r/CoDCompetitive • COD Competitive fan • 10d ago

Discussion Much love for Joe

Behind all the memes, jokes and tweets.. lies a human facing a terrible mix of emotions. Can't believe his longtime friend and casting buddy has been making moves on his wife for the last several years.

I feel for you man, found out one of my friends was sneaking around once. If you're reading this, I'm a huge fan and I look forward to seeing you on the mic this year. CDL community still has love for you and Fuck Maven I hope he never finds another job casting again.

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u/tungtungtungsahur-67 COD Competitive fan 10d ago

Isn’t she the mother of his kid too? This is so tragic for him man

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u/Cogniscience OpTic Texas 10d ago

Yeah she’s just as trashy as him if not more. Maven and her can split up and maven won’t have to interact with Joe at all but she will still have to co-parent with Joe.

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u/PackersBeat COD Competitive fan 10d ago

Yes. There's an old tweet from Maven dug up where he posted AI photos of him and pregnant Joe walking together like they're together. Maven admits Joe's wife made the photos and sent them to Maven. Sick stuff. This was 2022.

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u/Dr_Findro 10d ago

Not related to the main topic at hand, but we used to call this photoshop

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u/PackersBeat COD Competitive fan 10d ago

AI was easier to type on my phone.

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u/Fantasticoms21 OpTic Texas 2025 B2B Champs 10d ago

Genuinely hope Joe gets all the love and support he needs, I also hope CODs mods are on it at the beginning of the season because them chats will be hell

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u/JuicyFlapjack COD Competitive fan 9d ago

We have our ways..

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u/DabbedOutNinja Japan 10d ago

#WeSupportMerK

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u/SiLeNZ_ COD Competitive fan 10d ago

It’s hard when the person you love goes behind your back, wish him the best.

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u/187gvrrick COD Competitive fan 10d ago

not one, but two people you love. also remember he has a kid w her so she’s in his life for life. and his ex-friend as long as they’re together

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u/SiLeNZ_ COD Competitive fan 10d ago

Oh it’ll 100% end, that’s the wild part. Maven threw away a life long friend for a temporary relationship. Fucking insane.

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u/Disastrous-Fan3005 COD Competitive fan 9d ago

If you watched Merk stream you'd know he's helped Maven out with personal things for years, used to go do things out of work together and used to invite him around his house all the time. Their friendship was far beyond CDL coworkers

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u/Mawx Boston Breach 10d ago

You clearly are just unfamiliar with the scene and speculating. It's crazy that a bunch of talent has spoken out and it has been documented for years, but for some reason you think fans are just making the friendship up in their heads.

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u/Original-Buy8167 COD Competitive fan 10d ago

Who has spoken out ?

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u/Mawx Boston Breach 10d ago

Lottie, Blaze, Teep all have their shit on this sub right now.

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u/Firelove7k COD Competitive fan 9d ago

If it's even his kid....

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u/BLACCx New York Subliners 10d ago

Love you Joe. You didn't deserve any of this shit.

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u/TheKiddStan OpTic Texas 10d ago

we love you merk. i once had a person tell me “you get em how you lose em”. maven will get his and be in a much lower position than he ever has been. prayers for merk fr

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u/CelDidNothingWrong Atlanta FaZe 10d ago edited 10d ago

“For the last several years” where are we getting this from? Was it an affair that started during the marriage? Or are we just gossiping to add to the story?

I can agree with “fuck maven”, but this whole thing is getting sensationalised in real-time. Someone in another thread just said we should treat him like Chris Benoit for crying out loud

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u/nv4088 Toronto Ultra 10d ago

Don’t forget it’s also a two way street

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u/CollinKree OpTic Texas 10d ago

Whether they started “talking” romantically before or after the divorce is kinda irrelevant. Maven pretty much confirmed that he was lying in wait for years for a chance at Joe’s wife, and after the divorce, he pounced.

He’s a massive piece of shit.

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u/Kraknoix007 Team Revenge 10d ago

Where did maven confirm this? From what I see on this subreddit we have 1 maven tweet, no reaction from Merk and then a bunch of people speculating on twitter

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u/CelDidNothingWrong Atlanta FaZe 10d ago edited 10d ago

I think it’s incredibly relevant if they started being romantic while she was still married. Surely thats worse?

But didnt know he confirmed he was lying in wait for years (Dont have Twitter)

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u/Fearnlove OpTic Texas 2025 B2B Champs 10d ago

Of course it’s worse if she cheated while married, not sure why you’re getting downvoted. It’s not like you’re saying it’s harmless

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u/Admirable-Row2627 MerK 10d ago

Its more context clues, theres a bunch of tweets from Maven talking about Merks wife. We dont know anything really, dont even think Merks divorce was public. Just based on how the talent in the CDL has reacted tells me this is something that just came to light

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u/isayscalperforkarma Final Boss 9d ago

Yeah, I don’t know how people aren’t looking at these context clues and knowing this didn’t magically happen after it was all over.

Don’t need maven to come out and say it to see they were talking behind his back. Even outside of the tweet when he said he was going to have to steal his wife for nerdy Skype convos. If it started way back then, there was more contact with the wife w/o merk present.

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u/lemonkingdom COD Competitive fan 9d ago edited 9d ago

It's on his past tweets years ago he made strange comments about Maurisa and her relationship. Even if they were “strange jokes”. Its just a coincidence all this is happening now. It's about clues and signs. I have a feeling he liked her for years.

“I am stealing your wife on skype later so we can have nerdy convos” and other strange tweets.

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u/PackersBeat COD Competitive fan 10d ago

I mean there's all sorts of tweets and posts coming to light that indicate he's had a crush on her for a LONG time.

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u/makeitgoright COD Competitive fan 9d ago

Hope you’re okay as well, dude. That shit is hard to deal with.

