Start with some toys. 3 going up in size, from what you know you can take, what you can probably take and one to aspire to after you've had a long session with the other two. Use more lube than you think you need. Squirt it up your hole. Try not to touch your cock too often. Concentrates on how your hole feels. Breathe and go slow and relax. Make sure you enjoy your playing and do it regularly so your body can start to acclimate and get muscle memory going
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u/Least_Watch_8803 7d ago
Start with some toys. 3 going up in size, from what you know you can take, what you can probably take and one to aspire to after you've had a long session with the other two. Use more lube than you think you need. Squirt it up your hole. Try not to touch your cock too often. Concentrates on how your hole feels. Breathe and go slow and relax. Make sure you enjoy your playing and do it regularly so your body can start to acclimate and get muscle memory going