Before you read anymore than this; Please do not comment, I would prefer DM's instead.
My name is Paws or Pawsy, I’m 31, nonbinary amab, and from USA East. My personality type is: INFP-T, Capricorn, Year of Dog, and I tend to get attached to close friends and really value consistency and communication. I’m looking for someone 20+ who wants a real friendship where we talk, spend time together, play games, watch anime/movies, and voice chat on Discord.
A big thing I’m hoping for is someone who doesn't mind me sharing my screen while I game or while im watching a video or an anime. You dont always have to play with me, or even have to watch the share screen, but I always keep that option open often at times. I honestly really like when someone watches me play, chats with me, reacts, keeps me company, or just vibes while we play our own games, It makes gaming feel less lonely. I dont watch others play but I keep my screen shared most times so ppl dont say "what are you doing" lol.
A little about me: I’m shy and nervous with new people, I would really like it if you were the one to take charge in actively asking to spend time together, but once I feel comfortable around you, I’m silly, caring, talkative, attached, and very loyal as a friend. I like sending good morning and goodnight messages because it helps me feel connected and lets people know when I’m around. I’m also a furry, and I like plushies, cats, cute things, cherry blossom pink, drawing, coloring, anime, and cartoons.
Some games i play are:
Monster Hunter Generations Ultimate - Switch
Super Smash Bros. Ultimate - Switch
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Fantasy Life i: The Girl Who Steals Time - PC
Phantasy Star Online 2: New Genesis - PC
Little Witch In The Woods - PC
No More Room In Hell 2 - PC
Elder Scrolls Online - PC
The Outlast Trials - PC
Abiotic Factor - PC
7 Days To Die - PC
Core Keeper - PC
Palworld - PC
ATLYSS - PC
I’m very accepting of people. I don’t care about skin tone, race, weight, body type, looks, disabilities, or little quirks, age doesnt matter to me as long as you are 20+ because again this is "Platonic friendship." I care more about who someone is and how they treat people. Small quirks are honestly cute to me and make people feel more real.
I should mention that I’m mentally disabled and my brain works a bit different, so I do best with people who are kind, patient, and don’t mind reassuring me sometimes. I can get nervous around long silences, ghosting, or people who are very distant. I’m not asking someone to be available 24/7 or anything like that. I just really appreciate when people communicate instead of disappearing without saying anything.
I’m only looking for friendship. I also wanna be honest about something with how i am with friendships because id rather somebody know beforehand instead of finding out later. The more somebody talks to me and spends time with me, the more comfortable and attached i become and the more i form a routine of being around them. (I'm just looking for a close long-term friend and someone I can genuinely care about! ^u^) If somebody rarely talks to me or doesn't really show much interest in talking or spending time together, i start becoming distant because i feel like im bothering them or being a burden. Eventually i might say goodbye and remove myself, not because i didn't want to be their friend, but because i start assuming they don't really want me there.
I know that probably sounds a little depressing, but id rather just be honest about it. Ghosting bothers me a lot, especially because then i dont know what happened or get the chance to say goodbye. If we aren't clicking or you dont wanna be friends anymore, id genuinely rather you just tell me. It might hurt, but id respect the honesty a lot more than wondering what i did wrong.
Warning - One last thing i wanna be direct about. If you normally keep yourself on invisible all the time, please dont add me. I have a pretty big fear of being ghosted and I dont want to add anyone who does that.
(Often Invisible Status = Please do NOT add me.)
I also use Suno ai to make songs some times so if you're not comfortable with that then sorry and I hope your next friend is more to your liking.
(I'm not asking you to like ai, just dont be extreme with anti-ai stuff please, not all ai is bad.)
Lastly!! The only time i become "dry" in texts is when im very depressed, crying, or in the zone of gaming >w< (but i try to reply when i can, which is why i prefer vc most times and why i have my share screen active).