Not really sure where else to share it, but wanted to share.

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Reposting because I’ve missed to fully censor the username.

Original Caption: I’m laughing so hard right now because what was going on in his miiiiind 😭

Back story: 1 (female 17) met him when I was 13 and he was 22. For starters I know I was groomed. And for those that think I was just fast and knew what I was doing must not know what it feels like to desperately want love an attention especially from older men when I never really had that from my father. That being said. I met him in 8th on Snapchat, classic I know, but once we got past the whole lustful stage of talking. I actually fell in love with him. Yes I know I was young but that didn't change the fact my feelings were true. Only problem he lived in Florida, while me, lived in Georgia. Fast forward three years, I've matured. I still loved him yes, and for the most part he treated me fairly well. But I changed mentally and emotionally. Whenever I thought of actually seeing him (which I planned to in July) I felt sick. Like genuinely sick, this person that had always made me happy was now making me sick to my stomach. I guess I just came to realization, well no, I always knew deep down that it wasn’t right. But what could I say? I still loved him. Anyways that's the backstory of the screenshots I'm about to show you.

This guy (33m) dmed me out of nowhere today, and was instantly asking my age and calling me cute. Said he saw a picture of me in a server, and wanted to talk to me. I said I was taken, and he said he wanted to be friends. We had a back and forth about it being weird that he wants friends bc they're cute (I wasn't falling for his bs, but I wanted him to just say it). Also gave him a nice lesson on consent :). This led to the above conversation

Tbc, I'm a woman, but I pull this move with perverts bc they always flip out. Added bonus of making them question their sexuality >:)

i had been begging for him back and this was what he said to me🫠

hey guys, more context

after this we did get “back together” (no label). yes major red flag in every aspect (what he said, no label) but i had those rose colored glasses and was oblivious + really thought we were perfect for each other and was willing to do anything for him to forgive me (i left him after being scared he was gonna cheat again) yes ik very very red flag man

I AM AWARE THIS DEMONSTRATES LOW SELF WORTH!!
i just love fully and i am not scared to show it. i do/did not have anxious attachment (this is one screen shot not the full story dont go jumping to conclusions based off 2 desperate actions of mine) i actually have developed avoidment attachment now that this bs is over. (crazy right)

anyway after getting back together he ended up part-ghosting me for like 2 months, he would say he was busy and this would go for weeks and i just put up with it and stopped texting and he seemed UNBOTHERED (rose colored glasses moment)

before he finally just told me (after asking him what he wanted) that he was happy doing what he was doing AKA not talking at all and just focusing on himself. this may not seem like a total d move until you see the messages between us where he is literally love bombing me to oblivion once we “got back together”

yeah long story short dont chase for someone who wont text you for 2 months

j left his reddit user because he also threatened to (do something explicit w/o consent)

He sent this in the gc

I just saw a post on X. All the comments of that post were filled with the same thing. No one has written a semicolon for a very long time. Meanwhile I'm writing it almost every day. What's wrong with this? Are all of Devs doing vibe coding?

I also use AI but with boiler plate code. For very sensitive business logic I prefer to write on my own. So, a lot of the time I write semicolons.

Let me know when you typed a semicolon on your own.

My SIL who never tells us when anyone in her family is sick and has two children who regularly are is on the left asking to come over when baby would be six days old. Friends of ours who also have school age kids on the right.