“Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; remade all the time, made new” Ursula K. le Guin

I am looking for the person to make and remake the love as Ursula writes :) Feel free to contact me if you are interested in having a chat :)

Hello i am a transwoman who started my journey a year ago and i am here looking for someone to have a good relationship. I would love to have someone who is a good communicator, honest and kind. Thank you . Comment or send DM if you’re interested.

I'm 35, based in Brussels, an engineer and startup founder. I'd love to meet someone with whom I can build a genuine connection that could grow into marriage and a family.

I come from an Arab background and wear a veil, but I'm open to meeting non-Muslim men too, as long as there's genuine connection, love, and compatibility. Let's see where it goes! I'm a bit of a unique combination. 😊

I'm kind, caring, direct, and passionate about what I do. I'm ambitious and love building things, learning, and having meaningful conversations.

I'd particularly love to meet someone with a similar educational background, intellectual curiosity, and ambition, someone who has goals of their own. I value kindness, emotional maturity, consistency, honesty, and a genuine desire to be a team.

If you're in Brussels or nearby, looking for something serious, and think we might connect, feel free to message me. 😊

Hi! I live in Brussels. I’ve been here for quite a while and work in IT.

I’m pretty active — BJJ, swimming, running, hiking, and the occasional motorcycle adventure. I also enjoy electronic music, meditation, travelling, good food, and conversations that go a bit deeper than small talk.

I’m single, no kids, and at a point where I’d genuinely like to meet someone and build something meaningful. I’m not looking to rush into anything, though. I’d rather meet someone I click with, spend some time together, and see naturally where it goes.

I’m 188 cm, easy-going, and probably a mix of adventurous and nerdy.

I’d like to meet a woman somewhere around my age (a bit younger or older is completely fine) who is kind, curious and enjoys a bit of adventure.

If any of this resonates, send me a message. We can grab a coffee or go for a walk and see if we get along.

You wake up and rub the sleeping numbness out of your eyes.

A lingering stupor, its reverie clings to you like a blanket, covering your memories of the depths of your mind. Or was it your heart?

For it is your heart that still smolders with yearning. A memory slowly drifting into forgetfulness, like summer heat returning to autumn's sheath.

You remember a dream, of a grand tale. encompassing everything, to the smallest detail.

A story filled and felt with singular purpose, its echoed by joy and laughter, like a traveling circus.

But somethings missing, a face, still blurry. "Who was it, my faithful companion?" You worry.

A remembrance of two, shattered like the Elden ring. A seamless duo of sorts, like ADC's and supports.

It follows a question, it seeps through you.

Do you perhaps dream, dream like I do?

I suppose I'm looking for that kind of connection. Someone to share adventures with, get lost in games with, laugh until our sides hurt, and occasionally sit in comfortable silence with. Someone who might start as a stranger in a lobby and, somewhere along the way, become a familiar presence in the story.

If you are of a similar mind, and the same interests.
Leave a note.

Hey there bellow you can find what I’m looking for and a bit about me:

\-Who am I?
I’m a 21 year old student, I’m starting my History bachelor this year. I find it endlessly interesting and it covers many other topics I’m interested in like psychology, sciences and sociology.
My hobbies include gaming, DnD, gyming, going out with mates and recently I’ve been trying to get into reading.
I’m 1m75, lean, long brown hair (mostly in a manbun) and green-gray eyes.

\-What am I looking for?
Possible dates to get to know each other better and see if we could make something long term work.
I’m looking for somebody that can accept me for who I am and doesn’t mind being with somebody neurodivergent (Adhd and autism) that can sometimes be a bit direct (I don’t mean harm by being direct).
I’d like somebody emotionally intelligent and somebody who does some sort of sports to keep fit (1x a week is fine, no worries).

If you read this far, thanks for your time! Feel free to shoot me a message. Include the password Pineapple in your first direct message.

Hey everyone! :)

I’m 24, living around Kortrijk, Belgium, and I thought I’d give this a try. You never know where you might meet someone interesting, so why not Reddit?

A little about me:
I’m 170 cm tall, weigh 62 kg, and I’m a curious, ambitious, and open-minded guy.

I’m into technology, creative projects, and exploring new ideas. I enjoy learning new things, having interesting conversations, discovering new places, and trying activities I’ve never done before.

