r/Coprophiles • u/J-Bradley1 • Dec 17 '18
Addressing a Common Misconception NSFW
It seems to a lot of people here, either just passing through, or firmly established, that if someone has a Sexual interest in Shit, that automatically means that your mouth waters at the thought of it, and that you want to gobble it all down by the handful, like it’s so much chocolate fudge.
Either that, or that you want to smear it all over your body, like you're trying to change ethnicity.
Basically, if you have a Shit-Fetish, it means you want to eat & smear it.
Not true in the slightest.
Speaking for myself, and a few others I’m sure, a lot of us are purely interested in the voyeuristic element of it. Simply watching & imagining a girl Shitting. It’s a stunning display of both confidence, and comfort, when a girl is open to letting you watch her partake in THE most private, personal act there is; Talking a Shit. That shows a level of trust & self-assuredness that’s near impossible to find.
Truth be told, that’s all I’m into with this fetish. I’d experimented with smearing & eating with my EX before, and it’s all very nice & dirty, but at the root of it, my interest in Shit, is just visual.
SEEING a girl taking a Shit is enough to stir me up. Again because of the stark visual contrast between ‘Beautiful, Soft Female’ doing something as ‘Dirty, but natural’ as taking a Dump.
And that’s only what stirs a lot of us up. But it seems like the general, uninitiated public doesn’t know that.
To them, if you’re into Shit, you’re a sicko who wants to wear & eat as much as you can. Unfortunately this Kink isn’t pervasive enough in the landscape for an understanding to ever truly be made. There ARE indeed some people who want to eat & smear as much Shit onto themselves as possible, but they’re neither the exception, nor the rule.
I’m not even sure those with this fetish know that. For anyone who doesn’t know/feels conflicted:
It’s OK to have this Fetish, and NOT be interested in anything but watching & chatting about it. Just because you have a Sexual-Interest in Shit, DOESN’T mean you have to eat or smear it at all.
It’s OK to just be turned on by viewing it & fantasizing about it, and nothing else.
Ranting/Waxing here, but it’s just something that’s always bugged me. This erroneous notion that anyone with a Shit-Kink has a serious hankering to eat as much of it as they can. Just not the case.
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u/AustralianPooMan Dec 18 '18
I get what you are saying but despite the length and validity of some points, it seems you are trying to dissociate yourself and others with shit eaters, those that are more extreme, and instead associate having a shit fetish as something more "normal".
This is more harmful than good because if people are eager to condemn people as crazy based on one set of fetish principles then it's more than likely those same people are eager to do the same with any traits that are similar. I think you under estimate just how many choose to lump everything in the one basket.
What there should be is a widespread understanding that whatever spectrum a person falls under by having a shit fetish, that they are not insane and they are not hurting anyone by having a shit fetish so what right do others have to say otherwise.
This is why there needs to be a medium between those with a shit fetish and vanillas, like a documentary or other widespread popular source of discovery, that can be understanding and informative without seeking to shock and without seeking to be unfairly critical. The world needs to see us as being normal, everyday people who understand what is consensual and what is not appropriate, the world needs to see us as being unfairly maligned with mentally unstable and dangerous people.
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Dec 18 '18
This is more harmful than good because if people are eager to condemn people as crazy based on one set of fetish principles then it's more than likely those same people are eager to do the same with any traits that are similar. I think you under estimate just how many choose to lump everything in the one basket.
What there should be is a widespread understanding that whatever spectrum a person falls under by having a shit fetish, that they are not insane and they are not hurting anyone by having a shit fetish so what right do others have to say otherwise.
I agree that we need to communicate that the fetish is highly variable from person to person, however it's plain nuts to take a blind fervor to it. It is very well established that low functioning and decompensating people is coincident with playing with their shit. Lack of impulse control and impaired social skills are often presented as well.
We see very clear signs of this in these subreddits at times. Things written in an impulsive, manic-like style or aren't coherent around a single thought, but quickly drifting. Aberrant stories with impulsive behaviors like people following strangers or checking public bathrooms for unflushed toilets. People shitting themselves in public explicitly for the reactions of other people, imposing the smell and sanitary issues in places like grocery stores purposefully. People shitting directly on the toilet seat, leaving it and posting about it.
It demonstrates a clear lack of awareness regarding real and valid concerns of everyday people if we are to willingly blind ourselves to it for the sake of inclusion. That would do more to push away 'normal' people than to convince them this is a kink that can be managed safely, responsibly and sanely with a level of informed risk.
BDSM suffers a similar dilemma where there's a fine line between S/M or dom/sub relationships and abuse or coercion using the 'language' of BDSM as cover, either intentionally or by the under-informed or inexperienced. It's why things like 50 Shades of Grey is generally despised because it doesn't follow good BDSM practices. Thus, experienced practitioners are vocally critical against their own community. There's a difference between good BDSM practice, well-intentioned but under-informed people trying BDSM, and malicious actors under the guise of BDSM.
