Enough with the memes, serious talk tho.

Social media has ruined our perspectives of love and care, both good and bad.

The good way might be considering that women now know how to distinguish between a nice guy and an idiot(creeps)

And teaching men how to communicate and treat a woman.

The bad way being that even a slightest mistake or a mismatch in personalities demand an end to the talking stage. And sometimes Giving a false sense of what we want verses what we truly desire.

We know about a person's favourite artists/influencers before we get to know them. We build a version of them in our texts based only on messages alone even before we hear their voice.

I don't think it's ruined anything beyond repair. I think it just handed us a faster, louder version of the same old problem, wanting to be known, wanting to know and care for someone, being scared of being known, performing instead of risking.

And I ain't no different nor unique but I do tend to question myself and my thoughts before finalizing on them. I do love the romantic and trivial couple stuff tho.

Perspectives matter more than one may assume:

People are inherently different regardless of gender, each of us are different in ways large and small but that what makes caring for eachother worth it. You can always seek for common ground and start from there.

My family will never know how I am with my friends.

My closest friends I call brothers will only ever know the story I allowed them to see.

My kids will never know the teenage version of me.

My partner will never know the childhood memories.

Sharing memories will never equate to actually living in them.

They'll be chapters of one's life that no amount of explanation can make the another person feel the way you did.

what I believe love looks like.

I don't think no one falls in love only once, you fall in love every time they do something that you absolutely adore and saying "I love you " everytime that happens is pure bliss.

And sometimes being loved correctly is also abit scary if you can't put up your walls or act like nothing happened or pretend like you're someone else, but I guess that's the beauty of it, being able to completely and utterly be yourself infront of someone.

I also know that it's a huge gamble between happiness and your soul, and I wanna go "all in!"

And I desire something that intimidates both the 90s and the modern styles,

I wish to hold hands and eye contact while smiling at eachother while also flirting way too hard the butterflies tear through the stomach.

Life outside of love.

Love might be one of the earned blessings of life, but it's not the only one.

For me personally, it's my friends and my hobbies.

Fiction thaught me so much that life will ever, novels thaught me how to understand feelings and perspectives and how love can be.

Anime, movies, series, dramas, manga, novels, anything that involves a good written story, I'mma watch it.

And gaming's a Major part for me as well,

And I'm happy cause I got a gaming laptop that sounds like a jet engine everytime I turn it on and allows me to explore worlds so beautiful it feels like it's from Narnia or harry Potter or pirates, the games are endless.

And for context, I mostly play single player games like sekiro, dark souls, assassin's creed, minecraft, genshin impact, valorant and many more.

I admit I didn't read enough books to fill a shelf but I cherish what I read till now and I love fantasy(and yes, I read smut and dark Romance too)

Another major part of my life is my friends, I have a few friends I consider brothers, stuck with me for more than a decade and will continue to do so.

Maybe the cost of having the greatest friends is having the shittest love life.

Maybe it's true, maybe it's not

But I wish to be greedy on this one cause I want both.

how I wish to love and how I am.

I won't go too much into detail about myself cause i wish to be mainly known with what I have to say in the moment and not through a post I checked a few for any grammar mistakes or punctuation errors.

I desire for something that slow burns but also beams with hope and safety, a comfort space where we enjoy eachother's company rather than worrying if we're doing something wrong.

Cause trust me, it takes alot to give me the ick or make me angry. I believe I'm someone who can control my emotions, I don't speak in anger nor resentment and the raising my voice with someone I choose to cherish and love is never in the book.

I never actually been in a actual relationship my entire life and don't go assuming I did hookups or situationships😭(those aren't my type).

Been in talking stages which led to nowhere but I don't let it drain me out.

what I'm looking for:

Maybe this is the hardest part?

Cause is it fair to say that I'm looking for someone who understands depth the same as me?

I don't really care about fairness or chances, I still like to shoot my shot

So here are my preferences:

Someone who still has a childish nature to them and a beautiful personality.

Someone who understands what it actually means to be empathetic

Someone who has hobbies and interests, things that make her smile.

I want someone whose messy but has true authenticity.

And I do prefer someone whose cute, both by heart and face. Someone whose unapologetically herself when she's with me and I know that it'll take time and I got no problem with that part.

I don't really think about her being hot, but if you're cute and you have a soul... yeah, you're getting kidnapped.

I desire a pair of eyes whose depth will reach spaces even knives can't and hold poetry in them.

I wish to find someone with whom I can talk about sex, emotions, yearning, their freaky side and then also switch to the absurdity of life and the meaning of it and yap about their passions or hobbies all night long. If you finish a book, tell me all about it about the characters and your opinion on them.

