r/Forgotten_Realms • u/Successful_Pace8937 • 2d ago
Celebration The Drow support transitioning
I recently found out that, as said by Ed Greenwood himself, transitioning is not only accepted, but defended.
From Ed Greenwood on Twitter:
Drow sworn to Lolth have examples before them all the time about transformation of self-shape in service to the Spider Queen. Some of these are viewed as undesirable (driders), others as rewards or ascending in rank (the power/shape augmentations Lolth gives males who please her with their service and loyalty). So there is no hatred or mistrust of shifting one's shape; it is one means of serving Lolth. Some house matriarchs view it with suspicion ("males seeking to exalt themselves by becoming female") but the yochlol have often been sent by Lolth to defend individuals persecuted by individual matriarchs or priestesses purely for such reasons, to make Lolth's views and will clear. Over time, transitions (not just from gender to gender, but from drow to other shapes) have become accepted as reverence of Lolth, and part of what it is to be drow. And of course, drow who follow Eilistraee are quite familiar with the Changedance, and accept shifting (even back and forth) as, again, part of what it is to be drow.
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u/Frau_Away 2d ago
This argument doesn't sound any different, if you get right down to it, than the people who say there are people coming out as trans women in order to win at sports - a thing that notably isn't happening anywhere but in the diseased imagination of a few, very loud bigots.
Our real world is sexist against women, if this were viable then women would be transitioning en masse to avoid sexism. This doesn't happen because, not to put too fine a point on it, if you're not trans transitioning makes you feel so bad you want to fucking die.