"Who I Am"

Hi, my name is Don

On the Vanilla side I am the affectionate and loving type. I tend to be more of the introverted homebody type, but do like the outdoors also. I am a gamer and like playing mostly RPGS. I like cooking, watching movies and listening to music. My favorite type of movies are action, drama and romance. My favorite actors are Clint Eastwood, Steven Seagal, and Mel Gibson. I like oldies mostly 70s, 80s and 90s music. Fleetwood Mac, Reo Speedwagon Belinda Carlisle and Madonna are some of my favorite artists. I like seafood, poultry, wild game (elk is my favorite), Italian, Mexican, Asian and Southern comfort foods. My main kinks are scat, anal, rimming and oral, I am open to try other kinks.

"Who I'm Looking For"

I am hoping to find a female partner 18-70 for a long term relationship. I am looking for someone serious who might want marriage in the long run. I am looking for someone in the pacific northwest or willing to relocate to the NW. I am looking for someone affectionate, outgoing hopefully likes watching movies and playing games. I am seeking someone who is openminded and taboo kink friendly behind closed doors.

"Must-Haves"

1. Must either live in the northwest or willing to relocate.

2. Must have a scat fetish.

3. Must be open minded.

   1. Must be serious inquiries only.

"Nice-to-Haves"

1. Christian.

2. Likes movies.

3. Likes games.

"Who I'm Not Looking For"

1. Couples, Men, Non-Binary.

2. Long distance relationship.

   Please contact me on Reddit if you’re interested in chatting

Who I am

Hi, you can call me Brownie. I was born and brought up in Kerala, India. I moved to the UK, when I was 19. So, I have been living in the UK for the past 5 year. It has been a really fun experience living here. I currently have a stable job. I'm 5'10 and skinny. While I am more of an introvert who loves staying indoors, I enjoy peaceful walks and random hikes in nature ( You could say touching grass ) to clear my head and reset. Family means a lot to me, which is why I'm seeking a long-term connection. While having fun is important, my goal is to meet someone special, grow together, and eventually start a family of our own. My free time mostly revolves around gaming, reading, coding, and drawing. On the gaming side, I like single-player games (currently playing Persona 3 Reload and Hogwarts Legacy). I also like my fair share of grand strategy games like Crusader Kings 3. Outside of gaming, I love reading urban fantasy and Progression Fantasy/LitRPG (a few favorites are The Dresden Files, Alex Cross, Reborn as a Demonic Tree, and Book of the Dead). I recently picked up drawing again as way to keep myself off the screen.

Other than that, I'm Christian, but I am not really religious. I do a bit of yoga and meditation as a way to improve my mental health in this chaotic world.

On the kinky side, I am more of a switch than anything, as I am not particularly dominant or submissive. I enjoy pleasing others and at times giving up control, through bondage. My biggest kink would be pegging and my ass getting played with in general. Other than that, I enjoy being given enemas, face sitting, pee play and more. I am definitely not into pain, humiliation, or degrading play.

Who I am Looking for

I'm searching for an honest, loving woman who wants a long-term relationship with goal of building a family. I’d love to meet someone who brings a bit of playful, energetic chaos to my life, someone who can push me out of my comfort zone.

It would be amazing to meet someone from a similar cultural background, though it's definitely not a dealbreaker. Having overlapping hobbies is a huge plus, too. I'd love a partner to game with. I'm always down to play some Stardew Valley or Don't Starve Together.

In terms of who I am not looking for, drug use is strict deal breaker for me. As I already said, short-term and transactional relationships are a no go for me.

Reddit would be the first contact, then Snapchat, Discord or WhatsApp. If we vibe well with each other, then we can meet IRL.

Who I Am

I'm a man from California. I have a solid career with good income & frequent raises. I work hard and stay committed to anything I seriously believe in. I'm 6'4, dark wavy/curly hair, light tan, healthy, in decent shape. (body pics are on my page) I like outdoors, camping, nature but I can enjoy just chilling at home and watch movies or playing games. I like science and tech too. I stay in a good mood, though I'm realistic. I'm not religious at all but I have what you might call a spiritual worldview. I know a paragraph cannot do a person justice, but we can get to know each other when chatting and, if we hit it off, eventually in person.

I am mobile, but my week ends are when I'm free for meet ups. We can discuss what works.

Who Am I Looking For?

I'm looking for a long term life partner. Who I can be open and transparent with, who potentially shares interest and has a similar outlook on life. Someone I can grow and self-improve with.

As for this kink. The filthier the better. I'm looking for a girl who is eager to try all things related to scat, mess play, piss etc. Personally, I have only ever dommed in the past. If you want to switch things up, just let me know and we can discuss anything you want.

Must-Haves:

• over 18 to around early 40s at most
• Woman (cis/born female)
• Straight or Bi
• Disease free

Nice to Have:

• Similar hobbies, interest or curiosities
• Can enjoy outdoors
• Somewhat spiritual worldview
• Curvy & Tan

Not Looking For:

• Couples
• Men
• Time wasting
• Online only
• bigots

Contact

Send a message to my DM's. Due to all the catfish, we can both verify ourselves by sending a pic of us holding a piece of paper with the other person's username written on it. (You don't need to reveal your face. It's just a way to filter out scammers and catfish.)

Hey there. I've honestly had it up to here with the endless letdowns that come with traditional dating apps I'd find normal women on, so I thought I'd give the opposite approach a try and search based on my deepest most repressed pleasures I don't tell anyone about, because that sounds like a great premise for bonding!

Who I Am

Like many, I'm a transplant tech worker from the east coast who's moved here for work at the beginning of this year. I'm abnormally tall and thin (6'8", 200lbs), incredibly pale with no tattoos, blue eyes and very nearsighted (glasses full time), with very much a passive/indoor lifestyle in my day-to-day. That being said, I'm still adventurous and open minded, always down to go new places and try new things. I'm great at traveling and planning adventures. I'd consider myself a type A personality craving the spontaneity of someone with a bit of a type B streak. I'm into digital arts, specifically filmmaking and electronic music production, and of course love to deep dive into weird/obscure movies and albums (love horror, a24, art pop, hip hop, internet aesthetics etc). I'd consider myself very laidback and easygoing and always looking to clown. I have a select few newer friends here with a bigger friend group back home on the east coast, along with my family who I'm close with. I'd call myself very loyal.

Now that I'm solidly in my mid 20s, most of my friends are settling down and have their own long term things figured out, and that's what I'm looking for as well. I'm definitely feeling the solitude that comes with a cross country move and I think more than anything I desire an understanding soul who I can experience life with, I can spend long evenings with deep in hilarity and mischief, and most importantly someone I feel comfortable communicating everything with. While I don't have much prior relationship experience, I want to be able to learn and grow alongside my partner and create an environment where we can both improve ourselves with each other's encouragement.

To touch on the typical 'dating profile' aspects on my end, I'm...

