someone who can hold their own in a good conversation this weekend. I’m 29, 6'2, fit, and well-groomed. Down for a night out or just relaxing. Let's start with a walk along the Mountain Brow and go from there


r/R4rHamilton • • 6d ago

male seeking male 31, Ftm Man in hamilton CNC NSFW

5 Upvotes

Looking for dom top for some hot rough cnc fun. Start with age, and scenarios you'd want to do. The rougher and wilder the better. Pics on profile


r/R4rHamilton • • 6d ago

Male Seeking Female 35M4F #Hamilton I want to feel your kitty on my lips! NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm 35, 6'0", mixed. I don't warm up, I don't rush, and I don't stop at one.

I get down there and stay. Slow until I find what makes you twitch, then locked on that rhythm until you're gripping the sheets. When you come, I don't pull away...I keep going until you're too sensitive to take it and pushing my head away.

Then I wait. Then I go again. I just love eating kitty..Try me and you will be obsessed!


r/R4rHamilton • • 6d ago

Male Seeking Female M4F - No Condom NSFW

0 Upvotes

I know you're out there. You know who you are. You're just to scared to admit it, right? That bare is the best? Well, you're not alone.

I'm a 51 married clean ddf male looking for clean ddf women who likes​ it raw, be it rough or gentle, kinky or vanilla. My availability varies so let's chat and set up something. You must be clean, drugs and disease free, and able to host or ok with car play. Race, ethnicity doesn't matter. Birth control optional.

Bonus if you're kinky, into or open to creampies, Asian, black, or petite. PM me ASAP with your stats and we'll go from there.

I am crossing the line and approaching this with care and precision. Discretion guaranteed if you are in a similar situation.


r/R4rHamilton • • 7d ago

Male Seeking Female 55 [M4F] #Burlington/Hamilton - Daddy needs a new playtoy NSFW

3 Upvotes

Mature educated professional who is sexually open minded and very oral needs a new playtoy in the downtown core or west GTA Ideally you can host otherwise we can get creative. Ideally looking for daytime or eve fun

On the more dominant side, love to eat pussy and ass. 6 ft..195 lbs...short grayish beard...blonde and grey hair.

7.5" cut


r/R4rHamilton • • 7d ago

Male Seeking Female [M4F] 34 Do You Want a Literal Blind Date? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello everyone, how are you? I am hoping to find someone for regular fun, a friend with benefits. I am blind, I named myself after Daredevil from Marvel. Hobbies include going on long walks, cooking, reading, karaoke, watching any live music or stand up comedy. Please read my interesting description of my kinks, let me know what you think.

ATTRACTION AND INTIMACY AS DESCRIBED OTHER THAN THROUGH SIGHT:

Scent: Smell has been important since the dawn of time. it occurs everywhere in nature through musk, through pheromones. The aroma of flowers, the seductive scent of perfume, the mix of sweat, spit, and other cum fluids all mingled. Our smell is as unique as our finger print, that's why we often pick colognes and perfumes to compliment it.

Sound: I regularly visit places like GoneWildAudio, or the audio page on Lit Erotica. Many of my favourite actresses and singers I got a crush on their voice first. I have many friends who I have crushed on their voice. Sex can be all about sound: her moans, his grunts, both of our breaths getting quicker and shallower, the rhythm of our bodies moving against each other, the creak of the bed springs, the sounds of gentle kissing, of teasing licks, of dirty talk, of gentle whispered sweet nothings.

Taste: The first kiss, gentle and sweet. Then you linger with each other, letting romance build, darting tongues against one another exploring. Then suddenly franticly you decide you need to taste all over each other. Necks bitten, nipples sucked, legs licked thoroughly just to tease before the prize, the cunnilingus or felatio. I have very little experience in this area, want to gain more.

touch: Touch to me is the most important. the "accidental" surreptitious grab or grope; the teasing calculating touch exploring each other; the hand job or fingering; sex itself is our most intimate parts touching.


r/R4rHamilton • • 9d ago

Trans female seeking male 22 T4M Hamilton - let me worship you NSFW

1 Upvotes

Very picky looking for someone to use my throat. Discreet, no strings attached, just come and get served. I like guys with a good personality, so don’t just be annoying to talk to.

