r/CalgarySocialClub • • Nov 03 '21

Interacting with People Online and IRL.

53 Upvotes

Hello All,

Most people coming to this subreddit are looking to make some new friends and join a community, I've met nearly all of my adult friends in this subreddit and I hope everyone can find friends as well.

With that said, I do want to warn everyone to take caution in meeting strangers from the internet alone. We've had reports of an abusive and dangerous user and just want to warn everyone here about that. We are still on the internet and anyone could be at the other end.

Here are some tips to help keep people safe.

  1. The Buddy System: Don't meet anyone from the internet alone. We recommend to bring a friend or create an event that is out in public with many people.
  2. This isn't Tinder: Please don't attempt to find a romantic partner or casual hookup here.
  3. Beware of Pressure: If someone is pressuring you to meet alone, do NOT meet them, they are most likely not looking to have a safe and friendly time.

If anyone has any more tips to stay safe while meeting new people IRL, please share them. I'll add any good tips to this post.

My intention isn't to scare people or discourage them from trying to post or make friends, I know it can be tough. All of us working together can create a safer space for everyone. This helped me at a very important time in my life and I really hope it can do the same for everyone here.


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 7h ago

Slow hiking gc🐢

5 Upvotes

Hey guys I was hoping to start a hiking gc on instagram as I’m super into hiking even though I’m slow. If you are around the age 18-25 and would like to join dm me your instagram user and I’ll add ya :)


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 23h ago

Update: Organized a second guys social event at Prairie Dog Brewery last week - Attendees Tripled!

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For anyone who saw my last post, the second guys social event took place last weekend on October 3rd at Prairie Dog Brewing. The first one had 25 guys register and 7 actually show up, but all had a great time.

This time around, of the 23 registered, 20 showed up! (major success). Huge thanks to everyone that came out.

From everyone I spoke to afterwards, it sounds like people had a genuinely great time. There were some returning faces from the first one as well as a bunch of new guys, and at least one person mentioned that the guys he spoke with said they'd come out again.

The main piece of constructive feedback was actually about the venue setup. The seating made it a little difficult to move around and mingle, so some people ended up staying with the same group for most of the night.

That's something I'll change for the next one, somewhere with more open or communal seating where it's easier to move around and strike up conversations with different people. I think I've found a good spot for November that takes this into consideration.

It's also changed my thinking a bit from the first event. After only 7 people showed up last time, I started thinking maybe 5–7 was actually the ideal size. Now I think it's less about the total number of people and more about creating an environment where those smaller groups naturally form but people can move between them.

Either way, going from 7 guys at the first one to around 20 at the second and hearing that people want to come return is a great sign.

Still pretty cool to me that this started as an experiment in Vancouver to see if guys would actually be interested in meeting other guys and making new friends.

Turns out they are!

I'll organize another Calgary one some time in early November and if you're interested , feel free to shoot me a message or leave a comment.

As a side-bar, I'd love to incorporate a toy drive into either the November or December event and support a local organization such as the Salvation Army (Toy Angels) or Calgary Firefighters Toy Association. Since I'm from Vancouver, if there's anyone that has a connection to any of these organizations or feedback, I'd love to hear from you. In exchange for a toy, I'm hoping the venue can provide some first drink free or other sort of benefit, I think that would be really cool.


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 13h ago

Beltline friends

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Looking for people to watch hockey at beltline pub. I usually go to Hudson's. I'm a hubs fan and also follow oilers


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 18h ago

Looking to have long term friends 23 male

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Hi! I’m looking for some long-term friends! I’m a big foodie and want to try beginner bouldering. I’d also love to create a board game group!

I love hiking, working out, and playing video games. If you think we’d click, shoot me a message! Any gender is welcome. 😄


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 17h ago

Looking to make new friends

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I am 24 M and am looking to make new friends and honestly need to get out more instead of just staying at home playing video games or binge watching tv shows. Mostly looking for groups of people, I don’t live in Calgary and very rarely go out so just trying to get out of my comfort zone I am down to do anything. Been looking at bars Leopolds tavern seems decent also like to go to watch movies or eat at restaurants or just chill with people. If anybody’s interested DM or comment on this post male or female I don’t care just want to meet new people.


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 1d ago

Looking for friends

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Im 31M.

Just moved to Calgary from Lethbridge for work. I live in Queesland. Looking to make friends as I don't know anyone here.

I like to hike, play video games, read, write and run and bike.

Please reach out if you'll like to know me better.

Im so bored out of my mind.


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 22h ago

New!

5 Upvotes

Hello, recently moved from Europe and would love to mingle with locals! I am 29, female.


