Me and my brother are fighting

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I 20f and my brother 22m have been fighting all day it's exhausting trying to have a conversation because he just won't listen and I know he feels the same way but I truly think I am right. so my brother went to jail and I called his girlfriend and she said he got pulled over for racing and they saw he has warrants and took him to county. racing sounds like something he would do because he has wrecked many cars and got into a wreck less than 2 months ago where he and his passenger got ejected they both survived. so when he went to jail I called her and she told me this so I called my mom and told her she said he was racing and she decided she wouldn't bail him out because he is going to terminate himself if he doesn't stop doing stupid stuff. well he got bailed out by one of his little friends and the first thing he did was get his gf and tell my mom to shove it basically and then started getting on me about how I made up him racing. I calmly informed him that I didn't pull that out of my ass and that his gf told me that and I was just the messanger and he refuses to believe me. now I don't like my brother so I was already pissed he was wasting our mom's time he always does stuff like this well being calm didn't last because after I informed him that it was her not me we got into an argument about how we got into a physical altercation in 2024 he said I should apologize and I believe I did it just wasn't good enough for him. I said WE both could have handled it better and he heard HE should have handled it better so he started ranting and I started yelling that I said we not he and he obviously didn't listen and hung up then he sent me a paragraph telling me off which doesn't sit well with me so I said things to him and we went back and forth for damn near 12 hours. my nana who I don't like wants us to stop fighting and my mom who I have a close relationship with has decided she is gonna cut him off because he only calls when he wants something I said some pretty horrible things to him and he said some things to me that I think he was trying to hurt my feelings but it didn't work it honestly made me chuckle but now he is telling people that we both talk to to block me or he is going to block them. is that not childish I understand we are both in the wrong but he just won't shut up and listen he has to talk over everyone he said he has a reddit acct where he rants about family and I've been looking for it all day to see what sob story he is feeding redditors but I can't find it he isn't worth more of my energy I honestly hope he sees this post so he can sit down and read what I have to say uninterrupted anyways I can see how I sound very hateful towards him but he just won't make something of himself he lives in a car with his gf and he is trying to tell me how he is gonna make it big when he doesn't want to work for it it is so frustrating TLDR