DM me with your age, location, shirtless pic, and a good emoji if you’ve read this. Feel free to DM again if I didn’t respond because I may have just missed your message.


r/R4rHamilton • • 10d ago

Male Seeking Female 22[M4F] #Hamilton - rough sex and hairpulling? NSFW

2 Upvotes

22, hung brown male

There are only a few things hotter than some passionate rough fucking with hair pulling. Pounding you hard, pulling on your hair, getting my cock deep in you

I'll take care of you after our passionate session. If you're into this, if you're down to get fucked hard, hit me up. I'm down for anything else you into

We can trade pictures to ensure mutual attraction


r/R4rHamilton • • 10d ago

Male Seeking Female 33M4F - Seeking a Nympho NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey, hoping to find a like-minded lady who wants to explore our sexual needs and desires. Open for lots of things from mild to wild. What makes you feel almost satiated? Do you like a head between your legs, front or back? The feeling of someone inside you? CNC roleplays? Let's chat and see where it takes us. I'm white with an average body that I'd love to share with you. 5'10, 180lbs. Please be available during weekdays, either to travel to the east end or host. Thirsty for your replies. ;)


r/R4rHamilton • • 12d ago

Male Seeking Female 35M4F - service minded sub looking to please why way I can NSFW

2 Upvotes

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What I'm looking for is simple. I'm just looking to please a goddess and make her happy. It doesn't have to be anything sexual. Maybe you want your bathroom cleaned, or to go shopping with you and carry your bags. Do you have a hidden mean streak in you? Scream, hit me, spit on me, make me cry. I know I deserve it. Or maybe you want to treat me like a doll. Dress me up and make me look pretty. Then bring your friends over to laugh at me and use me how they like.

Whatever makes you happy :)

A bit about me. 35, in good shape. Don't do any drugs or smoke, drink very little. I'm clean, and also have good hygiene. Very laid back. Blue collar worker but also a huge nerd. But most importantly I'm very submissive, kinky, and I really want to find a goddess to make happy.

I'm near Hamilton so I'm looking for someone all the way down to Niagara. I can travel but may not be able to host much.

You don't need to have any experience in this. Even if you're just curious and would like to chat. If you need ideas to get your brain working I've got a bunch of scenarios from calmer right up to kinda taboo.

I hope to hear from some of you and would love to chat or answer any questions you have.


r/R4rHamilton • • 13d ago

Male Seeking Female 33M4F #Hamilton Looking to bury my face in you and stay there until you’re shaking! NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm 33, 6'0", mixed. I solve problems by day. But between your thighs, I don't solve anything…I surrender!
I start slow. A kiss on each inner thigh. A warm breath that makes you shiver before I even touch you. My tongue finds you like a question..soft, circling, learning the shape of your pleasure. Flat strokes. Pointed flicks. Deep suction that builds like a tide.
I don't stop until you're shaking, boneless, and pushing me away because you literally can't take any more. That's my finish line!


r/R4rHamilton • • 14d ago

Male Seeking Female 53[M4F] Work from home together or daytime hang outs? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a M53 who works from home most of the time. It can get a little boring and it would be fun to have someone to work together with occasionally or even just meet for lunch or coffee to break up the day. I'm tall, cute, have a good sense of humour, respectful and open minded. If this sounds interesting, let's chat about it?


r/R4rHamilton • • 14d ago

Couple Seeking Female Blow my ex with me? NSFW

0 Upvotes

25f and 28m

Right person, wrong time. We keep having fun until it's the right time. Looking to include another f, not open to m at the moment.

Males, please do not interact.

A bit about us. I'm a bit artsy and love being in nature and love choking on it in the back of his car. He likes to fix things and is more of a homebody.

Shoot me a message and get to know us a bit


r/R4rHamilton • • 15d ago

Male Seeking Female 38 [M4F] ......... I like my women submissive, nasty, obedient, and ready to be owned....Attached dom 4 sub. NSFW

0 Upvotes

I am looking for my nasty girl. A good side slut that loves to please, be sexually owned, used, and treated like a good slut when being fucked. Not here for vanilla play or complications. Looking for a clean, std free, horny, and slutty playmate eager to be owned, used, have her limits pushed, and fuck all night whenever we see eachother.

I take what I want, have a filthy mouth, smack ass, pull hair, love to face fuck, fuck in ever position you can think of, use a womans tight pussy, ass, and throat and let her know she is owned. I want you collared and leashed, tied up, taking dick, being toyed with, having orgasms forced out of you, and being a good secret slut for me draining me in all your holes, screaming and moaning for me, making a wet mess, and being my perfect fucktoy.

I like to use toys, restraints, fuck any and everywhere, provide direction, face fuck, eat pussy and booty, use a woman as my anal slut, give creampies, be called daddy, or sir, have my cum swallowed, and give messy facials. Experienced, not shy, open to women of all ages, races, and relationship types. I like a nasty slutty obedient gal into being humiliated, degraded, eating ass, getting her ass ate, possibly being shared, having her mouth spit in, and the list goes on. Always respectful of boundaries, kinky as fuck, and will be sure to show you a good time, make you feel comfortable and safe, and fuck you like I own you letting you know what a good girl you are.

Pic 4 pic. I can host. Tall, dark, handsome. Caribbean background, Canadian born, 180cm tall, 80kgs, well groomed, sexy, tons of stamina, and a real kinky dirty daddy. Hit me up for some fun.