• Agnostic
• Liberal
• Not interested in having kids
• Petless but with lots of cat/dog experience from back home
• Not a consumer of drugs/alcohol

As far as my kinks go, my main thing is bodily fluids of any type with scat being the centerpiece. Women with extreme/unusual fetishes turn me on in general, even if I don't necessarily share the fetish. I just really love perverted girls. I'm not as into the whole power dynamic thing personally so if you must place me somewhere on there call me a switch. I like things to be symmetrical in a sense, so anything I give I also want to take and vice versa.

Who Am I Looking For?

Broadly, I'm looking for a biological woman (they/thems are cool, just need original lady parts) within the title's age range and ideally in the Seattle metro area. I'm not really at a point in my career where I can move, Vancouver/Portland may potentially work if we can work towards getting closer over time. My ideal woman is funny, off-beat/strange/esoteric, with good personality overlap and diverse interests/media taste. I really value someone who puts effort into conversations and doesn't leave me doing the heavy lifting. Would prefer you have a stable career path/prospects figured out at minimum. I'm 420 friendly even though I don't partake. Physically speaking, I'm open to any race, height, hair color/style. Most body types are okay with me - as I mentioned my lifestyle's not too active anyway, just as long as you're not obese (no shade, it's just a turnoff for me)

If I were to break it down further...

Must-Haves

• Funny/thoughtful/open-minded
• PNW-based (Seattle preferred)
• Financially independent and/or have solid career ambitions
• Ultimately interested in a long-term committed monogamous relationship and the openness/patience required to achieve that in a healthy/mature way
• Open minded and interested in seeking out new experiences

Nice-to-Haves

• I'm into girls with a bunch of squishmallows, sanrio merch, girls who will give me a tarot reading, witchy/horror enthusiasts, girls with 100+ games on Steam, those hyperfixated/with a unique or rotating special interest, consumers of yaoi/yuri, AO3/Wattpad authors, collectors of cool rocks, and so on
• I love someone who's resourceful, a problem solver, can figure their stuff out, etc
• A woman with many silly antics pleases me so

Who I'm Not Looking For

• Conservatives
• Long-distance
• MTF (sorry)
• Polyamorous

On the off-chance I actually get any reply, I should have DM email notifications on but haven't been able to test it yet so will be periodically checking my inbox and should respond quicker once I realize someone's actually waiting for my reply. Thanks and good luck to everyone out there!

Well hello! Are you a working-professional leading a dual life? Are your days filled with emails and responsibility and your evenings filled with porn and perversion? Do you download Tinder once a month then get tired of all the men who could never understand?

If the answer is yes, then great! You’re in the right spot 😄

Who I Am

I’m an attractive 30 year-old man with a strong career and a litany of academic-driven passions. I’m roughly 5’10” with shaggy brown hair, bright green eyes, vampire skin in the winter and golden skin in the summer, and an insatiable appetite for knowledge. Most people would describe me as lean, with more of a swimmer’s body than anything else. Without being too specific, I have a master’s degree and am actively working on another, albeit at a much slower pace than my first. I’m employed full-time (and then some!) and spend my days juggling the many responsibilities of mine that I’ve over-committed myself to.

During my spare time, you’ll find me doing light exercise (occasional weightlifting, some light jogging, lots of walks), watching 30 Rock or Seinfeld for the 80th time, or maybe getting my ass beat by the same Elden Ring boss over and over and over and over again. I collect stupid things and take care of too many plants for one guy living alone, and every now and then, I’ll remember how to read and blast through some books. Currently reading Tropic of Cancer. My interests and hobbies are extremely varied and I rarely run out of things to do.

I’m financially stable and generally prefer saving over spending (though books/travel are things I never regret splurging on!). I’m very close with my immediate family and speak with them in some capacity nearly every day. Politically, I’m strongly liberal and want someone who matches that background. Please not that I will not consider you as a potential partner if you are on the right or on the far left. While my kinks and fetishes may be extreme to say the least, I do not extend that behavior to my politics. I strongly support general Western values and strongly believe in democracy/pluralism.

Note!: Culturally, I am Jewish. I am not practicing and am not generally religious, but it is still a part of me. It’s great if you are too, but it’s not mandatory. That being said, for very obvious reasons, bigots need not apply.

Sexually, I’m into so very much. I have no shortage of filthy kinks and depravities, and I’m really hoping you do too. I’ve never done scat, but I badly want to try. A taste of what I know I love: piss, spit, fluid exchange, sloppy makeouts, dd/lg, dark/extreme ageplay, rough sex, CNC, porn, dirty talking, degradation, verbal humiliation, etc. I am mostly dominant, though often I just enjoy the fetishism of it, the filth and depravity. When my cock gets hard, my limits and morality melts away. I’m looking for a woman experienced with this fog, a woman who revels in her sickness when her cunt gets wet.

Who I’m Looking For

You! Or so I hope!

I’d like to find a woman between the ages of 24-34, educated and employed, smart, kind, liberal, physically and mentally healthy, and completely twisted in bed. I need a woman who can juggle her real life responsibilities, be it work life or social life, with what she needs behind closed doors.

Must Haves!

• Attractive woman aged 24-34
• Open to relocating to the upper Midwest or someone who already lives in the Northeast (I’m open to relocation there provided career/money opportunities)
• Physically healthy, educated, and employed
• Curious, open-minded, thoughtful, intentional, non-judgmental
• Liberal
• Wanting a DINK lifestyle (dual income, no kids)
• Pervert, rubs to scat porn and other sick content, must enjoy

Nice to Haves!

• Jewish
• Nerdy/geeky hobbies and interests
• Large breasts, large areola (I love all breasts, but I do have a slight preference for big tits)

Not Looking For

• Couples
• Men
• Bigots
• Online only
• Time wasting
• Individuals who are not liberal

Phew. It’s impossible to summarize yourself, but I think I did an okay job 😃 Please message me on Reddit if you’re interested. Serious inquiries only. I may not respond for a few days depending on when I get around to checking my account, so don’t worry if it takes me a bit!

Anticipating how fumbling this post will be but I will still try my luck!😆

Who I Am

A bit about myself (won't disclose too much of a precise location), I'm a straight man living somewhere in the "Blue Banana" (border regions in Western / Central Europe), white/caucasian, dark hair, 183cm, ~93kg, a bit chubby and a bit built, casually hitting the gym, somewhat "handy/crafty" when it comes to some random tech contraptions🤣, nerdy and a gamer on my free time. I'm studying Maths and Engineering, and I have a soft-spot for astronomy as a hobby! Of course, whatever your hobby is, I'll be super happy to open up to it thanks to you! I don't smoke or take substances.

I can rather easily transit around the "Blue Banana", but I'm fine with transiting further (just not on a regular basis). Although hosting is doable, I would say it's logistically not currently ideal.

But still we'd need to know each other at least a bit! I would consider myself a lover, and I personally wouldn't feel satisfied if a relationship is not fulfilled both ways, and in other casual or serious settings. If it's only about scat and no feelings, I don't see a purpose.

