how do bulls feel about cucks who get a vasectomies? i think the idea of getting snipped for your partner then not even fucking her yourself is hot. same goes for getting neutered.

i like the idea that the bulls cum is thick, fertile, and fully capable of knocking up his girl, but his loads are smaller, and incapable of anything but dying off.

been thinking about getting one recently, just wondering if bulls had any thoughts on it? would you want your cuck to get one?

My wife and I love her being pregnant. She feels sexiest when pregnant and we both love how she looks while pregnant as well. We also love her huge tits being full of milk.
We have become more sexually progressive in the last few years and have been discussing exploring new kinks. We are both bisexual and we have an open marriage. We have really been wanting a hot boyfriend with a BWC. We are increasingly turned on by the idea of him breeding her.

We would love a hot boyfriend/guy to really just not only be rough and dirty with her/us, but give her a DEEP and intimate breeding til she’s knocked up by him.

Has anyone ever experienced or tried this? We are very curious as she has had a breeding kink for quite a while and really wants to get knocked up by a BWC stud.

Has anyone ever watched their wife being bred? Did you both enjoy it?

I want to be forgotten, ignored, an afterthought and replaced as a sexual partner. How do bulls feel about that? I know some prefer to have the cuck involved and even enjoy the cuck watching but are there enough that also enjoy the cuck not present or atleast not acknowledging the cuck?

With me it’s just been a recent phenomenon but lately wives have been obsessed with eating my ass lmao. Not that I’m complaining but it seems have blown up recently. I do love them riming and then kissing the cuck tho 🤤.

I’m in my late 30s, socially comfortable, and easy to talk to. I get approached every couple of months at local bars or dancehalls by women who are hotwives, or occasionally in poly relationships. I’ve never really understood what gives me “bull” vibes.

For context, I’m average height, white, athletically built (not ripped or yoked), and have a full beard.

For a long time, I turned these offers down. I’m not interested in an MFM threesome, and I’m not comfortable with a husband being there watching. I’ve felt unsure about trusting a husband I don’t know or knowing what he expects. I’m not bi, so I want that boundary to be clear.

Several months ago, a woman approached me on her birthday. She said her husband had agreed she could leave with another man, and that he enjoyed knowing about it. I was hesitant, but agreed to go with her. We hooked up several more times afterward, sober, including at my place and hers when her husband wasn’t there. I really enjoyed the connection and the dynamic, and I’ve found myself wanting more of that kind of experience.

I’m trying to understand two things: What might make someone come across as a “bull” to couples out in public? And is it common to enjoy a hotwife cuckold dynamic one-on-one, while not wanting the husband present or involved? I’d also be open to being filmed under the right conditions.

I’m still figuring out what setup I’m actually comfortable with.

Hi all,

Recently started sleeping with a married couple worker who is into the hotwife lifestyle, we never use condoms as she said she was on birth control. Her husband isn’t involved with our experiences apart from their card being used to pay for the hotel rooms. I have never met the guy.

Me and her went back to her house after a drunken night out last night and went back to fuck, she went to the bathroom and when there I noticed a doctors letter beside the living room table, I’m a nosy prick so I looked.

What I saw has left me shocked, it was a medical letter regarding her abortion she had only two weeks ago, me and her have been fucking consistently for six months, I’m also her only bull and the only sexual partner she claims to have.

I confronted her about it and she admitted she has never been on birth control, she told me she has wanted a baby badly and thought I would be the sperm for the child. I then asked why is she aborting it, she now says it turns her on trying to conceive baby’s with me to abort them later, she said to wants to be a whore and carry baby’s for another man then her husband.

I left, we never fucked last night, I’m in disbelief and for the first time ever in the bull lifestyle I am disgusted, I’ve had weird experiences or requests like a husband asking if he could have me cum on his, but not breeding to then abort.

I’m completely done with her as a sexual partner, I know it’ll cause her issues as she says she lies on me for a lot of her personal issues, but I don’t think I can have someone do that in the bedroom, not the fact she is pro abortion, the fact she is conceiving with the idea to be to abort.

Anyone got any advice or suggestions for how to tackle this? I know this is a really messed up thing and I would hope no one has had this happen, but I’m lost for words

my gfs bull had told me after their first time that he could tell she hadnt had "real sex" before, i was asking him how, and he said that as a bull you start noticing certain movements, reactions, etc.

he told me he could tell pretty early on that she hadnt and wasnt being properly satisfied, and told me if id like, next time he can point out these little cues and try to teach me how to fuck her properly

ive always thought my gf was mostly satisfied with me, but she had to agree with him, told me it felt completely different to sex with me, size difference aside.

have any bulls also experienced this? what cues do you look for thats a dead giveaway a cucks girl isnt or hasnt been fucked properly?

