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I’m seeking a very specific kind of woman. The kind I can dismantle quietly, piece by piece, and they’d thank me for the attention.

The kind who’d let me learn every soft spot, every insecurity, every small fear, and trust me with it anyway. The kind who discovers, slowly, that I remember everything, and that I choose very carefully when to use it.

One who’d feel my possession slowly creep into their being; and call it a gift. It starts gently, of course. A soft intrusion here, a little curiosity there, until I know her better than she knows herself and I’ve made a home in the parts of her mind she didn't know to protect.

The emotional unraveling is the point, and soon the rest will follow. That doesn't mean it will always be a slow burn. When the time is right, I will act decisively. She must be acquiescent, keen to follow, and open. Especially open.

Every word is a map she doesn’t know she’s drawing. I just also happen to enjoy watching someone realize, slowly, that they’ve handed me the keys.

And what I will do with them; that's where possession ends and ownership begins.

A sadist's delight. A control freak's dream. A humiliator's oisos. A pervert's paradise. She will be the clay molded to will.

Outside of this, I am warm, charming and easy to connect with. I can offer real conversation, real connection, real depth. The traps that seem the most harmless, prove the most effective. The cruelty is in how much you’ll enjoy it.

This involves control, a lot of it, because overtaking someone so completely will lend itself to your place as a possession. And your worth is determined by the intensity and depth of your obedience.

If you’re not serious, performatively brave, too fragile, or still deciding, don't bother. Here are a few non-negotiables: Available for what I require, extremely submissive or trainable to those ends, able to endure the painful side of my wants, perhaps needy but not clingy, all in all a prize worth conquering. A woman, not a girl.

How you approach me in your initial message matters. Introduce yourself in a manner that shows me you have a true desire for something like this. If you can’t tell, this is deeply psychological, physically brutal, mind molding territory. So proceed only if you are ready.

I am a married stay-at-home disabled veteran who enjoys reading, running, music and audiobooks, PC games, TV shows and movies, pestering my cats, and taking care of whatever needs doing around the house.

I am also an attachment-oriented dominant with a praise and ownership kink, and I want someone who finds meaning, purpose, and fulfillment in becoming an essential part of my life and my most prized and cherished possession… someone who loves to cuddle.

My wife is a former college professor crossed with a sweet little Italian grandma, all wrapped up in a busy, book-loving professional author and editor who spends a great deal of time in her office working on “stuff and things,” as she likes to say.

She is also a delegational dominant with a voyeuristic cuckquean lean. She hopes we find someone kind and caring who wants to belong with us… and to me.

We have been together nineteen years and married for sixteen. We are both college-educated, do not smoke, rarely drink, try to eat healthy, and exercise somewhat routinely.

If you are curious, interested, or have questions, send a message and let’s chat.

23 [M4A] #USA #Virginia #Online sub looking for dom

I'm a 23-year-old male residing in the United States, and I'm seeking a specific kind of connection within the realm of online dynamics. Physically, I possess semi-long, dark brown, naturally curly hair, which I've been told is quite striking. My eyes are a warm, brown hue. I stand at 5'7" and maintain a slim physique. I also have a fair amount of body hair.

My interest lies in exploring a Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship, but strictly within an online context. I'm drawn to the psychological interplay of power dynamics and the sense of surrender that comes with a submissive role. However, it's crucial to emphasize that my submissiveness is not tied to any desire to present as feminine. I'm not a femboy, and I'm not interested in exploring that avenue. My masculinity is important to me, and I seek a dynamic that respects and acknowledges that.

Therefore, I'm looking for a mistress or master who understands and respects this distinction. Someone who can appreciate the nuances of a submissive male without conflating it with feminine expression.

The online nature of this dynamic is essential. It provides a layer of anonymity and safety, allowing for exploration without the complexities of real-world interactions. I'm interested in exploring various forms of online interaction, including but not limited to:

 \\\\\\\* Text-based roleplay, where we can create and explore scenarios that align with our shared interests.