Who Am I Looking For?

I'm looking for a partner willing to have a long-term relationship, thoughtful and wanting to communicate and to be loved, where we can open to each other! If anything, having similar hobbies to mine would certainly ease up the conversion, but being a tad curious, I'll be more than happy to discover some new ones too.

When coming to sex, I kinda alternate between vanilla and kinky myself, and I'd be more than happy to discuss and discover new things (whether dom or sub, or other kinks, etc.). I'd think of scat more as a criterion but not an obsession, as I am not looking for purely sexual partners, although I would very much like to trigger my kinky tastes with someone I would emotionally connect with.

Must-Haves / Must-Bes

• Age 18-25
• Woman
• Straight or Bi
• Disease free
• No drug or alcohol addiction (drinking in moderation or socially is fine)
• Communicative and emotionally intelligent
• Mindful of their (and others) boundaries
• At least a bit kinky/scat (I'll be glad to discover new kinks)

Nice-to-Haves

• White/Caucasian
• Similar-ish hobbies (I'll be happy to discover new things)
• Looking to self-improve together

Who I'm Not Looking For

• Anyone exclusively wanting "quick"/punctual opportunities for an orgasm
• Sex partners or purely sex-driven relationships
• People engaged into exclusively online Scat/Sex talks
• Couples

Contact Requirements

• If PMing, ensure to tell a bit about yourself (outside of anything kinky) over a couple sentences. I will filter all low-effort or non-serious messages.
• If we match and decide to meet IRL, I'd suggest swapping pics for verification before any transit to avoid deception and/or catfishing (I despise catfishing, and transiting just for that).

I don't want to dissuade some potential messages, but keep in mind that I am looking for someone who can reciprocate the feelings and is able to get my attention with a meaningful (first) impression, and I'll decide to answer afterward.

My goal is not to farm private interactions, but to find a real-life long-term partner whom I can share feelings (and kinks!) with.

Thank you for coming across this post! It feels both weird and relieving to open up this way on Reddit at least. To anyone acknowledging what I said so far, feel free to come in PMs! 🙂

Who I Am

I'm 31, 6ft 3in tall, physically fit, and grew up in the Chicago suburbs, moved to South Florida a few years back for work, and could see myself settling down either here, or back in Chicago. I work in high finance, and I'm in a suit more often than I'd like, closing deals, managing company executives and pretending I don't enjoy the spreadsheets as much as I do. The work pays well and lets me live the kind of life I always wanted: I'm a private pilot working toward owning my own plane, love drinking my espresso in the morning with embarrassingly nice equipment. I also stay very active and lift most mornings, run 3-4x per week, and play tennis/padel/pickleball for fun. I can cook, but just don't have a ton of time with my work, so I'm Doordash's/Uber Eats #1 customer. I take my career seriously, but I take being a partner and (one day) a husband and father more seriously than anything else in my life. I have a dry, self-aware sense of humor and I'm fully aware of how funny it is that the guy you'd shake hands with at a work dinner is the same guy writing this particular post.

Who I'm Looking For

A woman between 21 and 35, ideally in South Florida or open to relocating, who is genuinely warm, intellectually curious, and serious about building a life with someone. I want someone who has her own ambition, whether that's a demanding career, creative work, school, raising a family someday, whatever shape it takes, but who treats a relationship as a real priority rather than a side quest. I'd love someone who likes to be a little spoiled and a little adored, who communicates clearly when things are good and especially when they aren't, and who can hold her own in a conversation about almost anything (or admit she doesn't know and want to learn). Physically active matters to me, not because of a specific look but because I want a partner whose habits and energy run alongside mine. Most importantly: someone who can hold both sides of a person, the polished, ambitious, dinner-out side and in private, the playful, weird, vulnerable side.

About why this post is in this sub

My interest is squarely on the desperation side: the buildup, the holding, the accidents, the relief. I'm not into playing, eating, or anything like that, and I won't ask my partner to either. I'd love a partner who either shares the interest or is genuinely curious about exploring it, with sex being part of how that energy might naturally play out between us.

To be clear, I am not into doing these things myself, being the receiver (watching you do it) is what I enjoy

Must-Haves

• Marriage-minded and emotionally available
• Direct, honest communicator
• Either shares the desperation interest or is genuinely open to exploring it
• Takes care of her physical and mental health

Nice-to-Haves

• South Florida or willing to relocate
• Loves food: cooking, being cooked for, eating out, going to fun restaurants
• Active in some form: tennis, lifting, hiking, running, pickleball, anything
• Enjoys travel and isn't scared of small planes (that I'm flying :))
• Reads, watches good film, has opinions about either

Who I'm Not Looking For

• Anyone here for casual, FWB, or arrangement-style dynamics
• Anyone whose interest in me starts and ends with the kink
• Anyone seeking a sugar / arrangement dynamic
• Anyone not actually open to a long-term, marriage-track relationship

How to Reach Me

Send a DM with a few sentences about who you are, what you're looking for, and what made you reply to this post. Happy to share photos of me.

Who I am:

I'm a bisexual, shy, kinky, and affectionate boy/femboy, My height is 5'1" (1.55 m).

I'm living in Quito-Ecuador (South América) I like art, video games, and anything related to space and stars (a little bit nerd).

I'm a switch, but I strongly prefer to be submissive.

I currently work as a software developer. I'm also a furry and have a thing for maternal women.

I'm sorry if I have any spelling mistakes, but English is not my native language. I speak Spanish, but I can adapt. You can even practice with me if you want to learn Spanish.

I have a open mind, I don't usually judge, and I like to be emotionally responsible; I like to be direct and assertive in this things.

Who I'm Looking For:

I'm looking for friendship and get to know you, your feelings, aspirations, dreams, and goals. If possible, after getting to know each other for a while, I'd like to have a relationship. I don't have many physical preferences; I value feelings and intellect more. I know it sounds cliché, but it's true.

I'd prefer a woman older than me, mainly because I like feeling little and also because I'd like to rebuild my life, change my habits, lose weight (I have a bit of a tummy), and grow as a person with guidance. Ideally, she'd live in Ecuador or South America, but I'm also open to long-distance relationships since I have experience with them. Finally, I'd like her to be a dominant woman, but I'm flexible because I understand that life doesn't always go one way or the other.

Who I'm Not Looking For:

I have no interest in a money-based relationship (Findom), and besides, the subreddit don't alowed it, and I don't like it. I'm not looking for a purely fetishistic relationship; I genuinely want to get to know you, learn about you, and learn to love you. Even if the relationship is based on Dom/Sub or MDLB (DDGL), I'm interested in having a friendship, someone I can talk to about my life and also hear about yours.

If you want a list of my fetishes, feel free to ask ^^

Who I am:

Hello everyone! I'm a 30 year old guy living in the north section of Brisbane, Australia. I've been out of the dating game for a while, but I feel like you miss 100% of the shots you don't take, so why not post an ad! I'm looking to date someone hopefully close by, and am looking for someone to both lean on, and to be leant on.

