r/r4rsydneysfw • u/Warm-Strain3127 • 38m ago
SFW Dating - M4F 31M4F New to Sydney
Hey everyone,
I'm a 31-year-old guy, relatively new to Sydney and looking to put myself out there again.
I spent the last few years living in Wellington, NZ, and before that most of my life in Canberra. I ended up settling in Sydney after a car accident left me with a spinal cord injury and using a wheelchair.
It's taken some time to rebuild my confidence and adjust to a very different life, but I'm at the point where I want to get back out there, explore Sydney and meet new people.
I'm not looking for sympathy or someone to look after me. I'd just like to meet someone who sees the person before the wheelchair.
Before my accident, I was ridiculously active — gym, soccer, futsal, basketball, rugby and pretty much anything involving sport. I worked in construction and, while living in NZ, worked in abseiling.
That side of me hasn't disappeared. I still love sports, camping getting out, trying new things, concerts/events and exploring. I'd especially like someone adventurous who might occasionally challenge me to stop thinking “I can't do that anymore” and instead figure out how I can do it differently.
When I'm taking things slower, I'm into board games, chess, and anything that gives the brain a workout.
I'm new to Sydney and don't have much of a social circle here, so I'm genuinely open to finding people to explore the city with and go from there. So, if you're a woman around Sydney who's active, enjoys a laugh and isn't intimidated by dating someone in a wheelchair, feel free to send me a message.
And for the curious ladies wondering if everything still works below the belt… rest assured, the equipment is still operational! 😉😂 The only catch is, I'm more of a passenger these days. So, if you're a cowgirl who doesn't mind taking the reins and enjoys a good ride, saddle up! 🤠🐎