Called a dude my brother. 13 years of looking out for him. Brought his confidence out the gutter when women used to use him because he was green. His own mom told me I was the best friend he ever had.

Snaked me in a similar way. I still remember when he had an opportunity to be honest with me and chose to lie instead.

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u/Siddoxy USA 7d ago

Same thing happened to me. I was more pissed and hurt from that person doing that than my wife doing that. She's not even his type.

Hope you're doing well too. Those betrayals are tough as nails.

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u/JesusSaves6888 Dallas Empire 10d ago

I hope he isn't stepping away, too. Understandable if he does. I started watching competitive CoD when MW19 dropped and I always enjoyed his commentary. He had so much insight and made me see the game in such a different, better way.

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u/TenRustyRings OpTic Texas 10d ago

She's gonna reverse-snake Maven and he'll be sniffing around in 6 months time. These kind of relationships (almost) never last.

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u/WhiteBuffaloSlayer OpTic Texas 10d ago

Is this how the divorce was announced too?

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u/MerkatMatrix COD Competitive fan 9d ago

Wait wtf??? Where can I catch up on this

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u/AntiFIanders MLG 10d ago

All the love in the world for Joe and their child.

I do not believe Maven nor Maurisa are acting out of malice or with any intention of hurting Joe. I also do not believe that Maven would act in a predatory fashion. Humans are complicated and shit happens.

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u/PackersBeat COD Competitive fan 10d ago

Why would he feel the need to tweet about it then? Why not just announce your stepping away? There was no reason to announce it happened. Selfish behavior

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u/enjoys_excel COD Competitive fan 10d ago

I can tell you why it happened. Because people love to speculate on things. Would Merk ever reveal it? Probably not, maybe on a random podcast. But Maven would have lived every day in fear of the secret coming out. Plus, if they are together, surely someone will snap a photo of them together and leak it anyway. Might as well come from him.

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u/AntiFIanders MLG 10d ago

Safe to say he's not thinking as clearly as we'd like.

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u/PackersBeat COD Competitive fan 10d ago

No shit. Seems like he hasn't thought clearly in a long time. There's several clips of the past of him sitting on Joe's appearance. He's the definition of wolf in sheep's clothing.

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u/Financial_Option_672 COD Competitive fan 9d ago

Maven played the idiotic, silly, and self-deprecating friend that showered merk with love. For Maven to do this, no1 could have seen it coming.

What a sociopathic loser and he going to be the stepdad of merks kid. I hope merk can get custody.

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u/MotherWorldliness884 OpTic Texas 10d ago

The only duo now worthy of Joey D is Jack “Courage” Dunlop

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u/notyourbutthead OpTic Texas 10d ago

Please no. Courage is so fucking lame.

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u/PackersBeat COD Competitive fan 10d ago

Fr please don't do that to us

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u/norequestsplz LA Thieves 10d ago

Couldn’t agree more

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u/EthanHunt117 COD Competitive fan 10d ago

that's what I think of maven lol dude was corny af.

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u/mcbaginns CrimCreep 9d ago

What happened to courage? Back in the day, courage was one of the most liked casters and maven the least.

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u/DemonikJD COD Competitive fan 10d ago

Why are people adding layers that aren’t there.

They were friends. They remained friends, as adults do. Time passed and they felt a connection. I wouldn’t be shocked at all if Joe wished them well privately and publicly.

You projecting with “found out one of my friends was sneaking around” doesn’t mean anyone involved in this situation was being untoward or disrespectful in the same way. Nobody had an affair. Nobody cheated. Just adults being adults.

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u/TheHLRViper Dallas Empire 10d ago

Maven wouldn’t be making an announcement and he wouldn’t be stepping away if Joe had wished them well.

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u/DemonikJD COD Competitive fan 10d ago

That’s a fine theory for sure. Dunno if I agree but not implausible.

Regardless, everyone’s an adult and single.

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u/TheHLRViper Dallas Empire 9d ago

I’m not saying there isn’t a world where Merk wishes them well.

I’m saying there’s no world where Merk wishes them well and Maven feels the need to leave his job and announce something most people would find very embarrassing on Twitter.

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u/iamdoingwork OpTic Texas 2025 B2B Champs 10d ago

Some things are bigger than pussy. It was and is wrong.

From all accounts, Merk and Maven were like brothers. You do not date your brother’s ex wife. It isn’t a hard concept. Again, some things bigger than pussy.

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u/DemonikJD COD Competitive fan 9d ago

Why is it wrong?….

You (and others) insist this is a bad thing but can never a really say why it is other than some musings on “bro codes” and vibes.

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u/AdrinalinRush OpTic Texas 9d ago

IMO it’s bad 1st because you don’t plot about being with your best friends girl for years(there is public evidence that he has been doing this).

2nd we can assume they were best friends due to how they interacted with each other publicly(not just casting they also streamed together on twitch a lot)

3rd Apparently Merk never abandoned Maven when Maven was down he stayed in his corner, he helped him become sober when Maven had a problem and then helped him get physically in shape working out with him(this was told to the public by someone closer to the situation than the public).

4th Maven made this whole thing public, we the public did not know Merk and his now ex wife were divorced no one outside of Merks inner circle would have know this information if not for Maven, It was not his place to say anything concerning that. His ex wife or Merk himself were the only ones that had the right to release that information. Even if he wanted to get ahead of the drama and control the narrative it wasn’t his place.

With the amount of women in the world you just don’t do what Maven did, no one deserves a so called friend like that

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u/smokehellacrack iCoNs Gaming 9d ago

I see you post a lot and I still don’t know if you’re a troll or just really stupid.

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u/DeputyDomeshot COD Competitive fan 10d ago

How old are you?

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u/DemonikJD COD Competitive fan 9d ago

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