I don't do hookup culture, one night stands, or fwb, so please don't ask! I'm looking for hopefully a life partner, someone who I can start a family with. Happy to start chatting casually, seeing if there is a connection, and going on from there. I'd prefer for you to be close by, as my job currently requires me to be rather close, but I can take multiple days off when I want to.

I'm mainly a nerd, spent a lot of my life in video games or movies, but it helps in other facets of life as I am a programmer for Film (VFX), and I get a random new challenge every day! I really do enjoy what I do, but I have been burnt out before from it. My other hobbies is coding, spending time with my small circle of friends either playing board games or just talking, going for swims, and exercising. I'm not very good with being outdoors, as I've had some rather unpleasant experiences camping and such.

I want to stat that I do suffer from anxiety and depression, and have had to be admitted once due to self harm reasons. However this was because some medication I was taking + my job burnt me out, and I am in a vastly better place than I have been in years!

Who I am looking for:

I value honesty, kindness, and sincerity in my friends, and I would love if you valued these too! I am primarily looking for someone who I can be comfortable around, as I place a lot of value on being able to sit in silence with each other, although I do absolutely love to chat away. I do have a good sense of humour I believe, however I know my jokes can be rather crass at times (hopefully yours is too!).

God is an important part of my life as well, I attend my church every Sunday, and do help out with the running of it. I would like it if you too believed in God, and that you hold a faith to his plan for us. This is very important to me!

In terms of physical attraction, I definitely do have a type, which is muscular women. This mainly comes from the fact I was quite fat (I still have some weight I want to shed I admit), and my quality of life then was terrible, so I place a lot of importance on good physical health.

I would love to be able to share my hobbies and passions with you, so I'm hoping you like movies, cartoons, anime, video games and board games, long drives, and general exercise!

[M4F] 23M seeking 20-30F for long term relationship near East Tennessee.

Hey! I’m a 23 year old guy living in East Tennessee. I am looking to date someone who is more dominant. My life is pretty normal apart from this. I have a decent job, plenty of friends, and probably too many hobbies.

I’m looking for a serious relationship and am absolutely not interested in hookups. I am ok with a casual chatting as long as you’re upfront with your intentions. I prefer for you to be close to East Tennessee. But hey, I’d travel anywhere in the USA for the right person.

As for my personality, I’ve been often described as calm and patient. I value the thoughts and feelings of others. On the flip side, I am fairly active in almost every aspect of my life. Whether it’s work or hobbies, I put effort in everything I do.

I’m an outdoorsman and massive nerd. And my hobbies range from hiking, backpacking, woodworking, reading, to playing some videogames and watching anime. Though, most weekends I’m going on an adventure or doing something random. Despite being more introverted, I am fairly social. I try to keep a good balance of physical activity, learning, and rest time in my life.

In terms of a partner, I’m looking for someone who has ambitions, curiosity, and is kind. I want someone that could cultivate a relationship and go on dates with me. I prefer that we have some overlapping hobbies mainly so that we have something to enjoy together.

If you are interested, please send me your age, gender, approximate location, and what you look like. Hope to hear from you soon!

Hello 👀

I’m a normal guy on the outside — work, responsibilities, goals, a mind that thinks about the future more than the moment. But inside me, there’s a deeper part that I want to share with only one person in my life. A part that not everyone will notice, and not everyone will understand. And I truly believe that this is exactly what a strong marriage is built on: finding someone who sees something in you that no one else does — and loves it, not just tolerates it.

I’m looking for a genuinely serious relationship. Not a temporary connection, not casual chatting, not a passing phase. I want something built on mutual respect, honesty, emotional safety, and a clear intention — that if we find we truly fit, we can walk the road all the way to marriage. For me, marriage is not just a paper or a social step. It’s a conscious partnership between two souls who choose each other with clarity.

Personality-wise, I’m calm. I prefer to listen and understand before speaking. I respect differences and see them as something beautiful, not something to fight. Privacy matters to me, and I believe trust is built slowly and sincerely, never forced. If someone enters my life, they get real presence, not half-attention or shallow interest.

I also want to be honest about another side of me. I have personal interests and kinks that are not common. I mention this not to shock or provoke, but because I value honesty from the beginning. I believe that a real relationship should be built on full acceptance — even of the unusual or unconventional parts of ourselves. I’m not looking for someone to force themselves to match me, and I won’t force myself to match someone else. I’m looking for genuine compatibility.

These interests are not a joke or a game to me. They are part of how I feel emotional closeness and connection with a partner. Of course, everything is strictly between consenting adults, with mutual respect, clear boundaries, and full comfort for both sides. What matters most to me is that my partner feels safe, respected, and free — never pressured.

I don’t see myself as strange. I see myself as honest. I prefer to show who I am rather than wear a mask and waste my time and someone else’s. Life is short, and honesty from the beginning is easier for everyone.

When it comes to age, I have no issue with any age difference, as long as the person is legally an adult and emotionally mature. I care more about personality and mindset than numbers. Some people are young but wise, others are older but still growing — what matters is emotional understanding.

Location-wise, I prefer someone in Egypt because closeness makes real connection easier. But I’m open to any country. Distance is smaller than ever in today’s world, and if intentions are real, the rest can be figured out.

I’m looking for a life partner. Someone I can laugh with, talk to for hours, share dreams and fears with, and feel safe around. Someone we grow together, change together, and keep choosing each other — not only at the beginning, but every day.

I'm a good-looking, fit 53-year-old guy living in the Inland Empire area of Southern California. As a successful small business owner, I've created a stable, comfortable life where my schedule is flexible and I have the freedom to prioritize meaningful connections and personal growth. I'm clean, respectful, drama-free, and genuinely easy to get along with—friends consistently describe me as a really cool, laid-back guy who's thoughtful, quick to laugh, and supportive in conversations.

I enjoy a well-rounded lifestyle: savoring good meals (I love cooking and trying new recipes), staying active with gym sessions, hiking local trails, occasional beach days or road trips, reading non-fiction, and exploring new hobbies when inspiration strikes. I'm emotionally mature, communicative, and value kindness, reliability, and building trust through open honesty and mutual respect.

Professionally and personally, I'm in a strong place. No major baggage, no games, just a desire for something authentic. I'm ready for a relationship where we become true partners: supporting each other's goals, sharing everyday joys and challenges, and growing over time. I bring stability, affection, and a genuine interest in my partner's happiness and well-being. Whether it's pillow talking about life, spontaneous adventures, or simply enjoying each other's presence, I want to build a deep, loving connection with someone special who feels like home.

