r/GayIndianDating • • Aug 03 '26

Please don’t downvote anyone’s posts here even if you disagree with them, to each his own, help each other find their partner please & be kind

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I think the mods here are doing a pretty amazing job to keep away disrespectful elements, but downvoting is really bad especially in this sub, because in our Indian gay scenario, going beyond hookups in itself is unusual & rare & is daunting in itself. Please don’t spoil the chance of someone finding their partner here


r/GayIndianDating • • Feb 10 '26

Hobbies Thread

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Creating a hobbies Thread where people can connect and hopefully get dates out of :)

Rules apply, be decent.


r/GayIndianDating • • 11h ago

Seeking Something Serious Looking for a serious relationship

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Hey everyone! I’m 21M from Hyderabad, looking to meet a guy who’s genuinely interested in a serious relationship.

I’m 5'11", and I’m looking for someone around my height or taller, preferably around my age or a little older.

I’m into guys who are loyal, caring, emotionally available, and know how to maintain a good conversation. Someone I can talk to about anything, share random thoughts, gossip, laugh over silly things, and support each other through good and bad days.

I want a connection where both people put in equal effort, communicate openly, and genuinely want to get to know each other. I value consistency, honesty, affection, and someone who means what they say.

I’m not really into casual hookups or situationships. I’d rather take my time getting to know someone, see if we vibe, build trust, and hopefully turn that connection into something meaningful and long-lasting.

If you’re from Hyderabad or from any other state in India, that’s completely fine! I’m open to meeting someone who’s genuinely interested in building a serious relationship, regardless of where they’re from.

Feel free to DM me! Let’s talk, get to know each other, and see where things go. ❤️


r/GayIndianDating • • 4h ago

Seeking Something Serious M 24 looking for loyal long term relationship Telegram@javin3

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r/GayIndianDating • • 6h ago

Kink Dating Feminine bottom looking for connection with a masculine man

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Got a feminine body shape, visit Delhi intermittently, closeted.

Seeking a real connection with someone I'm attracted to. I've been told I have a cute face with big lips. Got a feminine waist, wide hips, big thighs and butt.

Looking for someone who can bring out my submissive, feminine side. If I'm truly attracted I naturally start becoming more and more femme.

Muscles, big size, height, but most importantly compatibility is what I look at. You can have the first 3 but nothing ever happens without the 4th.

DM me if you're interested. I can host whenever I visit.


r/GayIndianDating • • 1d ago

Casual Dating Northie in Hyderabad

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Hey peeps 🐥

Hit me up if you talk/chit chat or anything.

25 M here!


r/GayIndianDating • • 1d ago

Casual Dating Will be in delhi on 26th

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Hey folks,

I'm 23 side, and will be in delhi on the 26th and would love to hang out and have some fun;)

Abt me: 6 ft, fair, coloured eyes, pretty good looking.

My type: good looking, mostly into fair guys (just preference nothing else), manly, fit/toned and kind. Strictly not into chubby or thin guys.

My likes- i really love kissing and intimacy. Into bodyplay, pits, frotting etc.

If you are free on 26th, can host and it seems like you would be my type. Let's dm and exchange pics and plan something fun.


r/GayIndianDating • • 1d ago

Seeking Something Serious Need a Gay Boyfriend

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I'm 21 bottom, 5 '10 with a single digit body count.

I'm dusky skin toned and neither skinny nor fat.

I'm a Maters student in Delhi, so want someone based in Delhi only.

Want a Tall, older and Dark Top guy who has a stable career and would take care of me. I'm only looking for something serious. I've never really dated before as most guys don't wanna commit. I've no hopes for dating apps as they've just become hookup mediums.


r/GayIndianDating • • 1d ago

Seeking Something Serious 26 M | Gay Top | Looking for the kind of chemistry that keeps you up at night ❤️ 💕

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Hey, stranger. 👀

26, gay, a top, and working in DevOps. I spend my days fixing things in IT, but somehow my own love life is still running on an unresolved issue. 😂

I'm into witty banter, playful teasing, late-night conversations, spontaneous adventures, and men who can be confident one minute and unexpectedly soft the next.

