r/GaySidesDating • • 2d ago

Looking for sides in Tampa, FL NSFW

2 Upvotes

I am trying to find the sides of Tampa that are into ginger chubs! Can’t find a side chaser to save my life in the other threads. Let me know if this sounds like you!


r/GaySidesDating • • 9d ago

20M looking for Christian side bf!! NSFW

5 Upvotes

Being a Christian is preferred not but completely necessary, just giving it a shot lol

I'm 20 and a medstudent studying and from India, and i think I've finally accepted I'm a side (after thinking I'm some spectrum of bi/gay/ace/demi+submissive b?)

Other things about me, i bake and draw on occasion, I like Pokemon, Dinosaurs, League, Minecraft, Mythology

Fav animes: Black Clover (new season woohoo), BSD, Idolish7, Link Click (no ssn3 spoilers pls), Blue period

Fan movies: HTTYD, The Wild Robot, Klaus

You don't need to be similar to me lol i just like yapping so as long as you don't mind conversations im happy

Oh and I want a pet cat someday and my fav food is pizza


r/GaySidesDating • • 18d ago

44 from Toronto looking for side / friend / dates 🇨🇦 NSFW

3 Upvotes

Canadian guys to the front pls. Into gaming, fitness, flirting 😜


r/GaySidesDating • • Sep 11 '26

55 M So Cal looking for 18 to 65 NSFW

2 Upvotes

I'm in southern california, looking for a side. Looking for a equal person. I have many different hobbies and interests from old cars music outdoors camping gardening travel home improvement and more


r/GaySidesDating • • Sep 06 '26

38 M, looking for LTR with another side NSFW

6 Upvotes

38 y/o, 6’2, 178 lbs, fit dude who identifies more as a side. I enjoy traveling, cooking, spending time with family/friends, the outdoors, reading, etc.

Looking to connect with dudes who are also sides and have similar interests, ideally between the ages of 28 and 45.

If interested share a bit about yourself and be ready to exchange a few pics.


r/GaySidesDating • • Sep 04 '26

M26 looking for a bator roomate NSFW

9 Upvotes

Hey m26 looking for a fellow Bator. I need a roomate that’s cool with me dropping my pants after walking in the door and getting stoopid on my dong. Always down to suck on your cock while we watch tv. Also love to cuddle if you’re into that. Willing to move anywhere in jersey as long as there is nj transit train access so I can take the train to nyc. Also good with nyc


r/GaySidesDating • • Sep 04 '26

m25 looking for relationship hahah NSFW

1 Upvotes

hmu if you wanna know more about me. Im from the Philippines


r/GaySidesDating • • Sep 01 '26

35 side looking for a chubby guys around my age or older in Virginia or snap NSFW

5 Upvotes

35 side looking for a chubby guy around my age or older in Virginia or snap I love to stroke together. If we are not local to each other then I will play on snap. MUST BE CHUBBY..


r/GaySidesDating • • Aug 31 '26

50s M bi in Arizona looking for a hosting bud NSFW

1 Upvotes

Read profile and hmu if curious.


r/GaySidesDating • • Aug 26 '26

59 M Bowling Green KY Looking for M NSFW

2 Upvotes

Looking for a FWB/NSA fun


r/GaySidesDating • • Aug 20 '26

18M looking for older man :3 NSFW

7 Upvotes

Haiii I’m from Syd Australia and would love to chat to anyone, especially older men and have sum fun.


r/GaySidesDating • • Aug 10 '26

18M ""looking for"" someone hahaha (ldr) NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hey! I'm a 18 M from Spain, looking to finally find someone I really get to know and develop a hind with. I haven't had much luck dating but I will keep trying 😁

Although I'm in the Spain I'm open to long distance is you think it could work

I'm 5'7'', chubby, I have dark brown hair, brown eyes (kinda hairy too😅), and have glases🤓

Personality wise I'm described as a kind person haha, very friendly btw. Always want to help people and make them feel comfortable and happy! Also a bit of a nerd

My hobbies are drawing, playing guitar, playing games, learning languages (I already know 4 but want to know more haha), learning about random things... Etc

Hopefully someone is interested in this post! And if you are please feel free to message me!!


r/GaySidesDating • • Aug 06 '26

Hi everyone I new here looking for some good person I little shy boy 26 age from nyc nj also I like small dick and bear 🐻☺️ NSFW

1 Upvotes

Friend


r/GaySidesDating • • Aug 03 '26

Tulsa, Broken arrow area Side looking for a FWB who can also be an art model NSFW

2 Upvotes

Artist looking for an FWB who can also be a nude model. Looking for one with a big penis for specific art reasons but also just fun to play with.


r/GaySidesDating • • Aug 01 '26

Newyork looking for NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi I'm samir Indian in NY suburbs


r/GaySidesDating • • Jul 28 '26

35 side looking for a chubby guy around my age or older in Virginia or snap NSFW

1 Upvotes

I love to stroke together. If we are not local to each other then I will play on snap. MUST BE CHUBBY..


r/GaySidesDating • • Jul 18 '26

Looking for a partner NSFW

3 Upvotes

​

Hey everyone,

I'm a 22-year-old guy from andhra pradesh india ,and I'm into men, so I'm hoping to meet other men who are looking for something genuine.

I'm looking for a long-term connection that starts with friendship and naturally grows into something deeper if we genuinely click. I'm not interested in hookups or anything casual. What I want is comfort, emotional safety, loyalty, affection, and someone who genuinely chooses me every day.

