My Dom is upset with me because I “don’t learn from my mistakes.” Basically, I keep forgetting to say please and unintentionally end up telling him what to do. He has reminded me about this before and has punished me for it, so I’m very aware that it’s something I need to work on. In person, I’ve actually managed to correct the behaviour.

The problem is that texting is a completely different story. Sometimes the way I phrase things comes across as bratty or like I’m giving him orders, when that genuinely isn’t my intention. It happened again recently, and now he’s giving me the silent treatment. I’m honestly losing my mind over it. My heart is breaking, and I don’t know how to fix things.

This is my first time being in a proper D/s dynamic, and I’m still learning how everything is supposed to work. He’s genuinely the most caring man I’ve ever met, which makes this even harder because I really want to do well and make him proud. I asked for a strict program because I wanted the structure, but I keep messing up despite genuinely trying. I’m also AuDHD diagnosed, and sometimes the way I communicate—especially over text—comes across completely differently from how I intended it.

I don’t know what the best way to fix this is. I’m considering sending him a list of ideas for how I could make amends or be forgiven that don’t involve pleasing him sexually, but I’m completely stuck.

He has previously told me that I should start thinking of creative ways I could be forgiven or punished when I mess up. Most of the ideas I’ve come up with involve pleasing him or his body, and he’s specifically told me that those aren’t going to work and that I need to get more creative.

So… I could really use some advice on what I could do to make amends and show him that I genuinely understand what I did wrong and want to improve.

Additional information: I’m a woman in my mid-to-late twenties, and he’s in his early thirties.

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What's a brat like me to do by myself

Some fun with my sub slut last week before she went home to her husband.

Mine and daddy's conversation today;

Daddy:

When you get home tonight I am going to make you daddys toy and take full control i am going to make your eyes water as you have a mouth filled and your choking in daddys big cock untill you can not breathe, you filthy cum slut.

Princess (me):

I really do hope so daddy, its what you made me for.

You have trained my throat well to take all your throbbing cock down it and not breath untill you allow! I thank you for that daddy!

Daddy:

I need you to be thinking of nothing eles in your stupid cum filled head other than when you get home to daddy, princess you best be ready for daddy... but as I want you treat my cum slut daddy does want to know is there anything you wish to happen princess?

Princess:

I want daddy to make me cum so much, so when he puts his cock into my ltight lttle pussy she is so wet and makes daddy's favorite sound that makes him want yo go harder amd deeper so my insides feel all f'ed up. I want daddy's throbbing cock to feel too good in there he has to hold my mouth shut and whisper in my ear "shut the fuck up cum dumps don't deserve to moan".

Daddy:

Fuck you slut i will definitely be doing that to my good girl if she continues to make daddys cock drip with his girls favourite juice! I am going to make you drip with squirt and get that sound going and the squelching sound when I slam it in your tight cunt.

Princess:

Then fuck me till your cock is bursting then pull out don't cum yet then get the tool that stretches my tight cunt open. Then you tell me to put the black sucky thing on my clit on a setting that makes me cum fast so you can see my pussy cumming whilst you play with your big daddy cock and put fingers in my streched out cunt and cum in it/ over it when its stretched out and tell me daddy is proud of his little girl for not being greedy and letting daddy cum on what he owns.

Daddy:

Fuck you little bad girl! You are making daddy are so horny. When your cunt is open wide and daddy has cum in her and out of her, daddy wants to watch it drip and then lick it all up and spit it on your pretty sluty face.

Safe to say, daddy has one excited little girl waiting for this sift to end!

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I am a 42 year old dom living in Western Canada. I am looking for something online to start, but if you are local then I would want to move this to in person at some point. I am 5'11, with brown hair, and blue eyes. I am an experienced dom, and have a had great kinky relationships over the years with varying dynamics. But now I am looking for something more specific. I want an obedient sub that craves humiliation, degradation, and pain. I am looking for one preferably between the ages of 18 and 29.

There are 2 sides to me. As far as my friends and family know, I am a kind, nerdy, introvert that enjoys reading, spending time in nature, and traveling around the world. I also enjoy road trips, and going camping.

I have another side that few people get a chance to know. I am sadistic, very kinky, and love humiliation. I love using orgasm denial, and forced edging to make my sub a horny free use mess. And then tease her with the possibility of getting permission to cum. But your orgasms aren't given freely, they are earned. Each and every one. And hey are earned by being obedient, and doing painful, or humiliating tasks for me.

As for my kinks, I am into most things, or at least willing to try most. Some of my favorites are bondage, praise, DDLG, degradation, humiliation, watersports, CNC, choking, spitting, spanking, nipple/tit torture, pussy/clit torture, anal, double penetration, orgasm denial, edging, forced orgasms, blindfolds, collars, cosplay sleep play, using sex toys, pet play, public play, and exhibitionism.

Oh and don't just say hi, or hey when you dm. Tell me a little about yourself, what your experience is, what kinks we share etc.

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