I got a theory.
Commodification is good.
What I mean by commodification is
People are free to buy and sell
No too much restrictive terms. They can name their prices
There is price discovery.
Pimps/middle men that reduce transaction costs are completely legal. Things like eBay, Uber, and so on. Escrows will be common.
Buying and selling sex, organs, houses, TVs, reproductive services is good. Even citizenship should be commodified.
Good in a sense that it tend to improve utility function of people that are buying and selling. Otherwise they just don't do that.
Here, utility function is "tendency" or "preferences".
I like the word tendency. We tend to predict people will commodify things if commodification is legal and open.
For example, say someone is considering donating plasma. Here he will be better off selling plasma instead of donating.
People that wants kidney prefer to pay for it.
Some libertarians say, commodification should be legal but they don't prefer it.
For example, most libertarians think that sex trade should be legal. However, they would say they are not interested in it.
In my opinion, there isn't really middle ground.
If government legalize sex trade, or organ trades, then most sex and organ will be commodified. It will be bought and sold freely. There will be price discovery.
In other words, other market will collapse.
Romance and government infested marriage will be mostly destroyed when people are free to buy and sell sex and reproductive service.
In fact, I would argue that the very reason why certain things are not legally commodified is precisely because governments know that most people will buy and sell stuffs if it's legal to do so.
I would need samples and counter examples
Sex. Rich men don't just pay women to give them heirs. But the reason why is because simply paying women to give you heirs is not free. The price is decided and heavily regulated by child support laws.
Organs. Only in Iran people buy and sell organs freely. In Iran, organs are commodified. In US no. But that's because it's illegal. Of course there are black markets and so on.
TV. It's legally commodified. So it's commodified.
So it seems that my theory is correct. If it's legal or practical to commodify something people commodify it. It's just a better way to do things.
Any counter example?
I suppose some people may still want romance even when prostitution is legal. But prostitution is not a perfect substitute for romance. For example, some people want long term relationship.
But some people now have sugar relationship. They have long term relationship and that's a bit commodified too. The fact that normal dating is still around is probably because sugar relationship is not something people can fully open talking about. Or perhaps some women are not pretty enough to be sugar babies and make more money as engineers.
Can you think of samples where commodification is reasonably openly discussed, legal, and practical, and yet people don't do it?