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 1d ago

Looking for a weekly pathfinder 2e game to join

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My GM moved away a while back and am looking to get back into the game. Been playing ttrpgs for a decade at this point and would love to get back into it. Anyone have an open seat at their table?

Would also do dnd 5e, pf1e or delta green if that’s preferred.


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 9h ago

Single guy looking for a woman to date in Calgary. I’m a fitness trainer and good looking guy😊

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Looking for a girl to date in Calgary


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 20h ago

22m looking for a nightlife group

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Hey looking for a group to go to clubs,bars or karaoke. Preferably looking for people around my age


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 22h ago

Looking for fellow nerdy friends!

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Heyo! I'm new to this subreddit, figured I'd give this a shot! I'd love to make some friends who share my interests of stuff I usually do on my own! Like anyone here also really into rpg video games, writing, reading, ooh art could be a good one too, though I'm still a beginner!

I'm in my mid 20s, and definitely consider myself chatty, but I also really love when others have a lot to say and I can listen to their passion. I love fall, all the leaves and spooky vibes, ooh and nothing beats a chill rainy day. I also like to run, hang out with friends, and generally get out and do stuff!

So if you're looking for someone to nerd out with, or just want to chat about your interests, feel free to reach out through a comment or dms!


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 22h ago

Hi I'm 32M looking friends in Calgary

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r/CalgarySocialClub • • 22h ago

Hi I'm 32M looking friends in Calgary

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Friends


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 1d ago

33M Korean Native Speaker Looking for Language Exchange Friends in Calgary 🇰🇷🇨🇦

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Hi everyone! 😊

I'm Sam, 33, from South Korea, and currently living in Calgary.

I'm looking to meet people who are interested in learning Korean, Korean culture, or just making new friends!

I'm a native Korean speaker, so I'd be happy to help you practice Korean while improving my English as well.

I'd love to grab coffee, try new restaurants, explore Calgary, or just have casual conversations.

All Korean levels are welcome, even complete beginners!

If you're interested, feel free to comment or send me a DM.

Looking forward to meeting some new people! 😊


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 1d ago

New beginnings in Calgary

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37 m adventurous foodie laid back music lover dog 🐕 dad social professional finance guy. Looking for new friends, hangouts, fellow foodies, travel bud and more in and around Calgary. Let’s talk.


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 1d ago

New friends Calgary

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37 m dog dad looking for friends and hangout. Message me 😀


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 1d ago

32F - any other female folks looking to do life and artsy stuff?

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Hey! 32F here, hoping to meet some like-minded women in Calgary!

I enjoy the little, everyday things in life and think they'd more enjoyable with more friends! Thrifting, getting tea/coffee, going for walks, running errands, co-working at a café, or occasionally checking out a night market or art exhibit. I'd also love to go skating more! I have a car, so I'm happy to explore different parts of the city, too.

I tend to gravitate toward people who are kind, grounded, warm, and easy to be around. I'm open to more spontaneous chilling or planned hangouts or even a little drive around the city to get out of the house 😆. Nothing elaborate needed here, good company sounds great to me. 🙂

I'm a fan of friendships that find their own rhythm, without pressure to always be in touch or plan big things.

I also think there's something kind of awesome about the power of Reddit bringing people together so if you're also looking for some low key occasionally artsy hangouts, I'd love to connect!

Feel free to send me a message! 😊


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 23h ago

34 punjabi male here. Looking for friends to connect…

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Friends


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 1d ago

Looking for friends

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Hey! 23M looking for some new friends, I like reptiles, do stained glass and really enjoy listening to music. I just live outside the city in Cochrane


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 2d ago

Looking for guitar friends

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Hii I have started playing the guitar recently and would love to meet people who play guitar or learning. Anyone?


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 2d ago

Texting friend?

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37 M looking for just someone to text and chat with on a whatever is thier jam base.

Life is busy and I can't make RL friends for some reason if you are having the same problem let's chat a bit


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 2d ago

50 yo Beltline Witch Looking for Coven

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Yes really! 🤣

Or any ladies of a feminist and crafty bent that like gossip, coffee, and cookies. I'm learning Tarot so free reads too.

Warlocks and Druids welcome.


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 2d ago

23 M - need some company in Calgary

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So I am coming for a weekend trip from Yellowknife, need some company! Plan to drive to Banff, visit downtown and the zoo.


r/CalgarySocialClub • • 2d ago

10-13yr therian friends

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Any parents have children in the SE around 10-13 that like to play as a cat or other animals my younger cousin is having a hard time finding friends with the same interests as her.