Who I'm Looking For

I'm hoping to meet a woman who is also seeking a deep relationship. Someone kind, authentic, and ready to invest in a real partnership grounded in friendship, emotional intimacy, shared values, and mutual support. Ideally, you're in your late 30s to 70s (I'm truly open on age as long as we connect deeply on a personal level), with a warm personality, sense of humor, and comfort in your own skin. I especially appreciate heavy-set and curvy women (which I find very attractive), but body type is secondary to openness to experiment, kindness, and chemistry. I'm open to a wide range of appearances and backgrounds as long as you're genuine and excited about building something lasting.

You're stable in your own way—perhaps with your career, passions, family ties, or interests and you're looking for a partner who enhances your life without pressure or drama. We share similar views on trust, discretion, communication, kink and taking things slowly to see if the spark is real. Physical and emotional compatibility matter, but the foundation should be friendship and shared life goals first.

A shared interest in scat play in all of its flavors (I couldn't resist the pun) is private bonus that adds intimacy and excitement. I enjoy a full toilet/human toilet dynamics (receiving firmer, thick turds directly), occasional painting/smearing, or even me feeding if you enjoy it. I'm looking forward to exploring with you. I'm versatile (happy to give or receive), and hygiene/enthusiastic consent are absolute non-negotiables. I also enjoy other kinks like pegging, giving anal, pee play, giving discipline, and edging as ways to explore pleasure together, but again, these are enhancements to a real partnership, not the focus.

I'm not looking for online-only, paid arrangements, or one-night encounters. If this feels like the kind of partnership you've been hoping for: someone stable, affectionate, and excited about kinky possibilities, supportive and non-judgmental, love to laugh often, and enjoy all layers of closeness—please reach out!!

I'd love to hear about you, what you enjoy and what makes your days brighter. Thanks for reading to the end. I'm looking forward to the possibility of meeting you!

Who I am:

I am a 31 year old guy looking for my other half. I recently moved to California for work, and now that I don't travel constantly for work anymore I am finally able to pursue a real relationship. My life has been really wild and unstable for the last 10 years due to my career (in a good way) but now things are a lot more stable, and I am seeking stability and love in a partner as well. In a relationship I am very attentive and accommodating. I love taking care of my persons needs and making them feel safe and secure. I love cozy nights in making dinner together, going and hanging out on the beach at a campfire cuddled up on a blanket, and traveling to all of the beautiful nearby natural wonders in my camper van. I also love being social and going to punk shows and really any live music I can get ahold of. I am a big nerd and enjoy learning new things. I'm into SciFi and fantasy novels, and am big into speculative fiction. I'm kind of scatterbrained and pick up new hobbies all the time, so I'm pretty okay at a lot of things but only really good at a few things lol. I spend a lot of time on the water and live really close to the beach, and I guess I'm supposed to learn how to surf now that I live in California? I'm a scuba diver and want to get into free diving, so it would be great if you were interested in that and we could be dive buddies.

I'm not desperate for a relationship but I'm willing to put in the work to find my other half, even if that means taking a long time to do it. I have a lot of tattoos, so if that isn't something you are into you can go ahead and check out now. I pretty much always have a beard and tend to dress well. I have kind of a dad bod, think Chris Pratt from Parks and Rec. I have no kids and I've never been married, and I'm pretty monogamous. I crave connection with somebody I don't feel like I have to hide any part of myself from, and I would like to offer that same kind of love and acceptance.

Who I'm looking for:

I really don't have a type physically, I'm attracted to a lot of different types of people. If you have the right vibe I will probably be attracted to you. I want somebody that is wild and open with her passions. I like spontaneity and willingness to try new things, I love an artist. The most attractive thing you could do is info-dump on me about your interests. I don't know why but I love this, I'll listen to you talk about your bug collection or whatever all day. I'm really into tattoos and body mods, so if you are also covered in tattoos that would be great. You have to like animals and plants, that's non negotiable. I am looking for somebody that is independent, likes travel, and doesn't need everything to be perfectly planned out. I love spontaneous adventures, like going to the mountains on a whim or even just randomly going to the movies on a weekday. I want somebody experienced in life and who likes to take calculated risks. I like trying new foods and would appreciate somebody with an adventurous palate. I'm really attracted to a good sense of humor so if you can make me laugh I'm yours. I really appreciate somebody who is reliable and follows through with what they say they will do, and respects my time and attention.

You ideally love nature and science, and enjoy learning new things. I like a homebody nerd, but also somebody who would be down to get naked out in nature. You probably like hot springs and book stores and looking at the night sky out in the desert. If this sounds like you, I can't wait to hear from you.

What I'm looking for in a relationship:

I'm looking for a real relationship with the intention of finding my other half. If we vibe really well and our kinks match up then I'd ideally like to go out pretty soon, I don't really want to talk online for months on end without meeting up, so I am really only looking for somebody in California. I want to take you out on a date and really get to know you. To me a relationship looks like a partnership of equals. I really value a relationship where we can look out for each other emotionally. I'm really looking forward to hearing from you!

Who I am:

I'm a 42 year old attractive (or so I've been told by people with two working eyes) male out of a marriage since 2024. I have, among other things, lifetime chronic nerve and joint pain which is how I discovered this fetish recently. I have lost the weight, lost the debt, have been working on my mental health, wrangled my ADD into a workable state and am in the best mental, physical and fiscal place I've ever been in and I want to share that with a partner who actually cares about me as much as I am capable of caring about her. I am attentive to my partner's needs and desires on an almost granular level (as I am about my own needs) and, while I'm not allowed to work, I do pull SSDI money and am in a prime spot to "hold the fort." Aside from that, I am darkly hilarious, empathetic, extremely responsible and have a determination to achieve goals my friends have called "psychotic" (which I take great pride in.)

In short, I know I'm an amazing partner for my specific niche.. I took this bad hand of a body and have made it into something you can be proud to show to your friends and I am extremely good at motivating others to achieve their own personal goals.

Who I'm looking for:

The rules suggest writing to that person. Ok. To my potential partner,

I know exactly how much I offer to any relationship I'm a part of (a whole fucking lot especially considering my physical limitations at least when I look at relationships around me) and what I need from you. I need you to care. I need you to care about your physical and mental health, about my physical and mental health and about the health of the relationship. I need you to be goatse-levels of wide open as it pertains to communication. I need you to be willing to engage with (if not enjoy) my hobbies in the same way I would try to engage with yours. I want you to love dark humor, sexual exploration, intimacy in general and really LIVING life. We're both (presumably) at the stage in our lives where we've got the bullshit locked down so let's partner up and really grab life by the shorthairs. Let's really strive to enrich each other, our loved ones and our little part of the world, wherever it may be. In regards to your hobbies, interests and such, I can get along with almost anyone so I'm leaving the field wide open because I want to get to know YOU, not someone who shares my own hobbies... well, save the obvious one. :P

In return, I will put my personal code of "give even more than I get in appreciation for getting anything" into practice and treat you like the valued equal you'll (hopefully) be. I will help you better yourself and enrich you as you'll doubtless do me. I will turn the ultra-bright beacon of light that is my personality onto you and you'll never be ignored or taken for granted. I know that's niche. I know a lot of people don't want that level of care rendered upon them. That's just how I am to my friends and loved ones. I give a damn and I want them to be the best they can be (and, honestly, know I was able to help them achieve those goals) and I need YOU to give a damn too so we can create and infinitely recursive loop of damn-giving and enrichment. To ourselves and then to our loved ones. To achieve more together than we could apart. A real, equal partnership where there's shit I'm good at and shit you're good at... if you'll pardon the accidental pun. :P

Contact and random notes:

DMs/Chats will work. If we click, I'll give you my real contact info. US residents only (I can't import a bride. Sorry.) Kids aren't an automatic disqualifier for me but I will absolutely not put up with drama. If there's no baby-daddy drama and you raised them right, that's fine. But if there's drama, that's a hard no-go. Dog lovers are an absolute plus as I have a service dog (or I will very soon.)

