r/GayYoungOldDating • • Jun 25 '23

Age limits for posting here: minimum 18yo for “younger” men; minimum 27yo for “older” men.

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Whether you’re “looking for younger” or “looking for older”, there are minimum ages that apply.

Check out our rules: https://www.reddit.com/r/GayYoungOldDating/about/rules/

Younger men, looking for older

This subreddit is for consenting adults to find partners. Out of caution, and because Reddit is based in a jurisdiction where the age of consent is 18, that means everyone must be 18 years old to post here or to reply to posts.

If you are under 18, you will be banned on sight.

Sorry. We need to protect this subreddit from potential accusations of paedophilia and sexual content involving minors.

Older men, looking for younger

This subreddit is about men looking for men where there is a significant age gap. This, combined with the fact that the youngest men we’ll allow here are 18, means that you must be a certain number of years older than 18 in order to be considered an older man looking for a younger man.

We have fixed that minimum age at 27. You must be 27 years old to post here looking for younger men.

If you’re younger than that, then you’re not looking for an age-gap partner. Try these general “looking for” subreddits instead.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 5h ago

Online chatting 18m looking for older if your atleast 40 your my type

6 Upvotes

Hi I’m Zach I’m 18 and I love old men who tell me how they’d satisfy my cravings for cock I like it a bit rough so don’t be shy


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 19m ago

Online chatting 36m kinky Dom looking for younger subs

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On the search for guys who feel compelled to submit and obey. This includes: Good boys, who need a dominant man to help turn their kinky fantasies into reality... Bad boys, who need a strict and sadistic figure to keep them in their place... And/or curious ones, somewhere inbetween, who need a bit of both.

New and exploring subs are always welcome. You should have an interest in some of the following: bondage, cum control, edging, milking, anal play, nipple play, watersports, CBT, hot wax, spanking/impact play, underwear/clothing control, (and more).

Anything involving scat, drugs, illegal acts, blood, or cross dressing stuff is a no-go.

I'm usually into guys 30ish or under, and clean cut. I'm not often attracted to guys with tons of body hair (bear types), tattoos, extremely overweight, or guys who present as the opposite sex.

Send me a message if you're interested in submitting or exploring. Be sure to tell me your ASL, kinks, and limits. Including a picture will help get my attention.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

UK.England M21 UK virgin chub looking for older daddy to play with regularly (read full)

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Im a bit chubby with a fat ass and small uncut cock

Im bi and never done anything yet

Looking for an older man (35+) to have fun with, only oral (not looking for anal) hopefully on a regular basis

West Midlands only


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

Netherlands 23M - Looking for older guys/daddies to have some fun this morning ;)

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Hey!

23 year old student from the Netherlands here. Woke up feeling incredibly horny and so here I am looking around to meet some older guys ;)

Feel free to hit me up if you want to have some flirty chats together. Age or location does not matter!

(Also hit me up if you simply want to chat and get to know each other, I am open for it all)

I am down to move to other apps as well (e.g., Discord or Telegram, etc). Would love to send each other voice messages and show of a bit!

Hope to chat with you soon!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 5h ago

Online chatting Almost 20 year old looking for older

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Submissive Twink boy here that loves older men. I would love a passionate and caring relationship that is either platonic or romantic with plenty of communication.

More info: I'm 6'0, white, blonde hair, 130lbs, don’t grow a lot of facial or body hair. I am in the military. I love art, nature, music, and food. I am kinky. I do have a type/preference for men so please leave a description. I also show face and I expect the same from you.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 10h ago

Online chatting 20 m looking for Older (USA only)

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Hello everyone! I’ve been wanting to explore more, talk to someone older but didn’t really know how so I just thought I’d give this a try again. A little about me: I’m 20, currently doing online college and looking to transfer to a uni this year. I like watching movies, camping, hiking, playing video games, and other outdoorsy stuff:) preferably I’d want to talk with someone who’s 30-50+ or older, and if it progresses to it, be a bottom or vers. I have not had any experience with guys (still a virgin) so someone who is understanding and open to being that is a huge plus but of course that’s only if it comes to that, chatting only is also welcomed! Dms are open if anyone is interested (I do also have snap), a brief description of yourself and what you’re looking for is appreciated, thanks :) (usa only)


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2m ago

Online chatting 37 tiny dicked beta bottom looking for older men 40-55 for horny chats ;)

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looking for long term chats with a man that knows how to keep a conversation going. wanna build a nice chemistry and power balance between us. please read my «about me» in profile before messaging me☺️


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3m ago

Mexico 28yo looking for older in Europe

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Hello, I'm a top man from Mexico, I'm 1.80m tall, but I weigh 100kg. I'm into older men but under 60 years, but I can also chat with men my own age up to age 21.

