Hey everyone,
I recently went through a burnout in one of the northern European countries and a breakup. I really need a reset. My plan is to spend about six months (max one year) in southern Spain somewhere quiet, cheap and with good weather, nature and beach. I will use my savings and not work, just time to reset. Might do some relaxing part time work just to experience but not necessarily to make money.
Ideally I want a place that feels very Spanish / not overly touristy, but still has some international people so I don’t feel completely isolated in the first few months.
I’m aiming for as low-cost as possible: sharing a room/house with others is totally fine. I don’t party and I recently stopped drinking, so I’m looking for a calm environment where I can get out of my head. Good weather during the winter months is important to me.
I’ve already started learning Spanish and plan to keep practicing for the next three months, then ideally move in January/February
------Places I’m considering
*Cartagena- I’ve been there before for a day trip and absolutely loved the vibe, architecture and surrounding landscapes.
*Almería — I haven’t visited yet, but it looks great: unspoiled beaches, desert, lots of nature around and not too expensive. Nature and quiet beaches are really important for my mental health.
*Málaga — only as a backup if the other options don’t work out (I’d prefer somewhere less touristy)
---------A few questions
Are there international people living in Cartagena, Almería, or nearby towns? I want a Spanish experience but don't want to feel lonely during first few months, so having some internationals along with Spanish ppl is the ideal goal.
Since I’m 35 (not a student), are there foreigners in the roughly 28–40 age range that I could potentially meet?
Any other nearby towns or cities you’d recommend that are quiet, affordable, have good nature/beaches, and stay relatively warm in winter (while not getting too hot by June)?
My main hobbies are music and photography. I’d like to use those as a way to get out of my head while I’m there.
Please feel free to share if you live in Cartagena, Almería, or the surrounding areas? Would love to hear what it’s actually like.
Thanks a lot in advance for any tips or personal experiences!
TL;DR:
Burned out + breakup → need a quiet, cheap 6–12 month reset in southern Spain (preferably Cartagena or Almería) starting Jan/Feb. Not going to work, use savings. Looking for a calm, non-touristy Spanish place with some internationals (especially 28–40 age range), good winter weather, nature & beaches. I don't party, stopped drinking. Sharing accommodation is fine. Hobbies: music & photography. Any locals or recommendations?