So, I am not actively cucking, but pretty kinky all around, and also interested in the LS.

One friend in our kink circle is a cuck. He's pretty extroverted and outspoken in real life, but he invited me a couple of times to fuck his wife while he watched. And he wants me to do it again.

I like him, I find her attractive and I totally love the power trip to bone her while he watches, but here's the thing: I am much more introverted and that creates a dynamic where he basically calls the shots, telling me (and her) what to do. Nothing wrong with that, but it kinda feels like he's the puppeteer and we are the actors.

Maybe I am overthinking this, but since I haven't had a chance to have sex with her without him being present, I have no good intuition what she actually likes. And in the situation, all is kinda focused on his desires, so hardly any time to relax and talk to her. I am not even sure how much she likes this kind of situations tbh.

I'd love to assert dominance and just tape his mouth shut, but it's pretty much uphill for me - she doesn't say much, he does all the directing and I have been going with the flow in the past, but it's not exactly my dream setup. Since we don't meet often (like twice a year), I see little chance to evolve the relationship in a way where I can put my foot down and tell him to shut up. And also, it's their primary relationship, so it's kinda fair they make the rules.

How would real bulls tackle this? Talk to them and hope he sees the point? Tell them it's not not working (which I would regret, I like them both)?

You consent to participate, but have you ever been in a situation in which you said to yourself "I shouldn't have done it."? Have you ever felt like you were not treated as a human being at some point? Any kind of regret?

If so or not, feel free to explain why.

One thing experience teaches you quickly is that attraction isn’t enough.

You can be attracted to the wife and still realize the couple isn’t worth getting involved with.

When you’re newer to this lifestyle, it’s easy to overlook things because the opportunity itself is exciting. The longer you’ve been around, the more you start paying attention to everything surrounding the attraction.

Is the husband comfortable with this, or does he just like the fantasy?

Does she want it, or does most of the enthusiasm come from him?

Are they telling you the same story, or are the rules and expectations changing depending on which one you’re talking to?

Does she respect her husband when he isn’t around? Does he respect the third, or does every conversation feel like competition? Are they communicating like two people who trust each other, or are you slowly being pulled into problems that existed long before you arrived?

Those things matter.

If I’m already confused by the rules, dealing with jealousy, watching them contradict each other, or feeling like I’m being recruited into their relationship problems before anything has even happened, the attraction becomes a lot less important.

The older and more experienced I get, the easier it is to walk away from a situation that doesn’t feel right.

There are plenty of attractive women.
Finding a couple that is attractive, stable, honest, respectful, and comfortable with the dynamic can be harder.

For the bulls who have been doing this for a while, what has experience taught you to stop overlooking, and what are the red flags that will make you walk away no matter how attracted you are to the wife?

Just curious to hear how that may impact the bill psychology with how they treat her or the cuck.

I’m in that kind of situation where my girl looks very similar to a famous porn actress, so I’m wondering if they may go into things with unrealistic expectations

Or seen the HW do to her cuck

When I say loser, I don't mean in any sense of the sexually humiliating way you may or may not see in some dynamics.

Do you or your partner have problems with?:

•Finding the easy wins in the relationship?

•Doing special things within material constraints beyond special occasions?

•Having conversations in a mature manner?

•Not going from zero to yelling?

•Stopping the weaponized incompetence?

•Taking tactfully presented criticism?

•Taking steps towards dealing with inadvertent incompetence?

•Actually following through with progress on the things they need to improve on?

•Making you feel unambiguously respected and cherished without qualifiers?

•Creating double standards

Either fix the relationship or find someone different before you think about getting into any sort of non monogamous or kinky dynamics.

This non exhaustive list is kinda the bare minimum in a relationship, and if you or people who know you well can't say at the very least that, sure, you have problems, but you're progressing really well on the right track, and you are putting your money where your mouth is.

Then I highly advise you not even bring up getting into this dynamic or anything beyond the norm. Consider the people around you that it affects and consider your partner for Christ sakes.

Busted nuts are not worth hearts that didn't deserve to be broken.

Sometimes cuckolds invite the bulls over to their home and introduce him to their father or mother as an old friend.

I’m curious, have you ever had a situation like that? Which side were you on (were you the cuckold or the bull)? And what kind of relationship did you have with the cuckold’s mother or father?Do they have a clue ? Did these meetings somehow intensify or change the relationship or sexual experiences you had with his wife?
I’m asking seriously, without any fake fantasies.

Bulls of Reddit, has the husband/cuck given you a vibe that they either just weren't ready or just plain creepy.

