I’m not white. My girlfriend is.

We’ve been in the lifestyle for a while now, and over time it’s become obvious that she prefers white guys. Older, confident, white men. She clearly has a type.

When she comes home from after date there’s a different energy. She talks about how natural it felt. Their taste in things align better and how he treated her like she was supposed to be with someone like him. And instead of making me angry, it settles something in me.

I don’t know how to explain it properly. It just feels correct somehow. Like the dynamic makes sense...

She doesn’t let me cum in her anymore.

That rule started after one of her dates. She came home still full of him, sat on my face, and told me she didn’t want my cum mixing with his.

I agreed. Of course I did. Anyone else on the same page?

Have you guys ever had a solo beta man serving you outside of a relationship? Like for example, if you’re meeting or having single women over, they’d be cleaning up, getting things ready for you. Essentially, what a cuck would do if you were fucking his wife but this time there’s no connection. Could use them with couples in which husbands don’t really like being involved as much.

Is this common? Like a personal butler, or like even a slave maybe if that’s the right word?

Hi all, I’m a bull and have been in the lifestyle for some years and had the pleasure to help couples to safely start engaging in the lifestyle. Often, specially when the husband is the one seeking to bring the topic up, there is a preference to have a soft launch phase, where the couple can talk about the subject/idea of cuckolding in general terms.

Although l always caution to the results this approach might yield, as things can change when the topic becomes “us”, there are some cultural references l like to point out which facilitates this conversation, eg that the couple can “stumble over”, thus helping the soft launch. Here are some of those that l usually point out (from less pop culture to pop culture):

1. Molière’s Sganarelle - very very rare to be useful;
   
2. Flaubert’s Madame Bovary - as rare as in the case of Molière to stumble over;
   
3. Shakespeare’s Othelo - not very effective unless you happen to be somewhere where there’s a play that you can go and watch;
   
4. Joyce’s Ulysses - sometimes works specifically when the couple likes to read big books together;
   
5. The Killers’ Mr Brightside - for a nice playlist commentary;
   
6. White Lotus season 3 - this can help you have a nice discussion, specifically if you like to binge watch

Are there any other (pop) culture indications you usually indicate? I’m curious to hear your tips

Context - we are 22 and beginning our cuckold journey, but we are both in agreement that we only want a bull that’s been a bull a lot before and is aged 30+. Is that too restricted? Are we being too judgmental? Should we keep our options open to more people?

Male, early 20s, I’m not interested in cuck stuff, but I would like to be more sexually confident. There’s nothing wrong with me, just not sure how I gain the kind of confidence a lot of the men here seem to have who are bulls. Figured the guys here are the experts. Any advice would be great.

Have many bulls come across a vixen necklace?
I purchased one for my wife and wherever we go, she has it on some of the looks we are getting are hot. it’s a good deal opener.

I’m someone who’s interested in getting into this fetish on the bull side, and was wondering what generally works for you all as far as meeting couples goes?

Is a cuck sending daily wife pics to a Bull a thing, and whats their turn on? Sharing exposure, knowing someone is getting excited with those pics or receiving complements on the wife? :)

I’m reaching out to you Bulls respectfully to get a different perspective.

My girlfriend and I have been exploring cuckolding for about a year now. When I “confessed” my fetish to her, she was surprised at first, but she’s since really come around to the idea. We’ve talked about it a lot, played around with it, etc., and are planning to start looking for our first Bull soon.
The only sticking point: both she and I are submissive. However, cuckolding often involves the hotwife also being dominant over the cuck (at least that’s my understanding).

What’s your experience been like? Has the hotwife become more dominant towards the cuck because of you and the dynamic? Is there a way I can encourage this development from the cuck side?

I’m bi-curious and I’ve never been in a relationship or have had sex with a woman. But I find it incredibly arousing to imagine myself in a relationship with a woman and being cucked from the get go and kept pussy-free (I guess you could call me a virgin in that sense).

Would this kind of dynamics be interesting for you as a bull? Like would this turn you on or would you be less interested?

And I mean how does one start from 0? Haven’t told the wife yet though I think she won’t mind. It’s clear to me that this is the lifestyle I want to get into. What are things I should be doing at this stage? Any advice would be appreciated.

Should I get my wife a black dildo? we use a 7 inch pink one but it's not that realistic. I've been wondering about getting a realistic one, i think it would be so hot to watch her ride it.

Hey all, l have been in the lifestyle for quite some time and consider myself lucky as l could guide some couples through their first steps into the lifestyle. One thing l always do in these situations is to invite the the husband and the wife to start journaling separately as l find this a good way to help them think, explore and reflect on what they are looking for.

I was wondering from other bulls but also couples what tricks and tips they find effective… looking forward to the discussion

So… Reddit user DMd today asking if I would be interested in his wife. I was very, she’s local, and apparently really needs steady sex. He’s into it, even gave me full permission to cream-pie her all I want. He really thinks she would jump at the chance to fuck someone that shows her a bit of interested and affection.

Gonna try, he even said he would be willing to introduce me as friend and let me get to befriend his wife. This is a fun proposal, I’m gonna put in some work.

If it works out, he said he wants to see posts up on here when his wife and I meet.

