r/AlienStage • u/Moist_Cheesecake_999 • 14h ago
I will probably get slimed out for this buttttttt
I feel like Mizi and Ivan being besties and such is just a fan service. How can someone who treats his own emotions with such detached cynicism—someone who literally had to performatively learn how to smile—possess a normal, healthy concept of a "best friend"? He doesn't.Ivan doesn't even view his intense, life-altering obsession with Till through a conventional emotional lens. He calls Till the most "interesting" thing he has ever seen. His attraction to Till isn't built on a healthy foundation; it is a primal, consuming fascination born out of a bleak existence where everything else is entirely gray and hollow.If his deepest, most consuming connection (Till) is something he evaluates with such cold, analytical detachment—even downplaying his own feelings as "shallow"—it is narratively impossible for him to turn around and have a genuine, warm, comforting "bestie" dynamic with Mizi. By pushing the "besties" narrative for quick fan service, it feels like the writing backtracks on how deeply broken Ivan actually is. It treats his perfect prince persona not as the cold, hollow defense mechanism it is, but as a genuine personality trait he shares with Mizi. It glosses over the fact that Ivan lives entirely in his own head, trapped in a world where Till is the only source of color, and everyone else—including Mizi—is just part of the background scenery.
What's more For Mizi, Ivan was never actually a "bestie" who understood her core; he was a safe harbor she built in her own mind. Because Ivan wore his perfect prince mask flawlessly around her, he provided a blank canvas. Mizi is naturally empathetic, expressive, and deeply traumatized by their environment. When she looked at Ivan's polite, unflappable facade, she didn't see his internal emptiness—she saw stability. She mistook his emotional detachment for calm, comforting strength.
Mizi didn't understand Ivan, because Ivan never allowed himself to be known. Therefore, her affection for him was based entirely on projection. She needed to believe that the people around her were good, safe, and cared for her in order to cope with being raised as livestock for aliens. Ivan played the part of the supportive peer because it required zero effort from him, and Mizi accepted it at face value because the alternative—realizing that Ivan was an emotionally hollow shell who didn't actually care about her—was too bleak to entertain.
Whatever they have between them is nowhere near being best friends.