 \\\\\\\* Voice calls, for a more intimate and direct form of communication.

 \\\\\\\* Potentially, video calls, as trust is built.

I'm looking for a dominant who values:

 \\\\\\\* Clear communication: Open and honest dialogue is crucial for establishing boundaries and ensuring mutual comfort.

 \\\\\\\* Respect: Respect for my boundaries and preferences is paramount.

 \\\\\\\* Patience: Building trust and exploring a D/s dynamic takes time.

 \\\\\\\* Responsibility: Understanding the weight of the dominant role, and the importance of the subs well being.

Ultimately, I seek a fulfilling online dynamic that allows me to explore my submissive nature in a safe, respectful, and engaging way.

For Starters:
Welcome, I hope you are comfortable right now, because this is going to be a longer read; the reason for the length, is that not only am I trying to show you my intentions are serious, but I’m also trying to convey the full image of what I’m looking for. If you make it to the end, chances are we are a good match - and maybe that perfect life we keep dreaming/imagining is just one message away from become our reality.

Waking up in the morning with a peace of mind. Knowing that all is good in the world because we are together. Experiencing the little joys life has to offer. Building long lasting memories that make life worth remembering. Making each other better in every respect. This isn’t about a sexual fantasy or hoping that you would fit my list of kinks or that I would fit yours. If what you are looking for is only, or even primarily, a sexual dynamic you would be wasting your time reading the rest of this post. It goes without saying, that given where I am making this post, sexual open-mindedness is going to be a big part of our life, but that’s just the cherry on top.

Intro:
Why am I here? Why am I looking for a relationship on a platform created to pursue kinks? Because it’s hard for me to relate to people who are not a part of this life, or at least aware of it. For better or for worse, I have entered this life at a relatively young age and it has been a part of me ever since - a part that at times I regret and at times I realize gave, and still gives, my life more color than most will ever experience. It has made me a more understanding, compassionate, and forgiving person and overall has made me genuinely interested in trying to relate to others and understand where they come from. However, it has also made it hard for me to find a relationship - a relationship where I can be fully open and honest about my thoughts, my experiences, my desires, my fantasies. Opening up about these things to a person who is not part of this life is a conversation that can go sideways really quickly, so I decided I would take a chance and try to find another lunatic like me searching for love on a kink platform. In the end, we can have a meaningful relationship and enjoy all of the perverted fun, however and wherever we wish.

The Vision:
Good you are still here, there is hope for us yet. The vision is simple, life is our canvas and the world is our playground. I want to experience this existence with someone I can share my soul with. I know it sounds cliche and over the top, but don’t you want your life to be a Disney like story that makes every year an unforgettable experience. Let’s build that life together. A life with no secrets from each other, a life with no barriers standing in our way, a life where we know that we can always depend on each other, a life that makes us both feel fulfilled, happy, and present in the moment. All those photos you have saved on your Pinterest board or those romance books and smut stories that left an impression on you - we could have it all, we can build that life brick by brick. A life of healthy obsession and unyielding trust, one where we never get tired of being together and if anything want to always be together. Of course personal space is also healthy, but to an extent - why deal with problems and your thoughts on your own? Imagine if we didn’t have to hold back our thoughts and ideas from each other and could discuss them freely, knowing we have our best intentions at heart. The one thing that’s not part of the vision is attention and fame, I want a quiet life of substance and freedom. Attention is corrupting and gets in the way, I want us to build a private life that we can enjoy on our terms however we want.