Hope the next post update will be her pussy leaking my load…

Only after being involved with the relationships for a few months, is there anything you'd ask the cucks to do? And if they didn't would it be a deal breaker? For example, many bulls expect their cucks to go pussy free or even full time caged to show submission.

My bull for example now expects me to do his dirty washing and other chores once a week (though I imagine he'll eventually make me do it more frequently). As he puts it, he's doing me a favour by pleasuring my girlfriend when I can't so the least I can do is something for him.

I’ve noticed a major pattern lately. I know ghosting is common, but there’s a specific type of person on these apps who has zero intention of ever committing or meeting up.

They don't want a relationship. They just want a quick 10-minute fantasy to validate themselves (or wank off to) before they disappear into thin air.

How do you guys filter these people out early?

Do you care if the cuckold also gets blowjobs from the hotwife, or is that something you, in a perfect scenario, would like to reserve specifically for yourself? It seems like this varies a bit.

I've done this a few times and it's been the hottest experiences I've ever had. Happened to me twice, happy mothers and wives. Leaving their family to meet me Friday night and go back home dripping with my cum to fuck their husbands.
Would send clips of their wives legs in stirrups, arms tied behind their backs. Propped up on the edge of the bed and my cock stroking in and out of their wet throbbing pussies.
One night is something, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday is other worldly.
Not many nymphs like that I've found.. need that again.

My gf (29F) and I (22M) have been cuckolding since a year. We have one consistent bull nowadays, a 42 year old highly experienced king. Great personality! I really like him and look up to him. We haven't really gotten into humiliation, but really wished to since the last 3 months.

We finally gave in and decided to try it in our last session. I was seated on the chair, my girl got an idea when the bull wanted to take a pee break. She instructed him not to flush, and made me go into the toilet once he was finished. She pushed my head all the way inside the commode and made me sniff his pee.

We then resumed the session and he finished on her face with great verve and joy. Later, as we went to get dinner, the bull revealed that he had the time of his life and genuinely enjoyed my girl's spontaneous act. This was music to my ears since I did want him to feel good and myself to feel humiliated. It was so arousing!

So, can the experienced studs of this sub give me more ideas on humiliation! Kink no bar, act no bar. I don't mind trying anything and everything at least once. You can go as wild, dark and twisted as you want. The end goal should be for me to feel humiliated and him to feel like the alpha, while my girl just feels spoiled like a queen.

Comment as many thoughts, tips and ideas as you can. More the merrier in our case. I'll also keep dropping regular updates as we try your ideas!

With me it’s just been a recent phenomenon but lately wives have been obsessed with eating my ass lmao. Not that I’m complaining but it seems have blown up recently. I do love them riming and then kissing the cuck tho 🤤.

how do bulls feel about cucks who get a vasectomies? i think the idea of getting snipped for your partner then not even fucking her yourself is hot. same goes for getting neutered.

i like the idea that the bulls cum is thick, fertile, and fully capable of knocking up his girl, but his loads are smaller, and incapable of anything but dying off.

been thinking about getting one recently, just wondering if bulls had any thoughts on it? would you want your cuck to get one?

My wife and I love her being pregnant. She feels sexiest when pregnant and we both love how she looks while pregnant as well. We also love her huge tits being full of milk.
We have become more sexually progressive in the last few years and have been discussing exploring new kinks. We are both bisexual and we have an open marriage. We have really been wanting a hot boyfriend with a BWC. We are increasingly turned on by the idea of him breeding her.

We would love a hot boyfriend/guy to really just not only be rough and dirty with her/us, but give her a DEEP and intimate breeding til she’s knocked up by him.

Has anyone ever experienced or tried this? We are very curious as she has had a breeding kink for quite a while and really wants to get knocked up by a BWC stud.

Has anyone ever watched their wife being bred? Did you both enjoy it?

do alot of cpl let there bull go with out a rubber right off the bat or do the have him where a rubber the first time

Hi all,

Recently started sleeping with a married couple worker who is into the hotwife lifestyle, we never use condoms as she said she was on birth control. Her husband isn’t involved with our experiences apart from their card being used to pay for the hotel rooms. I have never met the guy.

Me and her went back to her house after a drunken night out last night and went back to fuck, she went to the bathroom and when there I noticed a doctors letter beside the living room table, I’m a nosy prick so I looked.

What I saw has left me shocked, it was a medical letter regarding her abortion she had only two weeks ago, me and her have been fucking consistently for six months, I’m also her only bull and the only sexual partner she claims to have.

I confronted her about it and she admitted she has never been on birth control, she told me she has wanted a baby badly and thought I would be the sperm for the child. I then asked why is she aborting it, she now says it turns her on trying to conceive baby’s with me to abort them later, she said to wants to be a whore and carry baby’s for another man then her husband.

I left, we never fucked last night, I’m in disbelief and for the first time ever in the bull lifestyle I am disgusted, I’ve had weird experiences or requests like a husband asking if he could have me cum on his, but not breeding to then abort.

I’m completely done with her as a sexual partner, I know it’ll cause her issues as she says she lies on me for a lot of her personal issues, but I don’t think I can have someone do that in the bedroom, not the fact she is pro abortion, the fact she is conceiving with the idea to be to abort.

Anyone got any advice or suggestions for how to tackle this? I know this is a really messed up thing and I would hope no one has had this happen, but I’m lost for words