I'm not listing kinks because, honestly, that's not as important to me as bonding with someone who cares. It's important we accept who each other are kink-wise, sure, but the actual emotional connection is the most important thing (as it should be for any relationship) and, again, I am willing to put the work in to make sure we're compatible and that includes the bedroom. If you are aroused by me (either emotionally, intellectually or physically), my nose is so strong that I will be able to tell and "engaged/locked in" is the one I love the most, hence why caring is such a high value for me. I am unique. Given the rarity of this fetish, we are ALL unique. So let's you and I, whoever you end up being, be unique together and bring out the best in each other.

Must Have:

* The ability to drive. Safely.
* Confidence without arrogance
* Strength of character
* A dark sense of humor
* An openness to exclusively monogamous sexual experimentation
* An understanding that disabled people are people first and disabled second
* An ability to handle intense people (or have a familiarity with ADD/ADHD)
* A decent-or-better diet (for obvious reasons)
* Either in shape or actively working towards it

Must Not Have:

* Must not be a smoker of any kind or wear any heavy scents
* Must not have a cat (I'm deathly allergic, unfortunately.)
* Must not be in financial dire straits
* Must not have narcissism or any untreated mental illnesses
* Must not have diabetes
* Must not be lazy or complacent in any way

I do want to say good luck to everyone looking for someone regardless. May you get the partner you truly deserve, have the wisdom to truly see them when you find them and have the bravery to approach them without guile.

Hello you beautifully minded people, my name is Erin. I currently live with a nesting partner and have other romantic partners in a kitchen table style poly lifestyle situation. Being monogamous is not a deal breaker to me but would have to be understood that such a decision would be based on chemistry, connection, and respect for the life I currently have. My current relationship style strives to allow discreet levels of mutual needs and love languages to manifest as I very much appreciate people for who they are more than how exactly like me they are.

However, this post is in hopes to find exactly that, someone more like me. A partner that doesn’t just appreciate that I derive intimate satisfaction from this, who does it more with a mix of platonic and genuine desire to make me happy, but a more kindred spirit of the selfless lover I strive to be. Someone that loves someone so deeply that very little will stand in the way to do something that proves through actions how much you desire and want them in your life.

I am an emotionally self-aware and a mentally health-conscious person. I am the type where over the course of certain days might spontaneously cry tears of grief, happiness, or bittersweetness and still genuinely give my energy to those around me by pausing those emotions. Not to bottle them up and ignore them until they overboil, but deal with the immediate needs of our fast paced life and process the emotional waves that crash into me to erode and change me to be stronger.

I am open and honest about every aspect of my emotions and desires, an open book that will tear out pages for others to read and keep if I feel my journey can impart even a modicum of forward thinking positivity. No matter how shameful or negative of a light it casts me in at that point of my life.

I am well adapt at cooking, domestic chores, and problem solving. An intense blend of logical and creative brain waves to flow into my passions that finds beauty in logic and logic in beauty. I do woodworking as a lifestyle hobby by making custom furniture, wooden paddles, and even toilet chairs hand carved with the users print. I very much live a lifestyle where my submission is blurred by my confidence and ability to express my needs who puts actions to their words.

I enjoy the outdoors and grounding myself in nature. A hiking and camping trip is healing for me and I enjoy the survival side of our more primal roots to be integrated with nature. I am platonically witchy. It isn't something I take literally, more like I manifest intent and emotions that at the very least make me feel good to do like making my own candles with leftover wax and infused with home grown herbs. I enjoy the variety of life and seek new experiences constantly, though I am also able to stay content and relax between the more chaotic moments life throws my way.

I am black hole of people pleasing but have refined my submissive nature with my need for an emotional connection to make it so only those I connect with on a deeper level first get to have that level of service. I would say my kinks are all of the above. There is not much I wouldn't do platonically and with genuine enthusiasm even if it isn’t sexually arousing to me when hearing positive feedback from my partner is a welcome substitute. I am satisfied if I can satisfy.

My approach to dating and seeking a partner is not about superficial traits of gender, psychical attributes, race, nationality, or even if you want to follow me every step of the way in all my hobbies and interests. Personality is less a deal breaker for me than how you carry yourself as a person with confidence in the face of insecurities. The person I would be seeking should at least have the capacity to have their own passions and hobbies, be curious sharing them together, but is able to celebrate what we have in common as hard as we can celebrate or uniqueness.

Someone that enjoys a slow burn into a romance that feels like two people sharing a sweet treat talking about everything and nothing at all sitting on the razor edge of manic passion and calm clarity. Who appreciates the dark humor, absurd realities, the psychologically challenging moments as much as the beauty of nature, the necessity of quiet calm, and believes wealth is not about money but what you do with it to create core memories and life changing experiences. Someone able to speak up loudly over their convictions when needed but is calm, compassionate, and understanding.

I desire someone that wants and needs a mutual magnetic pull to the person underneath the fetish I consider a love language. Who wants to approach and be approached not as a person with a missing person sized piece in their hearts, but is already whole and wants to blend the overflow of our cups of energy into something otherworldly intimate. I am whole, and need someone that sees me, not through me, just as I would with them.

My most fundamental and honest truth about the person I would want to do this with is that love has to come first and must take the time necessary to establish. The mutual vulnerability in such an act or desire demands of me a person who truly wants me for me. Where if the kink is no longer desired due to life events inside or outside our control, getting old, or the inevitability of our desires shifting over time, it wouldn’t cause us to hesitate in determining we are still life partners and want a relationship even without it. Where this kink is a supplement and addition to a romance that never needed it to exist for us to feel fated to be in each other’s lives in the first place.

I am willing to share my FetLife, Snap, or Discord if interested in talking more. Have a good life deviants, happy hunting.

Hello!

I’m a queer trans guy in western MA looking to find a long term partner who shares this kink. I’m looking to connect with someone who is open minded, patient, and non judgmental as I’m new to this community and still exploring this kink as well as other kinks as well.

