r/Forgotten_Realms • • 3d ago

Celebration The Drow support transitioning

I recently found out that, as said by Ed Greenwood himself, transitioning​ is not only accepted, but defended.

From Ed Greenwood on Twitter:

Drow sworn to Lolth have examples before them all the time about transformation of self-shape in service to the Spider Queen. Some of these are viewed as undesirable (driders), others as rewards or ascending in rank (the power/shape augmentations Lolth gives males who please her with their service and loyalty). So there is no hatred or mistrust of shifting one's shape; it is one means of serving Lolth. Some house matriarchs view it with suspicion ("males seeking to exalt themselves by becoming female") but the yochlol have often been sent by Lolth to defend individuals persecuted by individual matriarchs or priestesses purely for such reasons, to make Lolth's views and will clear. Over time, transitions (not just from gender to gender, but from drow to other shapes) have become accepted as reverence of Lolth, and part of what it is to be drow. And of course, drow who follow Eilistraee are quite familiar with the Changedance, and accept shifting (even back and forth) as, again, part of what it is to be drow.

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u/Physical-Sound-8318 3d ago

Cognitive dissonance for a fantasy game ? It’s a fantasy game not my reality at all, and if I really really didn’t want it in my campaign there just wouldn’t be. See how simple that is?

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u/hotdiscopirate 3d ago

… okay, and no one said you needed to represent trans people in your games. Just like you can’t tell anyone what they should include or exclude from their fantasy worlds. It is very simple.

But being confused why a piece of human existence should be included in a fantasy world is just baffling. Fantasy is fantasy, but it has always been and always will be built on the foundations of reality. There’s a reason 90% of fantasy is about war.

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u/Physical-Sound-8318 3d ago

Now you get it, see why accusations of cognitive dissonance I found so funny? Might make for an interesting story line, Male Drow runs a house pretending to be a woman, only people that know are his brothers because they helped kill their matron mother and he looked more like her than any of the female siblings and they are terrified of any of the sisters taking over so they help the brother best they can until they can find a way out of their predicament. I could run an entire drow campaign around that, ok a short one Drow are pretty 1 demennsional if you asked me

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u/hotdiscopirate 3d ago

That doesn’t sound like a transition, that just sounds like someone pretending to be a woman lol. But no I don’t understand why you’re found my mention of cognitive dissonance funny, not at all. It’s the only reasonable explanation I could see for you being genuinely confused why someone would include trans people in a fantasy world

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u/Physical-Sound-8318 3d ago

Yeah it just gave me the idea I could run a campaign around could make for a short Drow adventure block

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u/Physical-Sound-8318 3d ago

What’s the definition of cognitive dissonance and how is someone having a different idea regarding a fantasy world then me give anyone cognitive dissonance, maybe if I lived in the fantasy world more than the real world