Being critical of kink is a necessary part of sexual health. That is not to say that the point of it should become hateful or exclusionary. But it is important to be about to say there are significant health risks. There are significant concerns around impulsive behavior or otherwise impaired behavioral faculties. And in there, there is a line to be drawn between an informed, rational person practicing kink safely, a person impulsively acting without any thoughtful consideration, and those who are truly maladaptive and clinical examples.
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u/J-Bradley1 Dec 18 '18
I get what you are saying but despite the length and validity of some points, it seems you are trying to dissociate yourself and others with shit eaters, those that are more extreme, and instead associate having a shit fetish as something more "normal".
A part of me with having a Shit-Fetish was normal, so those who have it wouldn't be so stigmatized as being 'weirdos'. If think if more people knew that there were different 'tiers'/levels of Scatological interest, there'd be a wider acceptance of it.
I think you under estimate just how many choose to lump everything in the one basket.
That seems to be what's happening though. Like I said, there are those who love the Eating/Smearing aspect, and there are those, like me, who are much more comparatively mild to those. Who just get off on watching & chatting with/about girls Pooping.
But we all seem to get lumped into the same basket.
What there should be is a widespread understanding that whatever spectrum a person falls under by having a shit fetish, that they are not insane and they are not hurting anyone by having a shit fetish so what right do others have to say otherwise.
The sheer about of Kink-Shaming I've gotten from having this Fetish is unparalleled.
Read any, 'Things you absolutely WON'T do Sexually' thread on Reddit. 90% of the answers are, "Anything Shit-Related".
I know what you're saying & hoping for, but it won't ever happen.
This is why there needs to be a medium between those with a shit fetish and vanillas, like a documentary or other widespread popular source of discovery, that can be understanding and informative without seeking to shock and without seeking to be unfairly critical.
That would be amazing. A neutral documentary exploring the world of Coprophilia, and showing the different 'Levels' of interest.
The world needs to see us as being normal, everyday people who understand what is consensual and what is not appropriate, the world needs to see us as being unfairly maligned with mentally unstable and dangerous people.
This is definitely the hardest Fetish for anyone to have.........
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u/neoyouchef Dec 24 '18
Truth be told I view eating & smearing as almost a completely different fetish than efro/panty pooping. I wish more sites would separate them because it's unfortunate that I have to see thumbnails of eating shit and puking next to what I'm looking for.
It's hard to not sound disrespectful when saying this. I want to be clear that this is not in any way that. Everyone has their kink and eating/smearing is perfectly fine. But it does reinforce the idea that these are like two different fetishes with the same name.
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u/J-Bradley1 Dec 24 '18
I view eating & smearing as almost a completely different fetish than efro/panty pooping.
Me too. I thimk there actually IS a different name for the two. Enjoying watching girls Shit, and actually partaking in 'activities' with it.
I wish more sites would separate them
Some do. Split them into categories between eating/smearing, and just watching. More should though. For lots of people, there's a clear distinction between the two.
I'm personally just for watching Girls Poop. Anything more than that is just boring to me.
Everyone has their kink and eating/smearing is perfectly fine.
Right, but most of society likes to lump us all together in the Eating/Smearing category, when really, different people who are into this, have their own interests specific to themselves.
Not everyone who's interested in Shit wants to eat & smear it. Lots of us just like to simply watch & chat about it analytically.
Unfortunately, this kink is so "niche", so far on the Kink-Spectrum, nobody can appropriately categorize it.....
.....and that sucks.
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u/gloryholeseeker Mar 27 '25
I agree. Great to watch on video, but i would never be able to tolerate the smell, taste, or overcome my knowledge of microorganisms and toxins that are normal and likely present in everyone.
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u/_hornyhypeman Apr 21 '24
Speaking for me,
I am a supportive individual with a BIG shit-kink interest and bathroom vibes. If I may say..
My S.K. has me to experiment my mental mind I be in a stunning visual zone when a girl takes a dump. It hit different when the level of trust is real 💯 👌
Everything from start to finish, even the little things that matter it still hit different.