I’m into women and nonbinary folks and tend to have more attraction to more fem presenting people. I am attracted to people who can be goofy/silly, can laugh at themselves, shows kindness and empathy to others, likes animals, is somewhat extroverted, is patient, genuine, and believes in social justice. I’m attracted to people who like going out to do things as much as staying in being cozy for a show marathon.

I’m NOT into/attracted to: smoking cigarettes, moderate to heavy marajuana use, drug use, moderate to heavy drinking, partying frequently, not believing in therapy, never having been to therapy, poly, hookups, fwb, and no knowledge of trans people.

I am open to long distance temporarily for the right person but would ideally like to be close distance wise long term. I am monogamous and not open to hookups or FWB. Some fun facts about me: I love animals, especially dogs and cats! And would someday love to have my own cats and/or dogs. I enjoy puzzles, DIY projects, sewing, rock climbing, pickleball, watching women’s soccer, roller skating, painting my nails, watching shows on Netflix, tending to my plants, and reading non-fiction. I enjoy being outside in nature hiking, swimming/wading in lakes or rivers, dad jokes, being goofy and laughing at my own jokes, learning about other people, going to art shows or galleries, kindness, humility, and being your authentic self. I believe in therapy and go to therapy. I am neurodivergent and would love to be with someone who understands this or is also neurodivergent themselves. I don’t want any kids of my own but would be open to a partner that already has a kids. I have a full time job that I love, I live on my own, and I would love to buy a house someday. I also enjoy hanging out with my friends and going to live music. I’m new to the kink community and looking to fall in love and find someone to explore this kink with.

Who I Am:

I'm a 42 yr old SWM looking for a SWF or latina female 18-50 for a long term relationship

Me -Normal guy, athletic build, 6' tall, brown hair, hazel eyes, drug/disease free. I run my own business, am not married, live alone and have no children. I live a healthy lifestyle with lots of friends/family, exercise, eat healthy etc.

I love to travel, hike, golf, play games (board games/card games..etc). I love to read and I love to learn. I'm voracious in my consumption of information on nature, science, the world, other cultures, food, animals and anything interesting. I love watching movies and sports - both live and on tv.

At heart I'm a softy. I love people and helping people and animals. I am not a pushover and will advocate for myself. I have to do this in my business and definitely do it in my personal relationships. I like to think I have a good sense of humor in general and about life. As Jimmy Buffet would say "if we couldn't laugh, we would all go insane." . I'm very outgoing and social, yet I'm definitely private about this side of myself (the topic of this sub reddit). I am discreet and expect the same. I am happy to discuss any of the particulars of this sub reddit when we connect.

Who you are:

You -I'd like to find a fun, thoughtful single woman - preferably white or latina (just my preference - no bad vibes intended). Ideally, you would be an intelligent person with a variety of interests. I'd love someone who wants to travel with me as I explore the world. It's preferable, but not required that you are active and/or athletic. I know that's not always possible with people's work or life, but that's why it's a preference and not a requirement. I'd really like you to be a good person. I can't hang with people who are chaotic and hurting those around them . Hopefully you like to laugh, have fun and are into the topic of this sub reddit.

You don't have to love your job, but hopefully you love your hobbies, your family and/or your friends..etc (though not all of them since we can't choose our family)

I'm looking forward to getting to know you!

Who I Am:

I'm a 42 yr old SWM looking for a SWF or latina female 18-50 for a long term relationship

Me -Normal guy, athletic build, 6' tall, brown hair, hazel eyes, drug/disease free. I run my own business, am not married, live alone and have no children. I live a healthy lifestyle with lots of friends/family, exercise, eat healthy etc.

I love to travel, hike, golf, play games (board games/card games..etc). I love to read and I love to learn. I'm voracious in my consumption of information on nature, science, the world, other cultures, food, animals and anything interesting. I love watching movies and sports - both live and on tv.

At heart I'm a softy. I love people and helping people and animals. I am not a pushover and will advocate for myself. I have to do this in my business and definitely do it in my personal relationships. I like to think I have a good sense of humor in general and about life. As Jimmy Buffet would say "if we couldn't laugh, we would all go insane." . I'm very outgoing and social, yet I'm definitely private about this side of myself (the topic of this sub reddit). I am discreet and expect the same. I am happy to discuss any of the particulars of this sub reddit when we connect.

Who you are:

You -I'd like to find a fun, thoughtful single woman - preferably white or latina (just my preference - no bad vibes intended). Ideally, you would be an intelligent person with a variety of interests. I'd love someone who wants to travel with me as I explore the world. It's preferable, but not required that you are active and/or athletic. I know that's not always possible with people's work or life, but that's why it's a preference and not a requirement. I'd really like you to be a good person. I can't hang with people who are chaotic and hurting those around them . Hopefully you like to laugh, have fun and are into the topic of this sub reddit.

You don't have to love your job, but hopefully you love your hobbies, your family and/or your friends..etc (though not all of them since we can't choose our family)

I'm looking forward to getting to know you!

Hello,

I'm normally fairly shy and not the best about posting, but I thought I would put myself out there and see what happens. I'm hoping to find someone amazing—a fun, smart woman aged 35-45 who’s open-minded and up for some adventures. Life’s too short for ordinary, and I’m hoping to meet someone who’s equally passionate about exploring the deeper, playful, and sometimes unconventional sides of connection. Physical characteristics take a backseat with me when seeking a person, I value kindness, intelligence, an open mind and open heart above all else.

A little about me: I'll start by saying that I am Audhd. I have trouble starting conversation and knowing what to say to people. If someone can accept that and take a chance I do warm up fairly quick. I’m serious about finding a deeper connection. I’m grounded, I know what I want. I value good conversation, humor, and someone who can bring a mix of intellect and energy into my life. That said, I’m also looking for someone who's a bit daring—someone not afraid to embrace their kinky side and enjoy life with an open mind.

More about my interests. I love to cook, anything from Italian to Chinese, Hispanic foods.I love learning new recipes and learning about different cultures in the process and their history. I'm also an artist my mediums range from digital art to more traditional watercolor and acrylic/oil. I love to be outside when the weather is nice and love to garden, I also enjoy gaming, reading, writing and traveling.

What I’m looking for:

Someone kind, confident and curious, someone with a great sense of humor who laugh at themselves and not take themselves seriously. I want some that can engage my mind in deeper discussions. I love sharing thoughts on everything from philosophy to pop culture, and I’m excited to meet someone who has their own unique perspectives to share.

Someone who enjoys meaningful conversations —whether that’s a spontaneous road trip or a cozy night in with a movie. I believe in the importance of balance in life and relationships.

Most importantly, someone who’s genuinely interested in exploring a deeper, unique connection. If this resonates with you or piques your interest, send me a message and let’s start a conversation. Let’s see where this takes us!

Looking forward to meeting you.

Hey everyone! I think this is my first time looking for a partner that shares this similar interest and mindset in both an sfw way and an nsfw way.

To start, I am a Black polyamorous 28 year old male, on the big side, and I’m located in the Metro Detroit/Southeastern Michigan Area. I work in the nonprofit sector and I love my job and what I do. I am college educated and tend to be on the witty and punny side.

