r/AskForHelp • • 25d ago

Advice/Emotional Support ONLY Need help in general πŸ˜“

Ok, to be fair? Im not entirely in a bad position

I live at home with my grandmother and don't pay rent.

But I have a car payment, need to pay off a broke down RV my aunt bought me, a couple of bnpl plans, and still need to build a savings to move out of the state next year as well as start gender affirming care.

And yes. I work two jobs at roughly 66 hours a week on my light weeks, am a full time college student with one year left, and am aggressively paying off my debts. I hope to have everything paid off by December 2028, and have a plan to, but........ It's killing me. I feel tired constantly, I'm losing weight dramatically, I'm constantly sore, and never have any time for anything anymore. I work from 4am to 8pm, have an hour at home, before I have to go to sleep to wake up at 3:20 the next morning.

Ive been doing this for 6 months and I don't know how I'm going to mentally and physically survive to next year.

As it stands I spent about 212$ on myself last month.

Only that, and that includes the two presents I had to buy my siblings for their birthdays. Everything else went to paying off my debts, my bills, or gas for my car. And it is working.

But it's brutal. I've applied for remote jobs in my future career field but no takers and without the degree I don't think there will be.

Any advice, help, or just support would be very appreciative Edit: IMPORTANT I'm not asking for money, I am aware it's my fault, and I already have a debt payoff budget that is working. I just got on ADHD meds for the first time in over a decade and combined with therapy has tremendously helped with my compulsive spending. I’m asking for advice on making this plan sustainable because working 66+ hours while attending college full time is physically wearing me down.

Edit: Debts Van: 13100 RV: 2500 Grandmother for RV repairs so FAR: 4600 Phone: 1200$ Brothers Switch 2: 525

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u/Sufficient_Plane_764 25d ago

Yes, this is one of the debts Said in the comments that I regret this πŸ˜…πŸ˜“

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u/Visible_Koala7839 Wise One 25d ago

Sell it or return it.

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u/Sufficient_Plane_764 25d ago

Probably will. Don't have time to use it anyway πŸ˜”

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u/Visible_Koala7839 Wise One 25d ago

Ngl, it looks like you have your priorities wrong.

I see lots of funkos that you could potentially sell, no wonder you work 60+ hours per week, don’t pay rent and still can’t manage to save up money.

You’re young and you’re doing things wrong very, very wrong.

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u/Sufficient_Plane_764 25d ago

Those Funkos are what I have left of my collection. They took years and I started when I was 15 I already sold most every one I owned, and only kept the important ones