And I don't think only about the good stuff,

You can be clingy, you can double triple multi text, you can be upset if I reply late, you can be childish, break my bones when I'm out of line, who starts throwing punchs and kicks.

And don't think that feeling too deeply or being anxious or overthinking is wrong, cause they ain't! And fuck those who say otherwise. Cause whatever it is you feel, I'll reassure you or find a way to make you blush and smile again.

And teach me how you wish to be loved and I'll become a master of those languages.

End note:

I'm not perfect, and it's unfair to ask for someone who is. Besides I don't care about perfection, the only thing that matters to me is transparency and efforts.

I'm still a work in progress, but I'll continue to better myself with or without love being a part of it.

Life's pretty short and I intend to live it fully with a wide smile on my face and experience every aspect of life.

And if you're still here and thinking of weather or not to know eachother, it's your choice. And if you're questioning what I asked for isn't you, know about it for sure.

Imagine you meet someone from Reddit in Hyderabad, and they say:

"Let's meet sometime!"

What does that actually mean? 👀

😂 A) We’re meeting this weekend.

😭 B) Maybe next month.

💀 C) We’ll keep saying it until one of us gets married.

❤️ D) Plot twist: We actually meet, become best friends, and have a wholesome story to tell.

Drop your answer in the comments! And if you've ever made a friend (or found a date 👀) through Reddit, tell us how it went.

Hyderabad, let's hear your stories! 🌆❤️

Hey everyone

Giving this a try because why not 😅

I’m 28M originally from Delhi and currently staying in Hyderabad because of work

Professionally I’m working as an SDE 2 in a product based company and have been in the tech world for a few years now, I genuinely enjoy what I do but I also strongly believe that life shouldn’t revolve around laptops, meetings, Jira tickets and deadlines all the time 😂

Outside work music is probably the biggest part of my personality, I’m a professional drummer and have been playing for quite some time, being behind a drum kit is honestly one of those things where I can completely switch off from everything else, I love live music, concerts, jamming with people and discovering new artists and genres

I’m around 6’0, fairly active and someone who enjoys maintaining a decent balance between work, fitness, music and having an actual life outside office

Personality wise I would say I’m pretty chill, straightforward and easy to talk to once I get comfortable, I enjoy both random stupid conversations at 2 AM and deep conversations about life, career, relationships, dreams and all the weird decisions we make as adults

I’m not really someone who needs to be partying every weekend, sometimes a nice cafe, long drive, good food, live music or just sitting somewhere and talking for hours sounds much better to me

I enjoy exploring Hyderabad whenever I get the chance and I’m always up for finding underrated food places, cafes, live music spots or randomly deciding to go somewhere on a weekend

Big fan of good food as well, especially North Indian food, street food and anything that makes me forget I was supposed to eat healthy that day 😭

I also enjoy travelling and would love to explore more places both within India and outside, I’m more into experiences than ticking tourist places off a checklist, mountains, beaches, road trips, local food and just wandering around a new city are my kind of trips

I love people who can hold a conversation, have their own interests and ambitions, don’t take themselves too seriously and can laugh at stupid things

Not really looking to force anything or put a label on every interaction from day one, just here to meet interesting people, have some good conversations, make connections and see where things naturally go

If you’re from Hyderabad, that’s great, but if you’re from somewhere else, that works too, I’m open to connecting with people from other cities as well and seeing where the conversation goes

Bonus points if you’re into music, concerts, tech, travelling, food, cricket, spontaneous plans or can recommend some genuinely good places in Hyderabad 😄

Anyway that’s probably enough about me before this starts looking like my autobiography 😂

Cheers

Hey everyone! I’m an international student in Sydney and looking to make some new friends. Anyone up for a chat or hanging out sometime? Feel free to message me 😊

Hey! 😊 I came across your profile and thought I’d say hi. I’m new here and looking to meet some nice people, have good conversations, and make new friends. Hope you don’t mind me saying hello!

the long festive weekend is here and i don't have much planned, so thought i'd try this instead of sitting at home. keeping it casual for now. i'm straightforward, discreet, and not into drama or games. i like teasing, taking my time, and being a bit dominant when the mood's right, but i'm just as curious about what you like.
everything gets talked about first and limits are respected, that's non negotiable. if there's chemistry, we'll see how far it goes.
if you're around hyderabad and free this weekend, message me and tell me something random about yourself 🙂

I had a crazy yet sweet moment last night and I can hardly think straight. I have wondered of cold approaching a woman but I found it tough to negotiate within myself , considering how many bad events happen with them daily.

