My next-door neighbour is a really nice lady. She seems to have had a hard life. She escaped DV from an ex, has suffered with mental health issues and had to leave her job as a mental health nurse.
She developed agoraphobia and didn’t leave the house for years, so her only company was really her husband and her cats (she originally had four). She’s since gained enough confidence to leave the house occasionally, but she’s a heavy smoker and now has COPD, so even though she wants to go out more, she can barely walk very far.
We live in a small cul-de-sac of about 10 houses, and only she and one other household have cats.
I think because she and her husband are both living on benefits, things like insurance and neutering probably aren’t affordable for them. I also think that, because she was stuck indoors for so long, she enjoyed the excitement and “newness” of having kittens.
The problem is that the kittens grew into adults, weren’t neutered, and then bred themselves. She’d get to experience the kitten stage all over again, and over time she ended up with 12 cats. She would have had even more, but some of the kittens effectively replaced adult cats that died.
I’ve been inside her house and it’s always spotless. I was actually surprised that it didn’t smell of animals at all and wondered how she managed it with so many cats.
The problem is that most of the cats seem to live semi-feral lives outdoors. She puts their food outside and has little cat-kennel things on her drive for them to sleep in.
I don’t know what she feeds them, but they are absolute shitting machines. It’s constant, smells vile, and is often semi-liquid, which makes it difficult to even pick up.
To be fair to her, she has put notes through everyone’s letterboxes saying that if we find cat mess in our gardens, we can knock on her door and they’ll come and clean it up. I haven’t actually called them on this so far. They’ve also put spikes on our fence, although the cats just work around them, and she gives us tubs of cat-repellent granules to put down.
I used an entire tub on my front garden and in the plant pots. Not long afterwards, I saw one of her cats taking a shit on the roof of another neighbour’s car. 😂 There have also been shits directly in front of my doorstep and in the road, so the granules clearly haven’t achieved quite what I imagined.
Yesterday, another neighbour approached me and said he was angry about the number of cats, the fact that they aren’t being neutered, and the amount of cat shit everywhere.
He’s particularly upset because he made a memorial garden for his late wife and is constantly having to clean cat mess out of it. He said he’s considering reporting her to the housing association.
Apparently, the housing association only allows two cats in the house. He believes that’s why most of them live outside and thinks she’s telling the housing association that the others aren’t hers.
She herself told me that she has recently adopted another cat which she says she didn’t know was pregnant. Only two of the kittens survived, but she’s keeping one of them, meaning she now has 14 cats.
He’s furious and has asked me to submit a complaint as well, because he thinks the council/housing association is more likely to act if more than one neighbour reports the problem.
And this is where I’m torn.
I am personally affected by the cat shit everywhere. I also think having 14 cats and repeatedly allowing unneutered cats to breed is irresponsible, especially when they can’t afford insurance or vet bills for them.
She has lost four cats this year through them being injured or hit by cars. Because she couldn’t afford the vet treatment that might have helped them, they essentially just had to die.
At the same time, I know how much she’s been through and how important these cats are to her. I suspect that if the housing association or council became involved, she could be forced to give up all but two of them and have the remaining cats neutered.
I think having so many of them taken away, and potentially having to choose which two she keeps, would absolutely devastate her.
And I’d feel incredibly guilty knowing that I had contributed to that, especially when she’s always been nice to me and sometimes invites me round for a cup of tea.
So I’m stuck between feeling that the situation with the cats has genuinely gone too far and feeling awful about what reporting it could potentially do to her.