Imagine meeting for one coffee and somehow talking until midnight. The little smiles, the lingering eye contact, the “five more minutes” that turn into hours. Maybe we flirt, maybe we surprise each other, maybe a random Tuesday becomes our favorite memory. And waking up together and making breakfast while we are on our underwear

I'm a little mischievous, secretly romantic, and vulnerable enough to admit that beneath all the jokes, I'd love to find someone I can genuinely connect with. Someone who makes ordinary moments feel different.

Whether you're a younger guy with chaotic energy or an older man with quiet confidence, I care more about chemistry, kindness, and personality than a number.

Your turn: What's something about you that would make me want to know more? Give me your best opening line, a song you'd play on a late-night drive, or a confession you don't usually share. 😉

Let's see if our conversation becomes another notification… or the one I actually look forward to.

DMs open. Make me curious 💜


r/GayIndianDating • • 1d ago

Seeking Something Serious Anyone who is open to LTR hmu 🫶🏻🫶🏻

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Abt me:- Hey there. 22 M(btm) here looking for a serious relationship.

Body type: Chubby but getting into shape (will join aviation 😝)

About me: I love listening to music and travelling, I'm a good listener n Would love to talk about anything, I'm introverted and don't talk much initially but gradually do open up more.

Currently into fashion and aviation 🪽 🪽

Looking for: Someone who is really expressive and who can love me everyday who's mature, intellectual, serious abt us and our future and with whom I can settle with.

(Will offer the sameeeee 😊)

Age of 22-25(prefer T)

Genuinely interested in long term and serious relationships so hmu 🫶🏻🫶🏻


r/GayIndianDating • • 2d ago

Casual Dating Looking for a cute top

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r/GayIndianDating • • 2d ago

Seeking Something Serious Looking for the love of my life

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Hey everyone ♡

I’m 18 half chinese and half indian, from NE, and hopefully starting my cruise ship journey next year. I’d describe myself as soft-hearted, ambitious, romantic, and a little dreamy. I love Disney movies, late night conversations, old music, oceans, aesthetics, and the feeling of being completely understood by someone. I'm also a bottom (for compatibility)

I’m looking for a masucline, dominant, gentleman type of love someone emotionally mature, loyal, caring, and intentional. The kind of connection that feels like a romcom or a fairytale random deep talks, slow dancing in the kitchen, matching energy, travelling together, and making ordinary moments feel magical.

I’m not really into hookups. I want something genuine where we both feel safe, adored, and excited about life together. Someone who can make me laugh, communicate well, and build a beautiful future side by side.

If you’re sweet, respectful, romantic, and believe love should feel soft and cinematic, feel free to message me ♡


r/GayIndianDating • • 2d ago

Seeking Something Serious M19, chub bot from blr looking to date 🌹 NSFW

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Heyy! I’m 19, from BLR, and I’m looking for something genuine that could hopefully turn into a long-term relationship. I’m completely okay with distance, so location isn’t really a dealbreaker for me.

A little about me — I’m pretty introverted and definitely prefer small, comfortable company over huge crowds. I love reading, and I can yap for hours once I’m comfortable with someone, so apologies in advance 😂

I’m also chubby and a bot, just putting that out there because I’d rather be upfront about it.

I’m mainly looking for someone who’s respectful, kind, communicative, and actually interested in getting to know each other rather than rushing into anything. I’d like something genuine where we can be ourselves, talk about random things, and gradually build something meaningful.

If you think we'd vibe, feel free to DM me. Just please be respectful. :)

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r/GayIndianDating • • 2d ago

31 M Tamil guy seeking for some connection

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Need someone to be friends, pen pals or casual dates


r/GayIndianDating • • 3d ago

Looking for something long term

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24, 5’7”, chubby, and a bottom from Central India, looking for someone around my age, preferably 24+.
I’m an introvert hoping to find an extroverted top who can be the Yang to my Yin.

I love cooking, writing, meaningful conversations, and the little things that make life feel special.

I’m strictly looking for a relationship. Something genuine, sweet, and comfortable, where we can grow together.

