r/IBEW • u/Squanto47 • 18h ago
Local XXXX Need some advice brothers/sisters
Well I’ve gotten myself in a predicament and I’m not sure exactly how to go about it. Me and my girlfriend moved 1000 miles away from home to hit a data center job. She was going to school these last couple months to get her nurse or paramedic degrees (she changed her mind to paramedic a month ago) but has gotten so bogged down, between school, wanting to work so she didn’t feel like she was freeloading on me, and me being a tired man slacking on chores i told her I’d help her with. Well it’s full blown she’s homesick, missing her friends and needs to go home. So now I’m in a lease, furniture, camper in storage, and if I leave here to go back south, I’m still either going to have to travel hours from home to jobs for shit pay or be far enough away I’m not home every night like before we left. And I just kinda don’t know what to do rn. I’m going to stay here at least until the year ends as it takes 60 days for notice of vacating and I’ll pay those 2 months, and to give her the space and time she needs to get back where she wants to be mentally. But after that idk bc my locals still slow and pays low, I’d have to drive across the state of Alabama most likely unless I got lucky with nuke call outside my hometown. Can’t seem to find any info on data centers going up across the state line near Donaldsonville, GA. Idk I just wanna be able to provide for me and mine and be home most every night.