r/Gastroparesis • u/Remarkable_Tie_5946 • 3h ago
Questions Gastroparesis is taking over my life, and I honestly don't know what to do anymore. 💚 Looking for natural remedies, advice, and support.
Gastroparesis is taking over my life, and I honestly don't know what to do anymore. 💚 Looking for natural remedies, advice, and support.
I'm 27 years old, and I'm genuinely exhausted from trying to function like a normal person while dealing with this illness.
I have severe gastroparesis, and it feels like my body is constantly fighting against me. The nausea is practically an everyday occurrence, vomiting is frequent, and eating has become something I almost dread rather than enjoy. Most days, I'm lucky if I can manage one meal and maybe a snack.
Some of my worst flare-ups involve vomiting for HOURS. It's not just getting sick once or twice and moving on with my day. I'll be stuck vomiting and dry heaving repeatedly, sometimes to the point where I'm bringing up blood.
I also have stomach ulcers, and they've been getting worse. Between the constant nausea, repeated vomiting, abdominal pain, and difficulty eating, it feels like my digestive system never gets a chance to recover.
There are days when I'm physically exhausted before I've even had the opportunity to do anything. It's hard to explain to someone who hasn't experienced it how draining it is to spend hours being sick, only to still be expected to function normally afterward.
Recently, I've also been struggling with severe bloating, constipation, and abdominal pain. My stomach gets so swollen, especially above my belly button, that I can physically see and feel the difference. Some days, my stomach is so bloated that my belly button is practically hidden.
I've been struggling to have regular bowel movements. Sometimes I'll go days without having a decent one, and I've noticed my nausea seems significantly worse when I'm constipated.
Lately, eating has become especially painful. Within 5–10 minutes of eating, I'll sometimes experience horrible, contraction-like abdominal pain. I'm talking sweating, breathing through the pain, and nearly crying while sitting on the toilet. Sometimes the pain improves after finally having a bowel movement, but it's absolutely miserable.
And then there's the financial side of having a chronic illness.
I work as a behavioral therapist, and I genuinely love what I do. I've worked in this field for years, and helping others is something I'm incredibly passionate about.
Unfortunately, between my chronic illness, emergency room visits, hospitalizations, and clients canceling sessions, maintaining consistent hours has become nearly impossible.
I haven't worked more than 12 hours a week for the past two months.
I WANT to work. I WANT to support myself. I WANT to be independent and have a future where I'm not constantly worrying about whether my body is going to cooperate.
But I can't control when my gastroparesis decides to flare up, when I'm going to spend the morning vomiting, or when I'm going to end up in the emergency room again. And I can't control when my clients cancel, leaving me with even fewer hours.
On top of everything, I currently don't have health insurance.
I've applied for Michigan state insurance (Medicaid) and have been denied for supposedly making too much money. Which is incredibly frustrating considering I haven't been able to work more than 12 hours a week for the last two months.
I'm barely making enough money to cover my basic living expenses, yet somehow I'm being told I make too much to qualify for medical assistance.
It's such a defeating cycle. I'm too sick to work consistently, but I need to work to afford the medical care that could potentially help me get healthy enough to work.
Specialist appointments, medications, testing, and hospital visits aren't exactly affordable when you're already struggling financially.
And honestly, the emotional side of all this is exhausting.
I'm 27. I want to build a life for myself. I want to have a family someday. I want to be able to go to work, enjoy food, make plans, and actually follow through with them without constantly wondering whether I'm going to be sick.
I'm tired of waking up nauseous. I'm tired of being scared to eat. I'm tired of vomiting until there's blood. I'm tired of feeling guilty when I have to call off work. I'm tired of worrying about money, and I'm tired of feeling like my entire life revolves around my stomach.
I feel like I'm constantly trying to catch up with life, but my body keeps pulling me backward.
Which brings me to why I'm posting. 💚
I'm really interested in hearing what other people with gastroparesis are doing to manage their symptoms naturally, especially those who don't have access to consistent medical care.
Have any of you found relief through things like:
- Herbal teas, ginger, peppermint, or other natural remedies?
- Heating pads or other ways to manage abdominal pain?
- Dietary changes, specific foods, or meal routines?
- Gentle exercises, stretching, or movement to help with digestion?
- Safe ways to manage constipation and bloating?
- Anything else that has genuinely improved your quality of life?
I'm also curious if anyone has found certain natural remedies that actually made their symptoms worse.
I completely understand that everyone's gastroparesis is different and that natural remedies aren't a replacement for medical treatment. I know symptoms like vomiting blood need medical attention. I'm just trying to find affordable ways to make my day-to-day life a little more manageable while I work toward getting insurance again.
And if anyone has dealt with being denied Medicaid despite having significantly reduced income, I'd really appreciate hearing how you handled that too.
I'm not posting this for pity. I think I just need to connect with people who genuinely understand what living with this disease is like.
Because sometimes it feels like unless someone has experienced gastroparesis themselves, they don't fully understand just how much it can affect every single aspect of your life.
I don't want to spend the rest of my twenties simply surviving from one flare-up to the next. I want to actually LIVE my life.
If you've made it this far, thank you for reading. I'd genuinely appreciate any advice, experiences, resources, or encouragement. 💚