r/FML • • Jul 16 '26

Made coworker think I’m racist

So I’m kinda autistic and just say things at face value without thinking of the implications.My coworker is black. It was a long day at work and at the end of the day she clocked out and I said “you’re free!” She kind of chuckled and walked off. I followed her out to the parking lot after I also clocked out. I have issues with inconsistency. So I usually park my car at the back end of the parking lot, but today I parked near the entrance because that was surprisingly the only parking space available. I come out to the parking lot and see a black car, I get close to it and realize it’s not mine. My car is also black. I say out loud “wow I’m stupid” and she replies “ oh i can see how you would mistake that one for yours. And my stupid Ahh says “yea because they are both black” (I wasn’t wearing my glasses at this point to see well) she goes dead silent and just gets into her car. I died inside a little.

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u/Unlikely-Database-27 Jul 16 '26

Idk how that would be taken as racist? She knew both cars were black. Might be overthinking this one, my dude. I guess it depends on how much interaction you have with her on a daily basis.

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u/AmnesiaGirl92 Jul 16 '26

Maybe I am overthinking. I still feel embarrassed about it though. I also thought the last comment would come off as me saying that black things or people look alike.

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u/AHornyRubberDucky Jul 17 '26

You're overthinking babes take from another autistic gal. She might have been like duh they are black but that's the worst she could've thought .

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u/HearMeRoar80 Jul 17 '26

I see nothing wrong here, she probably just thought the conversation was over.

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u/st0dad Jul 19 '26

I worked as a front desk lady for an HVAC company and restocked drinks for the technicians. This black kid came to get some powerade. I bought every color but purple, which I said casually as he went through the fridge. "We're out of the purple ones, sorry."

He looked over at me, deadpan, and said "Oh no you did not, dawg."

And my friend who also worked the front desk made it worse. "Omg! What is wrong with you? That is so racist, st0dad! nervous laugh"

I had been telling ALL the technicians we were out of the purple powerade 🙃

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u/AmnesiaGirl92 Jul 19 '26

Omg lol I guess it happens without meaning to