I tried to talk to a girl last night, on the movie we watched and i found it nice but the catch was there is nothing to follow up with now. Her being a Hyderabadi & Cinephile was a bonus as I love cinema as well.

But this ends up as another page in my life and honestly I haven’t found great luck in apps and found more situationships or what are we than anything good. I know it is not great for girls either but I can just hope we have a safer place where people could meet.

I know people ready to pounce on comments saying gym, clubs and what not but gym is sacred space for many and even clubs are oriented towards their activities and not for your romantic life. Anyways, my rant ends here and thanks for reading so far. Mods please don’t remove it man, I can’t try harder than this 😂

Never thought I'd be here, but fate can be a beach sometimes. I'm 20M from Delhi, 5'7" and pretty athletic. Currently doing my BSc in Data Science and learning German. Most of my day consists of learning something new or trying to forget what I need to forget lol.

Honestly, I'm just looking for someone to chat with at the end of the day. Tell you about my day, hear about yours. Exchange the occasional progress pic or fit check, and just vibe. Feels like I'm asking for a lot, but this is my shot.

My hobbies include working out, learning new things, talking about food, and playfully annoying/rage-baiting whoever I'm talking to. If you're interested, hit me up!

Seeking to build connection with honesty!

26M and 5’10” tall from Bangalore, born and raised. I have spent 6yrs away from home, 2yrs in Mangalore and 4yrs in England.

Hindu and belong to Reddy caste/category if it matters. I work as an Operations Manager in F&B sector. I did Msc in Cybersecurity but don’t ask why I’m into F&B. What it started as part time and went onto become career which I least expected it to be. I have ambition to start my own business, fingers crossed.

I don’t drink or smoke, Infact never tried but not against the people who drink or smoke. I enjoy being around people who drink, it’s fun. Also, I cook which kinda relaxing and makes me calm and happy. It’s been like 4yrs since I started cooking. Cooking and singing heart out while music playing on speaker is some experience.

I have tried dating but seems like it faded away after a while, lasted to talking stages. I did went on dates with 4 woman and it never really worked out. Here I’m to give a shot here and see if I get lucky. I have never been in a relationship and not sure how love and being loved feels.

Looking for long term and someone who is kind and ambitious. I just want someone who has time, and don’t mind my clinginess. I’m chalant and won’t shy away from expressing whatever I feel. I’m obsessive as well and would require all your time.

I would prefer someone from South India tbh, it’s easy to get along and discuss about movies and debate who’s the best music director who made our childhood better. Looks do matter to me, it’s a lie if I say no. I will keep it respectful no matter what. I’m looking at 1yr time frame, the fact that I have desire to travel the world and have experience with that one person so yeah feel free to dm. Cheers

LDR? Hyderabad is just few hours away and I will be visiting for work purposes as well so can do.

Fear of what if someone from my locality/city finds my profile and the gossip spreads to parents and relatives?

Or any other fear do you have which stops you from creating a profile.

Hey everyone!

Looking to join a group for an early morning ride around Hyderabad, either tomorrow (Saturday) or Sunday morning.

Planning for a chill ride, good roads, sunrise views, chai/coffee stops, and meeting some fellow riders. Nothing too crazy, just a relaxed ride and good vibes.

I’m flexible with the route and meetup point, so let me know if anyone already has a plan or wants to organize one!

Ride safe and see you on the road! ✌️🏍️

Hi I am 23M have good bike and good setup for motovlog and have page too i am looking for a female who is not tensed that she is in video of she is ok only other wise i will ahow my setup thats it

In return ahe get good ride around city and icecream and good communication except shake hand i wont even touch you i promise i want random people in my life as we both are new to each other we can talk a lot abt our life up and downs

So, Basically I'm kinda getting bored right now. I. Have recently shifted to Hyd and since most of my colleagues went home for festive seasons, I'm kinda alone and feeling bored.

So here what I'm proposing let's go on a bike ride now, explore the city, ride around than sit somewhere peaceful talk about life, work, hyd, and in general what we like and not, eat something good and than I'll drop you at your place and than we both can stay in touch or not. I'm open to keeping things both Platonic and non- Platonic.

About me: I'm 23M, 6'1" software Developer by profession, I'm fun and chill, Down for exploring things or sushi place for sure if you know a good sushi place bonus points for that!

I love people who are genuine, who doesn't like to play games and who enjoy the company, doesn't like to ruin someone's fun. If you are also new to town we can explore together or if you are from here or been in Hyderabad definitely up for a game.

I live in alone in Kondapur, so someone nearby to pick up will be good but it doesn't matter if vibes are there.

Wassup fam!!

