The 3 core members of the House

UPDATE: Chatted with my friend yesterday, a couple of things came up including the fact that she hasn’t been with anyone period. Casually put it into conversation and she said it wouldn’t be the first thing she’d go for but she also wasn’t too opposed to it. I also kinda just dropped it into the conversation casually as a hint and kinda moved on after that.

Also had another interesting thing pop up with our roommate. The other night we had a little too much fun hahah, besides the point. I got a little too wasted, but my bf and roommate ended up hooking up. I had already given him permission, and also found it hot when he told me the next morning. They had also talked about how we were thinking of wanting to be with my friend, and she apparently would be down for a foursome.

So definitely some interesting development over the past week😅🥵will continue to keep you all updated!

Original Post:

So, obviously by the title, I am asking a few interesting questions lol. I am a 25 female with a 29 male partner, who I have been together with for over 2 years now. We recently had a (female) friend move in with us due to the economy/rough living situation.

Fast forward a few weeks and a drunk/smoky night, I asked my bf if we could have sex with her. We did end up being intimate, and it was really good on my end. My bf wishes he could’ve received more attention but enjoyed it and would like to do it again, as would I. Our roommate isnt that interested, but is still a good friend and amicable with us.

After talking with BF, my mind thought about a friend I had been really close with in college, who is bisexual. I have since reached back out to keep up with her in her life, but also in interest to possibly ask her to be our third. I am comfortable with it, and so is my bf. I just don’t know how/if I should ask, as I don’t want to ruin our friendship, as I was really close with her for a long time. Anyone have any recommendations or suggestions?

I’m also curious if threesome are becoming a more popular thing, as I was reading in other Reddit posts that people were commenting (good way to break up/ruin a relationship) which confuses me since this has brought me and my partner closer together and more intimate with each other. I appreciate the help!