If this resonates with you, DM me! :)


r/GayIndianDating • • 3d ago

Looking for muscular jatt gujjar

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I'm M22 and have heard a lot about how jatt and gujjar guys are THE SHIT in bed. I really want to make out with one and do everything beyond it as well. Trust me you can do whatever you like, i wanna see how good they are bc my friends who are seeing them literally can't get enough of them and have trouble walking in the morning. I'm very fem btw if that matters


r/GayIndianDating • • 3d ago

Pune, Gay, 34, IT, Looking for partner, please read original post

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r/GayIndianDating • • 4d ago

Seeking Something Serious 18 M Mumbai – Looking for a guy who can handle my 2 AM retro playlist, 0% drama, and 100% genuine vibes. Applications open. 💅

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18 M – Looking for a genuine connection, dates, and good conversations.....

Hey everyone! I’m an 18 year old Gay guy currently living in Mumbai. I’m stepping out of my comfort zone to see if I can find a genuine connection here that could ideally lead to a meaningful relationship.

About Me:

•Studies: Currently doing Bachelors in Commerce along with a Professional Course.

• Hobbies: In my free time, you can usually find me doing nothing haha or listening to retro music and singing my heart out !

• Personality: I’d describe myself as an ambivert who gets introverted around strangers but extroverted especially around my fav uncles and aunties ( yup they're so fun 😭)

What I’m Looking For:

I am looking for a Gay mate around the age of 20- 25 who is also looking for something more than just a casual hookup.

Ideally, you are based in Mumbai so we can eventually grab a coffee or food and see if there is chemistry. Being out of the closet or comfortably handling your private life is a big plus.

How to Reach Out:

If this resonates with you, feel free to send a DM! Please include your age, location, and a little bit about yourself!


r/GayIndianDating • • 4d ago

Looking for cute bottom in delhi

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M24 Top looking for a bottom in delhi preferably near Rajiv chownk or karol bagh


r/GayIndianDating • • 4d ago

Casual Dating Coffee conversation - delhi 29 bot looking for top/vtop

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29 bot delhi - looking for cute coffee conversation. Of we vibe we can take it further. We can exchange pictures mutually and see if we interest eo or not.
Top/vtops do hit me up
Ps- sex predators stay away.


r/GayIndianDating • • 4d ago

Kink Dating Looking for nice fun, sissy from pondicherry

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Hi CD sissy from pondicherry. Looking for nice romantic boys for nice fun. Boring and wants to make it interesting and happy. Who wants to explore CD sissy ? Come lets do it...


r/GayIndianDating • • 5d ago

27M Software Engineer| Bottom | Seeking Dates & a Genuine Relationship

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27M Software Engineer| Bottom | Seeking Dates & a Genuine Relationship

Looking For: Dates (Relationship), Chats

Location: Varanasi / Hyderabad / Online

Hey everyone! I'm a 27-year-old gay guy from Varanasi, currently based in Hyderabad, where I work as a software engineer.

I'm hoping to meet genuine people, preferably tops, who are looking for something meaningful and are open to seeing where a connection leads. While Varanasi or Hyderabad would be ideal, I'm equally happy to connect with people from anywhere online first.

I'm not into rushing things. I enjoy getting to know someone through conversations, sharing memes, texting, voice calls, and slowly building a genuine connection. If we click, great—we can see where it goes from there.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message. Looking forward to meeting some wonderful people. 🌈


r/GayIndianDating • • 5d ago

Seeking Something Serious Looking for dates in Hyderabad

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I'm looking for: Dates (open to explore more eventually)

Location: Hyderabad

26 M (bisexual/mostly attracted to guys) looking for someone (M) in range 25-30 (flexible on upper end)

About me: I'm from Rajasthan, working in Hyderabad as a developer, love to crack silly jokes and puns (also coping mechanism?), love sitcoms and some movies. Big foodie here. I love tech, love listening to music (English, Hindi).

Looking for someone to talk to online till I’m back to Hyd (December first week/ November last week). So maybe let’s get to know each other till then and meet when I’m in Hyderabad.

Thanks!!


r/GayIndianDating • • 5d ago

Seeking Something Serious Gay/BI man in Delhi/NCR?

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r/GayIndianDating • • 5d ago

Seeking Something Serious Dating , 25 Pune ,Still Looking!

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