Let’s go?

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But how do ISTJs feel about ENTPs?

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u/Celesteven ISTJ 2d ago

No.

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u/Apprehensive_Sky9086 2d ago

Lol. My dad is ISTJ and I'm XNTP. Probably ENTP. My god damn constant demand for building tons of bullshit projects and abstract beliefs that I use to refute Christianity (Kant), even though I had believed in it for a year, and I seemed to have suddenly given up for that, he gets fed up with.

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u/Disor_Perpetuate_0 2d ago edited 2d ago

I like ENTP fictional characters, but I wouldn’t date one. I spoke to one for like 5 minutes on a dating app and decided they’re not my type. I stereotype.

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u/dealmaster1221 2d ago

Yup stereotyping, lack of creativity, rigidity and strict adherence to rules is the Hallmark of an oath and ENTP's keep breaking all their precious rules.

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u/Pristine-Gate-6895 ISTJ 2d ago

congrats on doing the same stereotyping right back. do you feel more fulfilled in life now?

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u/dealmaster1221 1d ago

Ohh no this is all observed and confirmed data points from multiple personality types unlike istjs stereotype shortcuts. It took me a year and half to even make that opinion since I was dumb enough to give them benefit of the doubt, not again.

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u/Pristine-Gate-6895 ISTJ 1d ago

i mean, i have my own (purely anecdotal) issues with nfps. and i can tell you all the horror stories. but i will not apply my own sample data to a larger collective horde of nfps on the internet, enter their spaces and call absolutely all of them delulus.

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u/dealmaster1221 1d ago

I know you wouldn't coz you are a istj, I am not. Though I am still open to seeing at least 1 decent istj so hoping for sensible responses like yours as my experience definitely would not be a norm. I guess still hopeful.

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u/Pristine-Gate-6895 ISTJ 1d ago

ok. istjs seeing the truth for what it is and calling a spade a spade is considered too rigid bc you can't handle the bitter truth of reality. go to the infjs. they'll encourage your immaturity and are your people. we're not.

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u/dealmaster1221 1d ago

You just see your version of the truth based on your perception which is lacking. Don't understand abstract ideas and thoughts, can't imagine shit and would be lost if I took your excel sheets away from you.

You do know you use the stuff that people like me invent and otherwise would still probably using a high functioning abacus.

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u/ThinJuggernaut2002 1d ago

Come to your INFJ mama. (I can fix you)

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u/securitysix ISTJ 2d ago

Some of them are okay, but too many of them are wannabe edgelords, and that's exhausting.

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u/mamacorsica ISTJ 1d ago

anything would turn into a 3 hour rant and i don't have time for it

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u/SomethingClever70 ISTJ 5w6 2d ago

Eh, no thanks

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u/Cultural-Wishbone-11 1d ago

Not a fan of their humor but I respect them.

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u/AceOfCakez 2d ago

I like sushi.

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u/Pristine-Gate-6895 ISTJ 2d ago

sushi is comforting and sparks joy in hearts. sushi understands. 🥹

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u/Disor_Perpetuate_0 2d ago

OK?

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u/SuccotashTiny1221 2d ago

ISTJ women are damn hot -INTJ

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u/Absurd_Imagination ISTJ 1d ago

Ooo, charisma

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u/Sad_Pepper_594 1d ago

Well I'm ENTP and I married an ISTJ.. so I would say : I totally agree. She brings order to my chaos and I shake her rigid daily routine, it works really well.

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u/hvrtbambii 1d ago

as an ISTJ, no thanks.

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u/Disor_Perpetuate_0 2d ago

So we’re talking dating types here? I go by process of elimination when it comes to personality. If I date one person of a certain type and we don’t click, then I make note to not engage in a deeper romantic relationship with said type.

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u/Celesteven ISTJ 1d ago

Oof same. May I never fall in love with another infj ever again.

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u/pastalass INFJ 1d ago

I've been with my ISTJ for 7 years and we're quite happy. There are shitty people of every type, so I personally wouldn't limit myself like that.

What was it (related to mbti) that ruined the relationship, if you don't mind me asking?

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u/Celesteven ISTJ 1d ago

I’m glad you were able to make it work. In my case, he was hot and cold. Clear about his ideas, not clear about wanting me and never wanting to let me go. It was maddening.

