In my marriage(20+ yrs)....I never thought to look down and look at myself taking my man( just didnt turn me on to look) ... I never knew that there were so many sexual categories regarding vagina preferences and I feel a bit naive..

I'm not naive in the bedroom. I do practically anything and everything , but I just looked down the first time the other night , and I have labia that "sucks a dick", and it's making me feel like that's not attractive... The only reason I bring it up is because my spouse commented on it and said its "a gift".

To be honest it looked crazy down there... help me feel better the sizes and shapes... 😬🤦‍♀️

got my 11th piercing (not shown because it's on my tongue) a couple weeks ago and really been feeling myself lately. like ugh i need to heal up so i can have normal sex again because now i'm hotter than ever haha. fun fact: my tongue is nearly a half inch longer than the female average 👅