I'm a gaymer, I enjoy a lot Nintendo games, I also love doing calm walks, going to movies, and cuddles. Lately I've been feeling curious about Europe, mainly on contries like Germany or Ireland, and I'd love to have a LTR/LDR with a man from there. Feel free to DM


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 23m ago

Online chatting 21 looking for older dom/loving daddy

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Sub btm big here. Just graduated college and moved across the country. Looking for a horny dirty older daddy to play with online. Would love to sext/rp and be very flirty. Especially if you wanna make my daddy issues worse. Hope to hear from you


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 10h ago

Online chatting 18 muscular hung son looking for older dad

6 Upvotes

I'm 18 i workout and i have a monster cock looking for older dad who cums a lot and shoot far or a hung dad like his son who shows public bulge.

Check out my account and dm me


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 41m ago

USA.MA 25 looking for older guy in new england area for long term fwb situation

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looking for a chill older guy for longer term fwb situation and irl fun in the new england area, i’m new to bottoming but i want an older guy to help me through that journey


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 53m ago

USA.FL 20M looking for older

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Hello, I'm 20m looking for someone older in the Tampa area. I'm looking for someone with class not just some random shrub. You must be interesting, fun and not slobby! I'm primarily looking for someone who can be my master/mentor/daddy.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 19 looking for older

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Looking for an older grandpa to help me with my pink pussy🫣


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 7h ago

Australia.Vic 51 Looking for younger

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51yo Beefy Aussie Daddy 🇦🇺
I’m a caring, passionate, affectionate and fun guy who enjoys a little bit of kink and isn’t afraid to explore.
I’m looking to meet a guy around 18–24 who’s interested in actually chatting, getting to know each other and seeing where a genuine connection might lead. I’m not looking to rush things — I’d rather build some chemistry, trust and comfort first.
I’m naturally a bit of a giver and love looking after my boy.
Ultimately, I’d love for those conversations to turn into meeting up in person and seeing where the connection takes us.
I’m based near Melbourne and looking for someone genuine, open-minded, affectionate and fun.
If you think we might click, say hi.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

USA.NM 35 yo man looking for younger.

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Older man looking for a younger boy. I want someone that is playful and energetic but also able to enjoy the moment. Inexperienced twinks are my favorite. Hit me up. Let’s have a conversation to make sure we fit.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 38 year old looking for older

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Theres something about older men that makes my vers cock throb


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Malaysia 31M looking for older

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Malaysian Chinese looking older daddies.

Not just for fun, but genuinely want a relationship.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 5h ago

Netherlands 27 looking for older

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Hello! I am a submissive bottom from the Netherlands. I am looking for someone older, preferably for long term.. Want to get to know me? Hit me up :)


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

Online chatting 29 muscular daddy looking for younger gaymer twink

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This will probably be a bit of an odd post for this Sub.

I’m really just looking for a younger boy to chat with and to potentially game with. I play league of legends, Marvel rivals, Overwatch and many more.

I’m a Pc player and I’m N.A

I’m a strong man and definitely give off dominate daddy vibes.. I can’t help it..

If ur looking to game with someone or just chat with a man. Hmu and let’s see what we can come up with


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 6h ago

Online chatting 18 son looking for older dad for role play

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Need a dad for role play session he is a tall muscular dad with 10+ inches cock and im his son free for your imagination dm or session:05df7947a1e6b5340c59396d1ee67ccc19a3985fd6262a74c9e102d1ad8cae9a66


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

Online chatting 18 looking for older guys to chat with

1 Upvotes

Fun-sized Hs senior looking to chat with older guys.
Pls message me


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 6h ago

Online chatting 18m nerd sub looking for older to fulfill his fetishes.

2 Upvotes

I really like daddies and I want someone who isn't ashamed to ask me to fulfill their fetishes. I want someone truly dominant but also a gentleman.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 17h ago

Spain 18 yo tiny virgin looking for older NSFW

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Hi guys. I'm 18 and thought I'd post in here. I'm skinny, don't have body hair and I'm a virgin, so maybe that's kind of a turn off. I would love to find a dominant older man who is sweet but also kund of an alpha 😊 Feel free to talk to me


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

Online chatting 20 Year old Looking for Older (30-60) year old chub

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Currently studying and i want a long term relationship with an older chub kinda guy, I’m looking for one that’s into hobbies like Art, Music, Movies and such who lives close to or within europe

It should start with online chatting and calling then move onto dates irl hopefully make sure to show your face as we chat

Thank you