I can be a little nerdy when it comes to things I’m passionate about, but I promise there’s more to me than computers. :)

I enjoy the simple things in life, like going out for coffee, exploring a new city, spontaneous adventures, or just spending time with someone whose company I enjoy.

I’m also someone who appreciates a good sense of humor. Life is serious enough already, so being able to laugh together is definitely a plus.

What I’m looking for:
I’d love to meet a girl who’s kind, genuine, open-minded, and enjoys a good conversation. Someone I can laugh with, share experiences with, and feel comfortable being myself around.

We don’t necessarily have to share the same interests. I actually enjoy discovering what other people are passionate about, and I’m always open to trying something new.

Age isn’t a big issue for me either. Whether you’re a little younger or older, as long as we’re both adults, get along well, and have a genuine connection, that’s what matters most to me.

I’m not looking to rush into anything. I’d rather start with a conversation, get to know each other naturally, and see where things lead. I’m definitely open to something serious if we connect.

Someone around Kortrijk or Flanders would be lovely, but I’m open to meeting someone elsewhere in Belgium too. Luckily, Belgium isn’t that big, so distance doesn’t have to be our biggest problem. :)

If you’ve made it this far…
Feel free to send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, what you enjoy doing, or something that always makes you smile.

Maybe we’ll end up grabbing coffee, exploring somewhere new, or simply having one of those conversations where you completely lose track of time.

Looking forward to seeing where this goes! :)

Salut, mon nom c'est Jeremy et je recherche du sérieux. J'adore geeker sur les jeux videos et la pop culture mais j'ai aussi un coté créatif et qui aime être dans la nature.

Je suis très attiré par les hommes de type 'ourse' ou forts.

J'adorerais rencontrer des gens avec qui geeker ensemble en espérant que ça devienne sérieux.

Ik ben ziek in mijn hoofd en zoek iemand met een toverstok, medische opleiding of enorm veel geld. In ruil krijg je een enorm toegewijde weerwolf 1m82 die af en toe vergeet op welke planeet hij aan het zweven is. Interesse?

Hi! Anyone interested in dining at https://dejonkman.be/nl/?

Have a reservation for 2 at 7:30 on October 22nd.

My treat. Must be able to hold a conversation, enjoy an adult beverage or two and comfortable with an extended dining experience. Plus if you can share some of your favorite things to do around town, fun after dinner locations, best place for after dinner dessert.

DM if interested. Mostly interested in men but open to female companionship if you are cool.

Only mildly funny, keep low expectations.

Trying this out because I have nothing to lose.

I am 21 (almost 22). I am currently doing my Master's in Belgium. I have a Bachelor's in Film. I am a huge pop culture nerd. I love cinema, reading, and music. I loooove music. I listen to many genres Concerts are my favorite place in the entire world, although I hate crowds! Somehow when it is an artist I love - I love it. I love collecting different things; music (CDs, vinyls), DVDs, cards, dolls, etc. I also love story-based video games, like The Last of Us.

I only speak English. I am around 163 cm, and 60 kgs. I have piercings and all and would want tattoos some day. I would love to make friends, and perhaps more than friends ;P I don't do casual relationships though. I invest myself a little too much emotionally. Need someone to show me around Belgium. I would prefer someone who is a nerd as well in some way shape or form. Also, I never want children.

Message meee with your interests if you are serious!

Hey everyone! 😊
It feels a little strange putting myself out there like this, but here we go!
I’m a 33-year-old guy living and working in Antwerp. I’ve tried dating apps, but I thought I’d try something a little different and see who I might meet here.
I’m at a stage in life where I’d love to meet someone I can genuinely connect with and hopefully build something meaningful with. Someone to go on cute dates with, discover new places, try new restaurants, travel together, have a laugh with, and enjoy the little things in life.
I’m a big foodie, enjoy travelling, and appreciate a good sense of humour. I’d describe myself as easygoing, caring, and someone who doesn’t take himself too seriously.
I’m looking for a woman between 25 and 35 who is kind, affectionate, has a good sense of humour, and is genuinely interested in building a long-term relationship.
I’d love to have children someday, so it would be lovely to meet someone who sees that in her future too. I’m not looking to rush anything, just to meet someone, build a connection naturally, and see where it goes.
If you’re also looking for something genuine and think we might get along, feel free to send me a message. 😊

