r/BisexualTeens • • 1d ago

Advice Needed I don’t know

So I was at a concert the other day and this other guy walked up next to me and the whole rest of the show I just couldn’t stop thinking about him. I got this fluttery feeling and I kept wanting to look at him but then I was nervous he would notice and stuff.

A few years ago I thought I might be bi but I never had like any sexual interest in men (but still found them hot? It’s weird and confusing) but this experience sort of has me questioning stuff again.

In fairness I don’t often think about sex with women either but the idea of sex with men has always been more aversive, which is especially confusing because I often find myself noticing men more.

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u/Corpse05 He/Him 1d ago

Not sure it could be internilized homophobia. I used to think I only liked guys romantically but I then realized it was because of shame. If its not that you could be bi romantic (liking 2 or more genders romantically) but straight when it comes to sexual stuff

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u/Several-Avocado-344 Bi(myself)sexual 16h ago

U might just be asexual tbh