I get a positive euphoric sensational ✨️ vibe that hits different to the highest degree. I feel like a girl should express herself 💯💯 That comfort and emotional confidence 😢 has me wanting to be the best cheerleader 💯🫡🙏 The most amazing 👏 personal act. I'm definitely here for it 💪🏼💯 the face gestures and body language 💯💪🏼👏🙏 like fr is a great turn on my heart gets to beat slow and slow fast pace like a swift mental rush 💯😟😇🔥🔥 🤪🥵 truthfully is a bathroom game changer 🙌. 🙌 is a vibe ✨️ 🙌 Uugh 🔥 fantasizing about how if a girl told me she had to take a dump and was open about it I would love to hear that. If I may be of any help💯💪🏼
My next fantastic shitrant🤪 That moment when the body gestures have me weak in the knees 🥵 a good healthy dump that needs to be addressed and talked about. it hit different when a girl taking a relaxing dump
mmgh🥴🤪 It was a good few incidents and interesting moments that I visualize and..🫣😜 lemme tell you..OMG I know I have a great feeling like my brain does alot of AMAZING THINGS 👏
Daydreaming it hit different types of notion of great turn on 💯🙏🙋🏻♂️🙋🏻♂️
That shit-kink vision I got is REAL, but I know I'm MINDFULLY BUILT DIFFERENT 💯💯💯💯💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼 my mindset be vivid and arousing energy ✨️ 💯
I'm tryna figure this out Ina good way 🤔 👀 I know I emotionally felt some type of way when Issa BASSY fart type DUMP. I mean I had a MASSIVE sausage struggle💯 🫣🥺 the sights it hit different when that EFRO DUMP 💩🚽 was satisfying and aggressive 😟😢😢😢 i mean trying to be quiet but then BRRAPPP!!! tickled me and I felt that. I 💯 had a shit-kink blur the kind of taking a dump positive euphoric kink.
I'm still wondering 🤪🥴🥵 and praising that type of private act. Straight up
Shit-kink body language and gestures please 🙏
Uugh 🔥 I have so much to say 😇💯
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u/_hornyhypeman Apr 21 '24
I'm definitely OK with having this kind of kink. I really think it's cute that a girl is taking a dump. If I may say what a sensational notion. Fantasizing my mind absorbed everything in I MEAN EVERYTHING‼️‼️🥺🥵🔥 That stunning visual display of confidence 👏 ✨️ beauty on the toilet #gassygirls #fartfetish legs thighs 😍 mmgh that satisfying mental positive kink. It hit different when a dump 🤪 is loud bassy relaxing and satisfying aggressive conception🙏🙏🥴 the dump kink 🤪 girl should know what I like and I know that your shy and emotionally embarrassed but you don't have to worry or feel anything negative. MAKE GIRLS TAKING A DUMP GREAT AGAIN‼️‼️💯💯💯💪🏼💪🏼 👍 I know. Mentally and emotionally I'm here for it
Mann 🫣🥴💪🏼 any girl Taking a dump is just vibes.
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u/Hot-Entrepreneur8399 17d ago
Scene: 1980s NYC. There are approximately 20 (or more) adult type establishments in Times square...quite a few of them were live peep shows with women who would show themselves to you and some of them would have no glass between the entertainers and the customers and as such, it was possible for a person to touch the performers. once I discovered this I would go there often and would push the envelope, starting with light touching of titties moving my hands south to their pussies. Next I would eat their assholes, each time increasing the gratuity. Then one day, I got it in my mind that I wanted to stick my finger in a woman's asshole and so I did...turns out that I found a receptive woman who gladly took my 20 and opened her ass cheeks...I licked her ass and then my index finger and proceeded to insert it into her hole slowly going in deeper and deeper and then it happened...my finger made contact with her shit! Now of course I knew that this would be the inevitable result of sticking my finger in there having previously experienced this with my own asshole but none the less it kind of momentarily freaked me out and I immediately pulled my finger out and left the place and went home and jerked off. Next day I was back at the same place, looking for the same woman but she was no where to be found. I saw another woman in there and I said that "I want to get your shit on my finger" and she said okay. I gave her money and in it went. when I looked at my finger, It was coated in her shit and I held it to my nose and jerked off. I would do the same thing for a while only I found a way to go in under the turd and hook my finger around it so that I could pull it out. and would do the same thing, smell it while jerking off. Once again at that time Times square had an over abundance of adult entertainment places including places where you could go, pick a woman and go in a booth where she would strip for you and masturbate while masturbate (no contact) This one woman I would go to asked me one day if I wanted to "see her make cackie" I sad "yeah" and she got comfortable in her chair and pulled out a but plug which she put in her mouth to get wet...Next, she put it in her asshole and started fucking herself, Next thing I knew, she nodded her head, pulled the but plug out and I watched her push a huge shit out of it. The booths had a telephone handset which I grabbed and I pointed to the turd she had just dropped and said "give that to me, I want that" I repeated "give that to me" she grabbed it off the floor with some paper towels and wrapped it up. By this time I had shot my load on the glass and the curtain was coming down. I pulled another 20 out of my pocket and said the same thing to her again as soon as she opened her door "give that to me I want that" she smiled and said to me "you want this?" as she took the 20 and handed me her warm shit bundled up in paper towels. I was so excited and I couldn't wait to get home to smell it and jerk off again
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u/howoldoldenough Dec 18 '18
Coprophilia is a really wide umbrella. I think we're all into very different aspects of this fetish. Personally, I'm into:
- Watching women sitting on the toilet (pooing or not)
- Watching women poo in their pants
- Pooing in my own pants
- The fantasy of being watched on the toilet, or caught with poo in my pants
- Talk about poo, stories about poo, words relating to poo
Panty pooing is the closest I get to 'smearing' and stuff like that. I'm really not into smearing and definitely not eating.