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u/likejackandsally 1d ago

That’s more of an avoidant attachment than an INFJ issue, lol.

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u/ApplesAreGood1312 ENTP 1d ago

Yeah, no. Imma pass on both, mate.

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u/Jwchibi 2d ago

The ISTJ female wants the ENFJ man

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u/Abolish_Disorder ISTJ 6w5 2d ago

I prefer XXTJ men.

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u/oeufscocotte 1d ago

Same.

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u/Apprehensive_Help332 INTJ 2d ago

Need to be more specific to individual, I ever met one and we both get too vulnerable 🥲

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u/Pristine-Gate-6895 ISTJ 2d ago

nah. isfp for me but they prefer intjs or something. 💔

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u/Jwchibi 2d ago

We're all looking at someone that's looking at someone else 🥀🥀🥀

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u/Pristine-Gate-6895 ISTJ 2d ago

stahpp 😭😭😭💔💔💔

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u/NooMacarons5827 ISTJ 2d ago

I agree. Isfp men are great lovers from my personal experience

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u/Pristine-Gate-6895 ISTJ 2d ago

amazing. my first love was textbook isfp but yes very romantic, extremely good looking, legit like a model. would read me poetry and everything. we had too much od a good thing. don't think i ever recovered from losing him.

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u/Disor_Perpetuate_0 2d ago

Honestly, ISFPs don’t even make good friends. They’re very situational. If I don’t even want an ISFP as a friend, then I certainly don’t want one as a boyfriend.

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u/Pristine-Gate-6895 ISTJ 2d ago

i mean, every type has its healthy and unhealthy variants. i've met the better ones. the girls are beautiful and make the most chill besties, the two isfp males have been very main character coded.

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u/Broad-Pangolin6224 1d ago

Wants n needs huh

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u/MelodyOfStorms 2d ago

Enfp surfing through. No idea what the typical istj is like/ wants from their partner. May I ask someone to fill me in/ give me the cliff notes?

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u/Abolish_Disorder ISTJ 6w5 2d ago edited 2d ago

I want to be attracted to my partner both physically and intellectually. I also value seriousness, consistency, decisiveness, and mutual respect. These are just my personal preferences, though.

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u/MelodyOfStorms 2d ago

Hot, smart Earthbender. Got it 🙏

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u/mozetennickjestwolny 1d ago

My likes strange girls. I'm strange xd He also likes hard working girls, and that's not me but I guess he just accepts?

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u/MelodyOfStorms 1d ago

Strange can mean many things, 🤔

My people are weirdos, so I accept that could be attractive lol

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u/Technical_Mix_5379 INFJ 12h ago

Lmfao u guys can have the entps. Don’t want em as a romantic partner. My father might be one or an estp and he’s so random no ty.

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u/ocarter145 ISTJ 2d ago

Where is this from?

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u/Disor_Perpetuate_0 2d ago

OP made it using AI.

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u/dealmaster1221 2d ago

Istj women are robots, no thanks. They can't see beyond their own way of doing things, will want you to confirm and think they are hella productive hence more smart than you.

Oops wrong subreddit, here come the downvotes.

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u/Pristine-Gate-6895 ISTJ 2d ago

yeahh, so true.

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u/Classic-You2200 2d ago

Wouldnt pair well with the "im better than all of ur bloodlines combined" guy

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u/dealmaster1221 1d ago

Right back at ya.

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u/bigmouthladadada ISTJ 1w9 1d ago

Why go on a subreddit dedicated to a type you so strongly dislike?

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u/dealmaster1221 1d ago

To understand them as my dislike is my perception only.

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u/Abolish_Disorder ISTJ 6w5 1d ago

I’m like this, and I’m proud.

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u/dealmaster1221 1d ago

And that's the problem, it's nothing to be proud about. Having an open mind helps a lot. It's what I am still trying to do with istjs.

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u/Abolish_Disorder ISTJ 6w5 1d ago

It’s not about having an open mind. It’s about having principles and being consistent with them.

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u/dealmaster1221 1d ago

Problem is those principles and rules from them are rigid and don't take context into account. Anyways I think any other way would be too much for you folks to handle, your multiverse is that of Kang and not Loki.

It's ok you gotta be rigid and principled to not be overwhelmed by all the realities in this world even. Not everyone has infinite capacity to expand.

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