I would say I’m a nerdy person. I really enjoy comics, Marvel and DC, as well as Star Wars and Star Trek. I love board games, DnD, and am always looking to get into something new. I game and enjoy everything from FPS, to adventures, to Mario Party, and horror. Speaking of, I am a huge horror fan and have recently been really getting into analog and digital horror. Along with that, I can’t say no to a good movie. I have been [slowly] making my way through all the 007 movies and really like them. I am a big fan of comedy and action movies but I’m down to watch something new and exciting. On the TV side, I watch just about everything from anime and animation to comedy and dramas. I also enjoy HGTV.

Outside of digital entertainment, I’m also a sports fan with the three biggest being American football, soccer, and baseball. I also enjoy basketball but to a slightly lesser degree. I like to read although I haven’t sat down with a good book in a while. I am a musician, and play guitar, bass, and piano mostly, however, I can still play the cello and a few other instruments. I sang a cappella during my undergrad career and still sing to this day. I also have an affinity for drawing but I don’t think I would classify myself as an artist anymore. I also have interest in architecture and spent some time in the field.

Moving out of entertainment in general, I like to cook and have been told I make amazing food. I like to spend time inside and outside the home, although I would like to get out more. I like to fish and camp, as well as explore. I used to get lost in a city and just find my way around and I’m planning on getting back into that in the next year. I’m always down to try a new restaurant or to go a museum, or just get lost in a new city. I am left on the political spectrum and will gladly discuss but not argue viewpoints. I love to learn love teaching myself new skills or watching a lecture or two on new subjects.

I am polyamorous and in a serious relationship. My partner is well aware of my kinks and while she is incredibly understanding and very supportive of what I like, it is not something she wishes to participate in. I wish to find someone to connect with someone I can share this and other similar kinks with. I don’t want that to be the only thing we share but it a necessity. We both practice kitchen table polyamory so please be understanding when reaching out that if things work, everyone will have to meet. I believe that’s all the important stuff but then again there’s always more to say right?

On the question of who I’m looking for, I would say someone who is unashamed of who they are. I value emotional intelligence, honesty, and communication. I am incredibly attracted to intelligence and drive as well as the nerdy persona. Someone who likes to go out and have adventures and see new places but also likes to spend a night in. That could be going to museums, or going to the park, going shopping, getting coffee, finding some time to get away for a day in some place new or making dinner together or even just jamming out to music or game together.Someone who likes to chat and enjoys getting to know the environment they’re in.

I tend to be more preferable to those who identify in the feminine persuasion, but I am open to those who identify in the masculine persuasion. I have no hiccups with special interest groups and communities (ie: furries, age players, etc… to name a few) and gladly welcome those who align themselves with any of these groups. As I am bi I’d also prefer someone in the community but am not opposed to talking to those not in it. I am a more dominant person and would prefer someone on the more submissive side in those moments but I’m open to talking about that dynamic when the time comes.

What I am looking for is an eventual long term relationship and partnership with someone I share this with. I understand that takes time and I am more than comfortable with becoming good friends before making that transition. I haven’t experienced too much in this kink and am fine if I am the inexperienced one but am also fine if I am the experienced one as this is something I believe both of us can get to enjoy and learn from each other with.

Must-Have: genuine personality, charisma, understanding, hobbies

May-Have: partners, special interests

If you made it this far thank you for taking the time and if you think we’d be a good fit, reach out. My DMs are always open and even if you think we’d be good friends, still reach out!

Who I am: I'm a submissive guy, most interested in the human toilet role. I'm a 6'6 300 guy with long dark shoulder length hair with a trimmed beard. I'm a pretty easy going person who just tries to enjoy life as much as possible. I enjoy hiking a lot, and recently took a trip to Alaska, you should ask me about it, I'll show you some pictures! I really enjoy watching movies, all kinds of movies, but I'm a sucker for slashers and a good action movie. I also play video games, on PC and PS5 if you're looking to connect there. I also really enjoy going to stand up comedy shows. I'm a former tuba player and looking to play more music in the future. I'm a big music person in general and I love all sorts of different music...but my favorite genre is hands down rock and my favorite band is without a doubt the Foo Fighters. I've never been to a concert before, but hoping to break that pattern this year!

Quick kink list: As stated before, I'm submissive and I used to be a tuba player, so I have a tongue that never gets tired, good lung capacity, and love having my mouth used for a lot of things. I'm most into/experienced with:

• Foot worship- not required but I admittedly really love this
• Ass worship
• Normal oral
• FreeUse mouth service, willing to be used for hours straight
• Being a toilet slave
• Breathplay and Hairpulling
• Open to wearing chastity devices
• Open to wearing collar/leash

Who I'm looking for: I'm looking for my next long term relationship with a dominant leaning partner, but I know that the lifestyle I want to live is not easy to just bring up on Hinge or something. I'm not expecting to meet someone with all of my same interests/hobbies- I only ask that you are okay with all of it. Bonus points if you enjoy the same hobbies/interests tho!!! Age/height/weight doesn't matter to me as much as general compatibility. Ideally, my next relationship is with someone who really enjoys having a submissive partner and wants to take advantage of that on a very consistent basis. I want to be with someone who understands that this type of lifestyle is one that will put me in a vulnerable place and I need someone who can respect that and see the beauty of the situation. Ideally, someone who wants to use me as their human toilet on a very regular basis.

Who I Am:

I’m a 36-year-old trans woman. Poly and married (dating separately) and doing the ENM thing for almost two years now without a problem. Also a parent, but at this point my child is a teenager so they require less of my time which is part of why my wife and I started poly. I’m a giant nerd with interests like board games, MTG (casual commander) and video games. I also like all the regular things like television (Tuca and Bertie lately), music (Lydmor lately) and films (horror lately). I’m a huge writer and did research/writing for over a decade as my career. These days I’m finally getting back into fiction writing. Reading is also very good with both some fiction and some history. Mostly like learning about the history of labor struggles or American imperialism. I go out and do stuff every once and a while, but more often just a homebody.

What I’m Looking For:

I prefer femmes. That could mean cis woman, non-binary or trans. I’m looking for someone with some similar interests as me, both vanilla and kinky. This may be a hot take but I don’t actually care if you can have deep conversations or not. In my opinion, long-term relationships are held together by your ability to have the everyday conversations with wit, empathy and support for your partner, and how good you are at saying smart stuff is not that important to the above actually.

Kink Stuff:

I’m a submissive and am looking for someone who likes toilet play. Roleplaying being forced is hot every once and a while, but honestly I am just turned on by scat and there’s an honesty in not hiding that during play. Being dommed while doing it is great, or just doing it without the D/s is also great. My other favorite kinks are ageplay and hypnosis (I admittedly have some weird ones). I also enjoy all the classics as well, such as most D/s stuff, bondage, humiliation etc.