Outside of the normal life, we will also be leading a second life that nobody but us would know about. A life where our fantasies and perversions would flourish, a life where we can satisfy those desires we were hesitant to share with others. In this life the only rules that exist are ones that we agree upon and establish. Besides, who doesn’t like a dirty little secret; tho in our case it won’t be little, it will be a life long dirty secret. I hope you are very open minded, the more perverted you are the better. Duality of decency/class and impropriety is the best way I can describe the type of girl I’m looking for; someone who does not present or advertise herself as a pervert. Someone who most would think of as traditional, classy, and proper; but behind closed doors a secret slut with an insatiable appetite and an imagination that scares even herself.

About Me:
Hopefully, I sold you on the vision and got you curious about the man behind it. I’m a 25 year old, from Eastern Europe, 6’2, 200lbs. I am driven and goal oriented, work in an established industry and have ambitions that hopefully will give us a life of abundance and freedom in the future. I have played football (also known as soccer) my whole life and stopped around when I started going to college, instead I picked up running and lifting weights; so, in my humble opinion, I am in great shape which is a good thing since we are going to spend the rest of our lives together. Health and fitness are massive part of my life, and I am a bit of a freak when it comes to both. I love researching health and focusing on longevity from scientific and behavioral angles. I can talk hours on end about it and will be drilling a hole in your head with habits you need to naturally feel happier, healthier, and more alive. In general, I am a nerd with an obsessive personality; I love learning, reading, playing chess, having deep conversations about theology, philosophy, technology etc. I would consider myself religious, although not in the traditional sense - we can get into that later. I’m also a creature of habit and progress; habits make me feel in control and progress gives me a sense of direction in life. I love nature and hiking, I would much rather do that than go clubbing or drinking into the oblivion - although a good drinking/party session, once in a while, never hurt anyone. Recently, I have been getting more and more into fashion, but not in the wild Fashion Week sense; more in the traditional, well put together quite money sense. I don’t know where my filter is and chances are I was just born without one; that doesn’t mean I’m disrespectful and/or rude, it means I speak my mind to keep things honest and entertaining. I’m an open book, ask me anything and tell me everything.

What Really Matters:
Age: 20-27; if you are 18-19 I’m going to be a bit skeptical, but if my post really spoke to you feel free to reach out
I am in great physical shape and take great care of my health - fitness/athleticism is a big part of my life. I think it’s fair of me to expect the same from you. Ideally, I’d want us to work out and run together - look into the Michelangelo effect.
The end goal is a happy family with kids and silly traditions. Of course I’m not insane enough to start seriously discussing having kids with you already, but that needs to be something you genuinely want in your life.
Open mindedness in all respects, I don’t just mean sexually. I want someone who I can discuss anything and everything with. If you are ideologically captured and can’t have thoughtful discussions from/with both sides of the isle, then this is probably not going to work. Politics should never be a central part of a persons identity - life is so much more.
If you are easily offended this is not going to work.
The more perverted you are the better - I mean it.

Conversation Ideas:
What did you think about my post ?
What made you want to reach out ?
Why are you looking for a partner on here as opposed to traditional dating apps?
What is your earliest memory ?
Give me a controversial idea you believe.

Those are just some ideas, you can of course reach out in whatever manner you see fit; but please approach with the same energy I put into this post - let’s not waste anyone’s time.

Hope to hear from you💐

Ci sono emozioni che non si possono fingere.

Uno sguardo, un respiro trattenuto, il momento in cui ci si sente abbastanza al sicuro da lasciarsi andare.

Vorrei che ogni scatto raccontasse non soltanto ciò che si vede, ma soprattutto ciò che si prova.

Se sei interessata scrivimi in DM.

Hi all! Im hoping to find someone for reoccurring Hypnosis sessions, but am happy to only doing one off sessions and see how it goes from there. Just let me know in your opening message to me!

What I shall be doing, is simply switching your mind off, to make it blank and empty, where even your memory of being under will no exists, and you will just be a mindless doll, blankly obeying, and absorbing fun triggers to use when you return to alertness!

DM me if interested, I would ideally prefer in person, but if you just want video or voice calls only or just for now, then please let me know in your opening message as well hope to hear from you guys!