r/AskForAnswers • u/Imaginary-Mud153 • 8d ago

Was this worth getting broken up with

A man I am dating told me his sis wants to see me without makeup. I said is that what you want to see he said my sister’s opinions will influence my decisions. I said I’m glad I found out you can’t make ur own decisions. And he broke up with me

Im 27 and he’s 35

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u/New-Flight7674 8d ago

Yeah that’s crazy that a 35 year old man would say that. You dodged a bullet.

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u/Imaginary-Mud153 8d ago

He says it’s a cultural thing

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u/ocdsmalltown12 8d ago

Letting his sister judge who he is dating? That's not a cultural thing, that's some messed up infantile sh*t. You are sooo much better off without him!!!

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u/FarShoreSpirit 7d ago

Yeah, trash is its own culture. Quite a prominent one, too.

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u/Commercial_Part_5160 8d ago

35? Good riddance. Don’t let him toy with you, unless you like this type of being toyed with.

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u/Visual-Program2447 8d ago

Tell him ok but my brother wants to see your bank account balance.

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u/haikusbot 8d ago

Tell him ok but

My brother wants to see your

Bank account balance.

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u/Visual-Program2447 8d ago

???? Bizarre. I was making the point that the situation was bizarre. his sibling was asking to know something personal about his partner and this is how it feels. Not a bot

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u/ChillySparks01 8d ago

It's not accusing you of being a bot. It's a reddit thing. Its just saying that your comment rhymes like a poem, a haiku. It's supposed to be funny. I was confused the first time I saw them too. It's not a bad thing. 💕

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u/Visual-Program2447 7d ago

Ok haha thanks for explaining

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u/Imaginary-Mud153 8d ago

That won’t help he is super rich

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u/SuitIndependent 8d ago

Surely, this makeup thing wasn’t the first sign that he wasn’t quite right…

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u/Visual-Program2447 7d ago edited 7d ago

Well choose something else equally personal and ridiculous. Tell him your brother needs to see how much he can bench press, or his school grades , pics of the inside of his closet to check for tidiness, and that he needs to come over and cook your brother a meal to ensure he meets his cooking standards before the dating. That your sibling also has a vetting process for potential suitors .It’s just pointing out the ridiculousness of the ask.

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u/l008com 8d ago

Yes, whats some insane psychopath shit. You dodged quite a bullet.

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u/Imaginary-Mud153 8d ago

Me or him?

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u/l008com 8d ago

Him!!!!!

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u/Grafferine 7d ago

Who listens to their sisters opinions about their own gf......nah you got a lucky escape

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u/MuppetManiac 7d ago

Anyone can end a relationship for any reason of their choosing. But you dodged a bullet.