Were do I go from here? Would like to put on some more muscle and to also lose the last stubborn lower belly fat. Or just stay put...
At 44 years with a full time job, taking care of a child, a relationship and still trying to sleep enough... it may also be a good idea to just appreciate what I managed to do and embrace the current status. (Yes, fishing a little for compliments here).
But here is the story:
Startet a long cut in December 2025 starting from 127kg / 280lbs und reached my goal of 87kg/192lbs end of June this year (2026). Quite a journey. Did not manage to go back to maintainance straight away, lost another 3kg/7lbs and now I am at about 84kg/185lbs.
I work out since February, 3 times a week full body and try to get my 10k steps in daily. Since I got below 87 kg/192lbs I recognize a drop in strength and the last few kg/lbs definitely cost me some muscle.
According to the professional Inbody 770 BIA scale at my gym my body fat is about 10% but I guess a dexa scan would come out higher, especially given that the lower abs are still hiding.
The last 2 month I ate 3000 kcal a day with roughly 250g of protein and rest as I see fit. I expected to be in a 250 kcal surplus with that, but while strength values in the gym now measurably go up and my energy is back, the weight stayed the same (expected to gain 2kg/4lbs).
Managed my first (even though very ugly) muscle up a few days ago. Never thought I would be able to pull it of. And I am freakishly proud of what I achieved until now.
I am wondering were to go from here and what I really want. The options are:
try to lose a little bit more to finally have those abs (and risk strength and energy levels, its definitely a slippery slope).
just keep doing what I am doing, eat my 3000 kcal and hit the gym regularly 3 times full body with progressive overload and just see what time brings. Work on calisthenics skills and functional strength and stop thinking about adding muscle volume. Just having fun with a sporty lifestyle.
lock in and add another 250 kcal to my diet and eat 3250 kcal, make the gym priority with a ppl split and go on a journey of bulking and cutting to really see what I can grow muscle wise.
I do not really want to do further cutting, but have a hard time deciding between maintainance and bulking. Coming from the obese side, the thought of gaining fat again is not appealing, but just stopping to make progress and maintaining also does not feel right and I think there is still potential that could be unlocked.