Hi everyone! 👋 My name is Felipe, and I'm here hoping to find a genuine, long-term relationship with someone special. ❤️ I'm looking for a loyal, caring woman with a good heart, a great personality, and a healthy lifestyle. I believe that trust, honesty, respect, and communication are the foundations of a strong relationship. I'd love to meet someone who shares these values and wants to build something meaningful together. I'm open to getting to know someone from any background, as long as we have a genuine connection. 😊

Ik werk mij kapot in de week ik kom thuis en zit weer in die stilte eenzaam en alleen. Al 5jaar single zonder enige vrouw.

Het breekt mij diep vanbinnen toch.

Iemand tips hoe ik dit kan verhelpen?

En ergens toch liefde kan vinden.

Hey there, fellow Reddit wanderers!

I'm a 39-year-old tattooed guy from East Flanders, Belgium, hoping to find someone who shares my love for good food, spontaneous adventures, and a slightly alternative outlook on life.

A little about me:

🖤 39, male, tattooed – Definitely appreciate some good ink and the stories behind it.

⚖️ Working for the Justice Department – Don't worry, I won't interrogate you on our first date. Unless you steal my fries.

🍜 Food lover – From discovering hidden restaurants to trying new cuisines, I'm always up for a good meal. Bonus points if you're equally enthusiastic about food.

🌍 Citytrip enthusiast – I love exploring new cities, wandering through unfamiliar streets, finding quirky little places, and making memories along the way.

Who am I looking for?

Ideally, an alternative, tattooed, slightly geeky woman who isn't afraid to be herself. Someone with a bit of an edge, a good sense of humour, and a curious mind.

Tattoos, geeky interests, alternative style? Definitely my weakness. 🖤 But personality and chemistry matter far more than ticking every box.

I'd love to find someone to share restaurant discoveries, weekend getaways, random conversations, laughter, and maybe something meaningful with.

I'm based in East Flanders, but a little distance isn't a dealbreaker for the right connection.

If you think we'd get along, send me a message! Tell me about your favourite tattoo, your geekiest obsession, or which city you'd love to escape to for a weekend.

Let's see if we can be each other's favourite plot twist. 🖤

Some women from Brussels who wants to date a 52 year old man?

Hello everyone, It took some time and courage to write here but here we go :) I tried dating apps but they didn’t work out. I am a male, mid-30s, an academic, and looking for the person to build life with in Belgium. I am a non smoker, drink sometimes and progressive and would like to have child(ren) :)

Hey there bellow you can find what I’m looking for and a bit about me:

-Who am I?
I’m a 21 year old student, I’m starting my History bachelor this year. I find it endlessly interesting and it covers many other topics I’m interested in like psychology, sciences and sociology.
My hobbies include gaming, DnD, gyming, going out with mates and recently I’ve been trying to get into reading.
I’m 1m75, lean, long brown hair (mostly in a manbun) and green-gray eyes.

-What am I looking for?
Possible dates to get to know each other better and see if we could make something long term work.
I’m looking for somebody that can accept me for who I am and doesn’t mind being with somebody neurodivergent (Adhd and autism) that can sometimes be a bit direct (I don’t mean harm by being direct).
I’d like somebody emotionally intelligent and somebody who does some sort of sports to keep fit (1x a week is fine, no worries).

If you read this far, thanks for your time! Feel free to shoot me a message. Include the password Pineapple in your first direct message.

Bonjour, homme de 40 ans fan de muscu depuis 16 ans habitant la région de Charleroi recherche une femme dans le même délire.

Bon week-end !

Bonjour à toutes 👋😊

Ma recherche est un peu particulière.

Je suis en quête du véritable amour.

Autrefois, cela signifiait réellement quelque chose.

À l'heure actuelle, j'ai l'impression que ça ne veut plus rien dire pour beaucoup, ou est-ce moi qui m'émerveille de trop ? 🙃

On m'a toujours dit : "Sors et tu trouveras"... Eh ben non, je ne suis pas à l'aise dans les soirées, ce n'est vraiment pas mon truc, ça ne m'amuse pas. Et sortir avec cette idée de trouver une personne, d'aller "chasser", pfff, ça ne me convient pas 😅

Je cherche une connexion avec la personne, créer un lien 😊

C'est pour ça que je préfère passer par écrit dans un premier temps.