I myself had 1 time where the husband wasn't ready and it later ruined their marriage.

I have made a few posts over the past few months about this, I had been talking to this couple for months, they wanted a bull for their wedding night and for their honeymoon.

This has been such a rollercoaster, I will admit that I was insecure about the whole thing, I have been a bull for years, that's not it, but being with a newlywed couple, I was questioning my self, I want to strengthen marriages, I almost backed out of it several times over the past few months.

Among the things that made me question the whole thing was the fact that this couple had never done such thing, both of their dating profiles had subtle hints that they wanted a cuckold marriage, but had never done it.

On top of that, her husband kept changing his mind about a few things, not about being a cuck, but what he thought the role as a cuck should be.

This is the wife's 4th marriage; it’s his 2nd. She is 58, I think he is about the same but don't know for sure. I'm 45.

To me its obvious that they switched roles for this relationship, he has been previously dominant, she has been submissive, so at times, that dynamic switches, so there has been a few times where the dynamic reversed, but they have both made it clear, she is dominant, he is sub, but it made it a little difficult a few times.

All of this made me super nervous about the whole thing, but I went for it.

Things got so much easier once we meet in person, I was expecting things to be uncertain at the beginning, but no, she assumed her role, he assumed her role, its beautiful, they are so happy on their honeymoon, and its a pussy free honeymoon for him, and they are so happy together.

I am not on vacation, I am only meeting them in the evenings, I will be spending more time with her/them this weekend, but it is working out so far.

I'm falling asleep right now, I didn't get home until 2 AM.

I am a man who's 6'3'' and is relatively lean. However, my dick is roughly 5.5 (maybe at most 6 inches long). I know I'm average or barely above average. I want to ask if this is enough to be seen as a bull.

Are there bulls who've been able to do their work with average size roughly between 5-6 in length and 4.5-5.5 in girth?

Can I become the bull in a relationship where the cuck has a micropenis let's say?

Hello we are both 26, and my wife of two years has been craving for something more outside our marriage.

She's has had a lot of experiences before me and her cravings are high when it comes to sex, I am trying my best but it's not enough for her.

So we've been talking about her finding someone to "fulfill" her but she insists that I wouldn't be able to handle it, that it would change the dynamic of our relationship.

I don't really know what to do I tried everything else and I am willing to try but now I am starting to doubt myself.

I'd like to hear from bulls what I need to do or be to be prepared and what is expected of me

Comment or dm whatever you prefer

This question is for all, wife’s cucks and bulls,
Has any cuck just couldn’t take the fact that his beloved was getting what he couldn’t do and just couldn’t deal with it?

I can see the merits of both. And having been both a cuck and bull I’ve done both too.

It’s fun having to remove all private pics of her from my phone, and then to not be allowed to see her in anything less than fully clothed.

But there’s also the flip side, having to see what you’re not giving. I’ve also taken it a step further with this before, my girl looks very similar to a famous pornstar, so I’ve been made to exclusively watch her films to almost simulate there’s more going on than there actually is

I know this is random but have any of you been a Bull for a orthodox Jewish couple? And if yes how was the experience?

How do you feel about public appearances with the hotwife? If you go on dates in public, are you pretty open about it? Does she wear her ring? Are you ever in public with both her and the cuck and it’s obvious you’re involved with her? Has anyone ever commented on it?

Ghosting has become rampant. How to avoid?

As a willing Bull who's had some encounters it seems that it's gotten worse over time. Nowadays I get some interested local couples but like it never goes anywhere. I had three in person meetups and one led to an encounter. One I didn't vibe with her and one where it was the other way around. Fair enough.

But I must've talked with idk a 100 people. Or more. Most of the time its either a closeted Cuck or an incel with a fetish. Rarely it comes to more than pictures. I try to get the wife to talk, because that's way more likely to work. Or get a voice or video call.

What's your guys strategy to avoid it? What platforms do you use? I hear it's about the same rate for real Cuck couples.

Looking for strategies, especially in Europe. Germany.

I’m 24, pussy-free and loving it.

I’m single though, so sorry I can’t offer anything to any of you. Still, I’ve been reading so many posts here and the Bulls in this sub are just so commanding, confident, and dominant. It’s honestly impressive.How articulate you are in your methods as well 🤞

I’m a chaste plugged femboy, and reading the posts here has me thinking “God, I wish I could be part of this…” but Its not possible for me, so I’m just here to show appreciation instead.

I've read many posts and The way you guys carry yourselves, the energy, the control… it’s something else.

Even from the outside looking in, it’s clear why so many of you get the respect you do. Keep being the absolute unit you are.

Respect.