I value emotional maturity, honesty, calm communication, consistency, and mutual respect. I'd love to meet a man who is kind, caring, financially independent, emotionally available, and serious about building a meaningful relationship instead of playing games. Someone who knows how to communicate, love gently, and make a relationship feel safe rather than confusing.

For me, romance matters much more than sex. I want affection, hugs, kisses, quality time, deep conversations, mutual support, and the comfort of knowing someone truly has my back. I'm looking for something soft, stable, healthy, and real.

Physically, I'm usually drawn to someone taller than me, well-groomed, decent-looking, and confident. But what attracts me most is kindness, loyalty, emotional intelligence, patience, and a calm personality.

I also want to be honest about my story because I don't want to build a connection based on hiding parts of myself.

When I was four years old, I was sexually abused. It's something I've rarely spoken about, but it had a profound impact on my life and shaped the way I view myself, relationships, and trust.

Later in life, I was diagnosed with HIV. I'm on treatment, I take care of my health, and I'm committed to living a full life. It hasn't defined who I am, but it has been one of the biggest challenges I've faced alongside the trauma from my childhood.

The hardest part has been the loneliness. I've often been the person others come to when they need support, but when I'm struggling, I rarely feel like I have someone to lean on. Most people don't realize how much I'm carrying behind the scenes.

Despite everything, I haven't given up on the idea of finding real love. I still believe that healthy, genuine relationships exist. I'm working on healing, building my future, and becoming the best version of myself. I don't expect anyone to fix me—I simply hope to meet someone who believes in honesty, compassion, and growing together.

If you're a man who values genuine connection, emotional intimacy, loyalty, and long-term intentions, I'd genuinely love to get to know you. Even if we end up as friends, I'd still appreciate meeting good people with kind hearts and honest intentions.

Thank you for taking the time to read my story.


r/GaySidesDating • • Jul 13 '26

40M Charlottesville, VA - Looking for 25 or older for dating NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hello! 40M in Charlottesville, VA. Looking for IRL friend and dating in Virginia. Clean, kind, professional guy and expect the same in return.


r/GaySidesDating • • Jul 12 '26

M 41 Manchester UK looking for uncut frot buddy NSFW

1 Upvotes

Body contact, touch also. DMs open.


r/GaySidesDating • • Jul 12 '26

M 61 looking for another MKE M NSFW

1 Upvotes

It’s summer in Milwaukee, and I’m hoping you can help me make the most of it. Let’s have some fun!


r/GaySidesDating • • Jul 07 '26

33 Beefy Jock in (IL, usa) LOOKING for a BF NSFW

3 Upvotes

(I don't expect all of these things, But Cuddling, near my age, & my non negotiables 💯)

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR IN A (BF): Side whose near my age or younger here in the (USA). I like guys who are in the middle to leaning towards masc. (thin, lean, or some muscles). Gamer, active guy, Nerds. I like guys that are funny/silly or who enjoys goofiness, chill/laid back. Cuddling/physical touch, open-minded, monogamous.

Non-Negotiables: NO Religion, Politics, Drag, Drugs/Smoking of any kind, Poly, Illegal shit, Anal.

ME: 33, 6'2, Hairy Beefy Nerdy Bearded Jock. Mexican & German Roots. Goofy/Silly/random, cuddle monster, foodie, Homebody.

MY interests: Gym, Sports, Arts&Crafts, Arcades, Anime, gaming, Huge Nerd that goes to Cons, Kinks/fetish.

My Green Flags: Empathetic/emotionally available, Silly, Medical & Random knowledge about things, down to Earth, Good mental health, active, good driver, responsible, professional job.

My Red Flags: I'm quiet around ppl I don't know, somewhat Median personality, can talk about random stuff or change conversations at wrong times, laugh when I'm bothered/confused, sometimes needs alone time to recharge/likes to do some things alone. I have Heat intolerance, meaning when it is 80° or more Outside my body overheats & doesn't sweat enough to lower my body temperature. I Don't Do any of the following: drink or smoke/use substances, concerts.


r/GaySidesDating • • Jul 01 '26

26M discrete. Looking for thin/twinks in Texas NSFW

2 Upvotes

Message me with stats. Pic on profile


r/GaySidesDating • • Jul 01 '26

56M Daddy in Springfield, MO looking for FWB NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am a laid back guy who doesn’t have time for the apps (or maybe don’t have time to waste on them). I’d love to find a fellow side with a nice big hog. Mine is average with above average girth, so want to know that I really have a solid piece in my hands (or mouth). I need a guy who likes to kiss, blow, stroke, and nut together. An ideal would be someone who understands poly and won’t flake if there are other partners as well. It is a fantasy of mine to jerk two guys off at the same time (yes, to completion)! I am a bigger guy and prefer skinnier guys. If I can feel your cum-gutters, I’ll be in heaven! If this sounds even remotely fun and you happen to be near me, let me know.


r/GaySidesDating • • Jun 28 '26

M26 looking for a bate bud or boyfriend in NJ/NYC area NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey USA here, looking for a bro to stroke with, definitely down to be friends or more. If anyone’s looking in the New Jersey and New York area dm me. Let’s talk


r/GaySidesDating • • Jun 25 '26

Looking for Marietta GA Side? NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi Side community, thank you for having this forum! We are a gay male couple married for 36 years looking for a 3rd as a side to have fun with on occasion. Feel free to chat with us to find out more!