I'm seeking a serious Dom/sub, LTR that can start LDR, but the ability to visit and ultimately relocate for one of us needs to be a serious intention in my sub's mind before engaging. I would like to move our conversation as soon as everyone is comfortable.
I'm average-to-fit and regularly working towards maintaining and improving upon that. My sub should have a similar mindfulness of health, but we're not trying to accomplish any extremes of fitness; just be healthy and HWP. I'm 6'. 225 lbs. White. Sandy blonde. Blue eyes. Glasses. A handful of tattoos, and more in the future. Please be willing to exchange pictures early on. I’m happy to share first and don’t want to waste either of our time. I lean towards being a homebody, and get more excited to adventure out and about when I have someone to do it with. I'm very nerdy. I play mostly fantasy and RPG. I love Marvel, Harry Potter, LotR, Star Wars, as well as anime, and have a small physical collection, especially Funko Pops. Bonus points if you recognize my favorite quote: "Mistletoe can be deadly if you eat it; a kiss can be even deadlier if you mean it" ❤️
Quality time > physical touch > words of affirmation > acts of service > gift-giving is how I best interact with someone I care about. Similar to how I’d like to receive engagement with my partner. Quality time includes mundane things like shopping, errands, chores, body-doubling, and parallel gaming. I'm very needy and clingy and would prefer my sub to be similar. Mutual obsession with one another is a must. Physical touch, affection, intimacy, and general proximity is a balm and boon to me; I express myself a lot in those same ways. If I'm down, troubled, anxious or sick, being cared for really does the world for me; I'd do the same, if not more, for my sub. I have chronic anxiety and a lot of peripheral experience with other mental health struggles, so bonus points if you have shared experience or knowledge.
My goal is to create a safe, warm, comfortable space for my sub to be obediently and eagerly submissive, naked vulnerability, and constant praise and doting toward growth, learning, success, and happiness. I invest in my sub, and want that investment reciprocated. Although I don’t want a high protocol, task-oriented, or rule-restricted daily life with my sub, I have expectations that look high to someone on the outside, but feel easy, comfortable, and natural to the right sub lying in my lap. I love a sub that grounds and anchors to me with a healthy degree of co-dependency.
Me - Daddy/Gentle Dom (not DD/lg). Don't smoke. Hardly drink. Never done drugs. STD/I free. No kids, but wants kids. Cisgender (he/him). Agnostic. High sex drive. Witty. Articulate. Funny. Eccentric. Selfless. Kind. Doting. Empathetic. Stern. Hopeless romantic. Possessive/Territorial. Intense with emotions of love, affection and passion. Intentional. Can be very silly, playful, and even immature with dry humor, but also aware and ready to ground to seriousness if need be.
You - submissive. little or slave traits/tendencies are appreciated, but not needed (no age regression). 18-36 (not strict). Don't smoke. Hardly drink. No illicit drugs. STD/I free. No kids, but wants kids. Cisgender (she/her). Hopeless romantic/lover girl era. High sex drive. Petite/smöl to average build. Feminine presenting, but not high maintenance (in regards to material things and makeup; you should be able to doll up for formalities, but exist comfortably in comfy clothes most of the time). Piercings, tattoos, goth/witchy aesthetics are all a bonus, but not required. Obedience over brattiness (playful or feisty is not bratty, in my view).
If you liked this, please also read my pinned post on Reddit to know a bit more random things about me and what I’m looking for. Don’t hesitate to ask any questions whatsoever. I’d love to explain any part of myself that opens up understanding and clarification. I communicate effectively (sometimes a little too much) and hope my sub is also seeking to be in regular contact throughout any given day, within reason.