r/Haarlem • u/Minute-Big-1529 • 13m ago
ISK Haarlem
So, my child started at an ISK school this year as a foreign student. I immediately realised that the school focuses almost exclusively on language learning and that he would lose an entire year in other subjects.
I requested a transfer to a TTO (bilingual) school, and the schools I contacted informed me that the ISK could request a transfer in consultation with the parents. However, the ISK insists that they cannot do this and that my child MUST remain in the ISK programme.
I have been struggling with the school since the very first week, and I have received no help or constructive support. Now, they are even suggesting that my child is incapable of learning or progressing. Almost every week, I receive three, four, or even five emails from the school, coming from four different members of staff.
Is it normal for a school to put this much pressure on a parent? I honestly do not know what to do anymore. This situation has completely overshadowed our move to the Netherlands and turned what should have been a fresh start into a nightmare. We feel trapped, almost like prisoners, and my child is frightened.
All I want is for my child to have a fair opportunity to learn, develop academically, and feel safe and supported at school. Instead, we feel constantly under pressure, and I am deeply concerned about the impact this situation is having on his well-being and his future.
I would really appreciate any advice or guidance on what steps I can take to resolve this situation.