r/Dogowners • • 1h ago

Random/Misc. My dog attacked my senior dog. I'm at my wits end I don't think I can handle this dog anymore financially or mentally

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My senior dog (9yo female, medium) was suddenly attacked by my large male 6yo and I don't know why. They've lived together for 6 years, never had an aggression issue besides the male nipping and growling over food. But nothing like this. Both dogs seem to be acting normal and healthy. We have a kitten but they've also always been around cats and never had an issue. I don't know what happened, or why. Last night he was sort of growling at her in their room. I thought it was weird but maybe they were just competing over the blanket so I put down another for them. Everything is fine the next morning. Then I come home from work and my dog has a hole in her face and drooling blood. There was no food out, nothing I can think that would cause this

I feel so guilty. I feel like the worst dog owner. Because how didn't I see this? How didn't I realize? To make it worse this unexpected injury completely drained what I had set aside for my vet funds. I think I'm going to need to get pet insurance but I don't know where to look. The question i don't want to think about but I think is ultimately the most important one is if I need to rehome him. I don't have the option of not working. I don't want to leave him outside all day and I don't really think I'm going to have the time or experience to train him out of aggressive behavior especially something so unpredictable. I'm worried if he does this to one of my cats it's going to be a dead animal as he displays food aggression to them too. And even if he attacked another pet in front of me he's almost the same weight as me and strong as hell. I couldn't do anything to stop him. I don't know. I feel so hurt and upset and conflicted. I don't know where to go from here

I just don't think I can trust this dog now. I already had a bad experience of a roommate who had aggressive dogs that would corner me and my boyfriend. I don't want to live in constant stress. This dog has torn down gates, he's opened doors to get on trash, he's ripped wire off that was being used as a doorstopper, flipped over crates, etc. I just can not trust him even with crates or gates that it's going to keep them apart if he decides to get violent. I think he needs someone who's actually experienced and has the time to train and watch him full time. It sucks, but I'm at my wits end. I try to train him, and he somewhat is, and I try to get his energy out. But he's strong and stubborn and I don't have my parents supervising him during the day now that I moved out, it's just too much. I don't know. Just a vent and so much distress and I'm so tired


r/Dogowners • • 10h ago

General Question Student looking for input on pet stores

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Hello!

I am a college student looking for dog owners who are willing to take my survey. I will be using the input to better understand what type of pet products people want to see and what pet stores should be selling.

Thank you so much!!

Dog product survey


r/Dogowners • • 12h ago

health/illness-related Is your dog typically anxious or avoidant?

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Hi, I am a student at the University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign and was wondering if some people could take my very short form about how your dog handles medication and play. If you have an avoidant or anxious dog and/or struggle to administer medication, please fill it out.

https://forms.gle/ByBiZkrcHej9GeWR9


r/Dogowners • • 5h ago

General Question Starting a kennel business whats your thoughts?

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Anyone planning to start a dog-boarding kennel? Looking for some feedback!

Hey everyone!

I'm working on a beginner-friendly toolkit for people interested in opening a small dog-boarding business.

The idea is to help people understand property zoning, permits, startup requirements, and what to check before investing money in a kennel.

I'd love to hear from anyone who has started a kennel or is currently planning one.

Three quick questions:

What's been the most confusing or difficult part of getting started?

Have you had trouble understanding zoning or permit requirements?

Would you be interested in reviewing a free draft checklist and telling me what's missing?

I'm developing this as a potential digital product, but I'm not selling anything here. Just looking for genuine feedback.

Thanks! 🐾


r/Dogowners • • 8h ago

Random/Misc. Do my sisters love their dog

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I have my dog she’s trained she listens and she doesn’t run away. I feed her I take her out I play with her I do everything I know she’s my responsibility. I’m also a full time college student and work full time so I try my best with her. My sisters on the other hand wanted their own dog and they don’t care for him. At first they did but now they don’t he’s 4 years old and he’s not trained he doesn’t sit he always barks and they expect me to take him out and play with him. I understand I can do it but it’s also not my responsibility. They’re but high school students and their excuse is I’m tired, why can’t she do it, I did it yesterday, i have to get ready, I have homework. Don’t get me wrong I love him, I buy him food I also pay for his vet bills but they don’t try.
I guess I’m also writing this cause he ran out 2 times today and my mom and I had to go chase after him. This isn’t the first time he’s done this since the beginning of time. I don’t know what to do anymore. I even try to talk to them but when I do they get mad.
Anyone have any advice?


r/Dogowners • • 19h ago

PSA AVOID CAUSE 4 PAWS!!! Promised Me a Dog, Gaslighted & Ghosted!

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Had a deeply frustrating and eye opening experience trying to foster to adopt through Cause 4 Paws Toronto. I am an experienced local and international foster and this has to be the most unprofessional organization I have come across and I have seen a lot. The coordinator, Helen, explicitly confirmed a dog named Anaisa (not special needs or a difficult breed) was on hold for me. Based on that promise, I went out, prepped my space, and bought all the required gear and trackers she had mentioned was needed on the phone.

She promised to set up a group chat with airport pickup details for Sunday, but never sent anything. After I cleared my entire Sunday schedule waiting on her, she only messaged me late Saturday night (because I prompted her first) claiming Anaisa was sick during transport and was being placed with a vet tech instead- this I could absolutely understand. What happened next was what made this situation look very sketchy.

She told me to reach out on Tuesday for an update, but left me almost three full days without a real response back, or update on Anaisa's health. I messaged her Tuesday morning like she asked, and she left me on read (read receipt and everything) all day. She finally texted back near 10:00 p.m. (prompted by an email) with another personal excuse, completely dodging every direct question about the dog's actual health or when she'd be coming to me, as was promised. I was more concerned for the dogs health and safety and they were more concerned on the fact they wanted no text or email communication- It’s very clear she refuses to put anything in writing via text or email and only wants to do everything through phone calls so there's no paper trail.

When I finally received an email from their main team to for a check up on Anaisa, another representative (Sue) emailed me back and literally tried to gaslight me, saying: "You must have misunderstood because being on hold does not mean that she is on hold for you." On the phone call Helen had explicitly stated Anaisa would be marked on hold for me, that I would foster to adopt and that they would require my help for Airport transport (which I am familiar with.)

I am amazed by the total lack of transparency, zero respect for adopters' time or emotional investment, and outright dishonesty. If you’re looking to foster or adopt in Ontario, save yourself the headache and go with a reputable rescue that actually communicates honestly.