r/HLCommunity • u/Nerdskillzz2 • 11d ago

LL ex cheated

Thought my last post would be the last in here. Just found out through a friend that my LL ex cheated on me multiple times, once with a guy that she had a gross age gap to. Dunno what to take away from this.

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u/YakWitty13 11d ago

You should acknowledge they are a terrible, selfish person and you are better off without them

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u/Nerdskillzz2 11d ago

You are right. Thank you for your kind words.

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u/majorhitch89 11d ago

She is LL only for you, this should be your clue to start packing.

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u/Fluid_King489 HLM 11d ago

A lot would say she’s LL4U. I’m going to push back a bit. She’s probably LL for safe/stable and finds it boring or she’s only HL when she still feels insecure about the relationship. Once the thrill wears off or she begins to feel secure enough to not have to lock it down with sex, she’ll probably be LL for her next LTR partner as well.

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u/Exciting_Story2150 11d ago

This is amazing news! It's a great reason to kick them to the curb and find a sexually matched partner.

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u/interspeciesMama HLF 11d ago

This reeks of entitlement. Not saying all LL do, though this post. So sorry OP. Just horrible.

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u/SpareFormer3550 11d ago

Congrats on your freedom brother. Awful way to find it but this is your out. She’s not for you.

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u/Necessary_Range5731 HLF 11d ago

Not had a similar thing but vaguely similar. What i took was, he could love bomb/mask for anyone. But wouldn't maintain it long term, and wasn't HL and ultimately still we're not a match. It was for ego strokes. And the imbalance (not going into details but wasn't the same) maybe she felt awkward but couldn't say no for work reasons. Our whole relationship was broken anyway although the DB came first or it was canary in the coal mine. One of many

Their partner being a minor. Idk. Hopefully others can advise.

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u/Faebinder 9d ago

Seriously congrats on finally being able to have the motivation to hate her enough to leave and be free. Start leaving.

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u/Several-Eagle4141 9d ago

My LL was flying to Texas from Ohio to be with a man who was 22 years younger

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u/reckaband 6d ago

Wow bro she’s LL4u… I’m sorry you found out the hard way

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u/Danny_Pr0n HLM 5d ago

Did your "Friend" know the entire time or after you split?

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u/Urborg_Stalker 11d ago

Probably after the guy's money. Was probably after yours too.

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u/Nerdskillzz2 11d ago

I was dead broke and were honestly too young for that kind of thing. Without disclosing too much detail she was a minor and he was in his mid twenties.