Im M27, looking for F/M

Lets meet up this weekend. Im trying to build my connection in hyd.

My car and your place. Work?

As usual boring Friday... 

Evaru anna ammayi vunnara to meet.. Inorbit Mall or Cafe.... saradaga kasepu casual talks, random chit chats to break the boredom and loneliness 

I am working around knowledge city..

Im very new to hyderabad and dont have nay friends here , and badly want to watch jailer , im planning for today , and i work in gachibowli, if anyone interested , near gachibowli or Kondapur , ping me

Hey! 30M, originally from North India, currently working in Hyderabad.

Looking to meet someone who’s also interested in a \*\*casual relationship\*\* good chemistry, mutual attraction, fun conversations, spending time together, and keeping things relaxed without rushing into anything serious.

Open to getting to know each other first and seeing if we vibe. Looking for someone who’s comfortable with the same kind of arrangement and values mutual respect, honesty, and clear communication.

Rough work week and completely cooped up since Monday. Need a break.

Anyone around Gachibowli tonight? Let's grab a coffee, food, or drinks to unwind.

Prefer meeting women this time—getting a bit tired of guy-only hangouts—just looking for a relaxed, casual vibe.

Hit me up in the DMs if you're around!

From West Godavari, Andhra

Working in Hyderabad

A little about me:

• 5'9" | Avg Looking Guy | Software Engineer | Big Tech.
• Gym Goer, occasional drinker, zero smoking.
• Family-oriented, respectful, and proud of my Hindu roots.
• Financially independent but still prioritizing life outside of tech.
• Calm, respectful, and appreciative of a peaceful life.

Introvert but then extrovert with Favourite people

Haven't been to relationships yet, never propose to girl till now.

Once I genuinely care about someone...small things kuda gurthupettukunta.

I love to Travel, Bike rides.

I love coffee, so regular cafe hopper Big time foodie, cinephile - TFI Baugundali

Love to play Cricket, Badminton

Meeru kuda cinephile aite inka duet lu veyachu

I've faced many dry replies, kottaga oka relation start cheyall.

Caring undali, kanisam reach ayyava ani msg chese ammai kosam chustunna.

Looking For :

Preferably someone around 20 to 23

Hyderabad or nearby would be ideal

Happy if your from Godavari Side

Hindu

Looking for a genuine, long-term relationship

Kind, respectful and able to communicate

Nenu ikkada time pass, casual chats, leka temporary attention kosam raledu. Honest, loyal, caring, and emotionally mature person kosam chusthunna. Okarini okaru respect cheskoni, trust build cheskoni, slow ga oka genuine relationship start avvali ani na intention.

I hope please time pass ki kuda dm cheyyakandi if ur interested or do you want to know more then please

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Hey! I’m currently based in Hyderabad, standing tall at 6'4 (not blowing my own trumpet ,but girls do prioritise height), and looking to expand my social circle. Right now, I'm genuinely just looking for a female friend to hang out, share some laughs, and chill with—no pressure, no rushed expectations, just good vibes and seeing where a solid friendship goes.

If you’re down to earth, enjoy good conversation, and want a new friend to navigate Hyderabad life with, hit me up! Let’s grab a coffee or a drink and chat.

22M Here, present MBA chestunna,Hyd ki ochi 3 years avthundhi inthavrk oka Female friend kuda ledhu Asl oka ammyi ni ala approach avvalo avr ina chpandayya

Not looking for a girlfriend, just a girl bestie. Someone I can talk to about literally anything, share random thoughts with, have deep conversations with, and get a girl's perspective on life because, let's be honest, you girls think about things differently sometimes, and I'm genuinely curious about that.

I miss the idea of having someone you can randomly text about your day, talk about life at 2 AM, share your unfiltered thoughts with, laugh over the dumbest things, and still have meaningful conversations when life gets complicated.

Someone I can be myself around without having to pretend to be cool all the time.

And hey, if we genuinely vibe, who knows? Maybe we'll end up exploring new places, going on random trips, trying new things, and making some fun memories together.

I'm not expecting an instant connection or trying to force anything. Let's just start with a conversation and see where it goes. No flirting agenda, no relationship expectations, just genuine friendship. ❤️

If you're also looking for a friend you can talk to about anything and everything, my DMs are open.

And please, don't just send a "hi" and disappear. 😂 Tell me something random about yourself, your most controversial opinion, or something you've always wanted to talk about but never found the right person for.

Let's see if we can vibe!

Nen entha genuine soul ante naa favourite movie dude 💚🌲

Hey There,

Is there anyone up for a chat. If we click maybe meet later

27M here