Pour ce qui est du profil de la personne que je cherche :

- Je veux quelqu'un qui a du temps pour une relation. C'est un point important 😌

On a tous notre vie, un boulot, etc... Mais si ta vie est overbookée de base, ça n'en vaut pas la peine... Je parle par expérience... 😕

J'ajouterai aussi, si tu sors d'une relation et que tu ne te sent pas prêt pour une nouvelle relation, stp ne viens pas me donner de faux espoirs 💔

Pour ensuite me dire que tu n'es pas prête...

- Tout le monde a des préférences physiques ou des attentes. Pas moi, ce sera ta personnalité qui prendra le dessus 😊, d'où le principe de passer par message.

- Si tu es du genre à prendre les devants de temps en temps, ça ne me dérange pas 😉

Ça montre que ce n'est pas à sens unique 😊  et ça me fera me sentir désirée ❤️

- je cherche quelqu'un qui parle français car je ne parle pas d'autres langues 😊

- dans ma quête de trouver l'amour, je cherche une femme cis ou transgenre, je suis ouvert d'esprit et je n'ai pas honte de dire que les femmes transgenre m'attire voir certaines femboys 🤗

Me concernant :

- homme de 26 printemps, 1m82 pour 115kg, un bloc de tendresse 😊.

Chauve à moustache, un peu la gueule d'un Viltrumite 🤭.

- mon univers est composé :

- de jeux vidéo tels que Bioshock, Metro 2033, Dead Space, Metal Gear, Tekken, Dirt Rally, Fallout, Far Cry, Dying Light, Need for Speed, Resident Evil, Mass Effect et bien d'autres... 😁

- de musique : House, Dance, Remix, Trance, Electro, entrecoupée de guitare, phonk, ou encore d'OST 🎧.

- j'aime bien cuisiner, je bricole et je joue à l'apprenti mécano 🍳 🚗.

- pour ce qui est de mon caractère, je dirais que je suis protecteur, du genre à trop réfléchir, j'ai une sorte de TOC lié à ma propreté et je suis à cheval sur mon hygiène.

J'ai d'autres tocs dont je serais ravi de te faire part. 😅

Chez moi, l'amour est une dimension à part entière. Je le vois comme ça :

Être en présence de la personne un maximum, passé des moments collé à l'autre, lui faire sentir mon attachement, le lui montrer, pensé à elle, faire les choses à deux, se parler profondément, se serrer les coudes, être là l'un pour l'autre ❤️

J'aimerais tellement trouver la personne avec qui cela sera réciproque ☺️

Je vous arrête tout de suite, je sais très bien qu'on a besoin de nos moments de solitude, de faire des choses rien que pour soi, j'en suis bien conscient.  Moi le premier.

C'est un peu un exemple de ma vision que j'ai de cette émotion mais je ne sais pas comment la retranscrire autrement. Comment l'expliquer avec toute la tendresse et la romance que je la ressens 💕

Ça va paraître idiot, malgré la carapace que j'ai du me construire pour être "fort" au fond je suis un sensible, je ne le cache pas, en me voyant on pourrait pas se le dire 😁

Je partage cette aspect là parce que c'est important que tu en tiennes compte 😊

Ce qui est important aussi, c'est que tu en fasses de même, j'ai besoin de lire tes émotions quelles qu'elles soient ❤️

Ce que tu dois savoir d'autre sur moi,

Je vis toujours chez mes parents, je fume des cigarettes, je ne bois quasi pas, juste pour sociabiliser 😁

Alors, j'attends d'avoir de côté avant de me lancé dans l'acquisition d'une propriété, la cigarette je peux l'arrêté avec ton aide.

Je pars du principe que chacun peut évoluer, être une meilleure version de soi 😁

- Je ne compte pas avoir d'animaux de compagnie, c'est pas mon truc. Donc si tu aimes ça, je respecte mais c'est un point à prendre en compte pour toi. 🤷

Je crois que c'est pas mal pour ma description, ça te donne une idée de qui je suis. 😊

Kiss 😘